Love At First FightReviews of loveatfirstfight.com

I’m not finished with the course yet, but I’m already seeing positive results. My husband and I have been married 39 years and are in our late 60s. I wish I had this course 39 years ago! I am watching the videos by myself, but my husband has agreed to read my notes and do the workbooks with an open mind. (And for a man who never wants to talk about “feelings,” that’s a huge step.) I have a greater understanding of relationship dynamics and why we behave like we do. I have adapted a more empathetic view of my husband and myself. I’ve also seen things in my behavior that I can change to grow us closer. I’m very hopeful about our future. I think this course should be taught in high school!

We are only half course complete and it is amazing to see the difference in our communication skills, Im very positive for a better lasting relationship now ,thank you

I was skeptical, and I am a complete believer! The content is rich, intense, and well put together. From a degree in Psychology to many years work in industries that were customer/people centric, I thought I’d heard it all. Boy, was I wrong! This program is worth it’s weight in gold. Thank you Bruce and team,this information will enrich the quality of my life, my marriage and the life of my family for years to come!

So far this course has been very helpful. It helps us communicate in a way we can be heard. But most importantly, it gives tools, ways of avoiding the high level conflict. I have a better understanding of what makes my partner tick and he has expressed I have become more calm. It’s a program which takes hours every week and introspection. It’s a commitment! I believe my connection has deepened with my partner but also with myself.

Bruce takes a lot of very dense scientific knowledge about relationship dynamics and not only delivers it in an easy to digest format, but he has also created training that applies this knowledge directly to your relationship in practice. The practice is the learning and the set-up itself motivates you to do it. I am starting to see pieces coming together and seeing small but meaningful change and the potential for that change to be both highly disruptive, and also profoundly freeing with a surprising and deeply moving benefit of improving connection to my partner AND connection to myself despite my ongoing challenges. I can tell that Bruce is a skilled coach, and the value of this course which gets people to learn emotional intelligence and start healing their oldest wounds is probably the most important learning I've ever done.

This is one of the best investments I have ever made. I wish this material could be taught in all high schools and it would avoid so much unnecessary pain. I have learned so much about myself and my husband and I am listening better than I ever have before. The information has been so helpful that we went from feeling no hope, to feeling like we can overcome our triggers and be the best version of ourselves possible. I highly recommend this course to everyone. It is true that only if one partner makes changes you can turn a relationship around. I am so grateful for the help I received and the program has been so helpful. After 21 years of marriage we are starting to feel closer and are going away for our anniversary after years of no dates or meaningful connection.

Life.....its a maze! Relationships even more so! What we don't understand far outweighs what we do! You're here because you're, no doubt, in a similar boat the everyone else here, but mainly you're here because at least you want to save your relationship and you're wondering if this may be the one amongst them all for you. For me.... yes, it looks like it is but I'll dive deeper. Bear with me and take the time to read and digest as your choice may define what happens to you and your significant other.. Starting point for me. Bruce' free webinar (1.5hrs) popped up on my facebook feed with literally 3 minutes to register...I did (procrastinating from work stuff maybe) His video will likely shock you as, if you've found your way here, then your relationship is likely in trouble as mine is/was. Find, register for and watch the free webinar video first - it does seem to crop up a lot on Facebook. Yes, its probably prerecorded (sorry Bruce - I'm an IT guy (aka pedant) so did a quick couple of checks about that session I attended) but that does not detract from how it may hit home...From that you'll come away with masses of insight and may even be able to start reconnecting..... not a guarantee, but.... So, I am only in week 1 of the paid for course itself, yes the webinar convinced me that it was worth a try. That said and despite the fact my partner and I were probably all but over the edge and the relationship as good as over, we are now talking again and it is two way communication. The pressures and demands have already stopped. Early success some would say. There are no givens in this, or any other method, but if the webinar resonates with you then you may find this course useful. I haven't subscribed in to the live group sessions but I have enrolled in The Conflict Cure, Relationships DeMystified and All Aboard and (just in case we had gone over the edge) Trust Again. I have also gone for the annual subscription so I can review content when I feel I may need refreshing (at least I think that's how it works). Anyway, as everyone will no doubt agree, there are 1,001 courses and approaches out there. None are a given! I looked at one from Liven - they have a 30 day money back guarantee which I did invoke after only 2 days. Pay through PayPal as they can be difficult but do refund after some backwards and forwards. I looked at other ones and their descriptions but they just didn't fit. Then I attended Bruce' Free Webinar - it could have almost been one on one, it was that close to describing in minutia what was happening between my partner and I. Personal therapy sessions with a coach or psychotherapist, the good ones, can cost £1,000k's quickly, again with no givens. This course, for me, represents superb value for money...I may well do the group sessions later, but for now the course itself is enough and has already opened doors, both in me and my mind and also within my relationship with my partner. This appears to be the best option and course for me and my circumstance probably barring personal psychotherapy or coaching sessions. I may well go deeper but this has certainly opened doors for me at this point. I get that any given course or session may not be suited to every one but, lets be honest, success in our relationships is not guaranteed no matter what we do or don't do....if someone really really wants to go then no amount of money, therapy, training or changing habits of a lifetime will work. That's a sad truth. So, how much is your relationship worth? Mine, being honest is worth everything! If that means thousands with a one to one therapist then so be it but, if I can invest a couple of hundred now, and see results already, isn't that worth a try before going down other paths? Again, there are no givens no matter what I may invest in to improving myself (that's it, myself, not my partner...Me!) Although it may feel like it, I'm not advertising for Bruce, but if the free webinar resonates with you strongly enough to be here, then what's a couple of hundred to try and save your relationship or marriage? Give it 7 weeks, do as he says and, if it doesn't work and you've fulfilled the requirements, then you can likely get your money back anyway. But, if it doesn't work then things may be far far more gone than you though and your partner may not be wanting to re-engage and the reasons behind that could be a lot lot different to what you are being presented with. What have you go to lose? A couple of hundred £ or $'s What have you got to gain - your partner, lover, soulmate.... I think that's enough said. Thanks Bruce even for just where I've reached now. I don't write a lot of reviews so this review speaks volumes! You need to add a dot between the A and V in the email address to get the one I registered for your course.

Dear Bruce My husband and I (both early 60’s) have been together for nearly 17 years and married for 12 (my 2nd marriage and his first). After about 12 years on an emotional rollercoaster of me “hailstorming” (as an expat South African, I am sure you know what I mean) and him “turtling”, I asked him to move out at the end of January 2025. I thought that if he would just plan dates, everything would be solved. We were both heartbroken as we wanted to be together but neither of us was having our needs met and we weren’t happy. After a lot of “Googling”, a video about your course and your masterclass appeared in my Facebook feed. Having major trust issues, I was very skeptical about being ripped off. My husband agreed to watch the masterclass with me and afterwards he decided that it would be beneficial to sign up for the Conflict Cure. We are now in week 4 and our relationship has never been better. We hit a bit of a speedbump during week 3, but after starting the Safety Module and working through the exercises on escape hatches, attachment styles, hard and soft emotions and then moving onto week 4 – The Needs Module, our relationship is in the best shape it has ever been in. My husband will be moving back into the house as soon as his lease is up and we are looking forward to living together again. I have recommended this course for anyone having relationship difficulties. If our marriage can be saved, then anyone's relationship can be saved. Thank you for creating a course that lives up to its name, it really is The Conflict Cure. Regards Kelly