Chrissy C.
Abelism towards Autism
I'm autistic. I called Unitedhealthcare to ask about Autism services. They paired me with an "advocate". She basically told me that she's been a nurse for over 30 years and my symptoms aren't bad enough for any coverage of services offered. Because "I was having a conversation with her" and "I have children" so I am clearly "an able caretaker." It was never her job to diagnose me. I have a doctor for that. It was extremely inappropriate. I have level 1 ASD, or what used to be called asbergers. Just because I'm eloquent doesn't mean I don't desperately need medical support. I understand if United doesn't offer certain things, but there is no excuse for the way she spoke to me, seemingly dismissing my autism. It was ableist and ignorant. She tried to educate me about how other people with ASD need help speaking and other such things. Obviously. I've been researching ASD for years. I know I'm privileged being level 1, but I also go nonverbal for days and suffer from severe selective mutism. Just politely say there's nothing they can do according to my policy instead of rattling on about things that you clearly don't understand.

