At Love At First Fight, we provide a proven, research-based alternative to couples counseling, so you can improve your relationship or marriage quickly.With over 20,000 marriages and relationships transformed, we help struggling couples move past their differences, resolve conflict and get back on the same page together.We believe that love isn’t a mystery; it’s a skill you can learn.Imagine a world where every couple has the tools to navigate conflict with ease - raising children who grow up knowing what deep, secure love feels like. That’s the future we're building one couple at a time.
Love At First Fight (loveatfirstfight.com) has 281 customer reviews on Five Star Index, with an average rating of 4.8 out of 5.
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2026
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This program is well structured and the content is well researched and applicable to the struggles we all face in relationships. It’s helped my partner and I to feel more connected, and less like our struggles are something we can’t work through. We’ve gained more confidence to work through the bumps with a renewed sense of commitment and care for each other through this process.
Response from Love At First FightMay 29, 2025
I'm so glad the structure and tools helped you two feel more like a team again. Well done! Thanks for taking the time to share this. Bruce.
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Anonymous
It's oversimplified and ineffective
I believe the system is over simplified. I feel like it doesn't account for people that were in the Mature Love stage but fell out of it for a number of reasons. me and my partner had a well-established mature love. It also doesn't address sexual imbalance or lack of attraction in a partner. It makes everyone feel as if you are meant to be no matter what. What if you don't feel that anymore. In that case, the program creates great friendships and support systems but doesn't create spark and passion. For me it's helping rebuild a friendship. Also the 4 minute staring thing loses it's effect after a week. Then its just annoying.
Response from Love At First FightMay 23, 2025
Hey, I'm really sorry to hear that your experience with The Conflict Cure didn't match your expectations, and I want to thank you for taking the time to share such a thoughtful review.
I can feel how much effort you’ve put into your relationship, and it matters to me that you feel supported. I appreciate the opportunity to address your concerns.
If you're open to it, I’d love to personally connect with you. No charge. Just reach out through the contact page on my website and let’s set up a quick call. I want to hear you, understand what you’re going through, and help you make a difference in your relationship, so that you can get the value you hoped for out of the course.
Also, allow me to offer some clarity that might help frame your experience a little differently:
The Conflict Cure is designed for couples navigating the Power Struggle stage — that emotionally intense part of the journey where misunderstandings and disconnection tend to dominate. It sounds like you and your partner may have been in a different place: navigating the question of how to revive a love that once felt deeply secure. For that kind of challenge, our Better Together course may have been a better fit — it’s specifically created to help couples in long-term relationships reignite collaborationm, keep desire alive, and create a shared purpose (all hallmarks of the Mature Love stage).
You also mentioned sexual imbalance and lack of attraction. That’s a hugely important topic, and you’re right - The Conflict Cure doesn’t focus on that directly. It's intentionally centered on rebuilding emotional safety, resolving conflict, and getting partners back in sync. In my experience, those are the conditions where sensuality and attraction have the best chance to naturally reawaken. I do offer other programs that speak specifically to physical intimacy, sexual imbalance and lack of attraction, once a foundation of trust is in place.
And that feeling of “maybe we’re just meant to be” - it’s something a lot of couples experience as they begin feeling more emotionally connected again. And, my approach isn’t about insisting that every couple should stay together. It’s about creating the clarity, tools, and emotional connection to make that choice from a grounded, conscious place. Sometimes that leads to renewed intimacy, and sometimes to a peaceful parting (usually the former). What matters most is that it’s a choice made with awareness and care.
On the eye-gazing ritual... thank you for that reflection. Like many practices that build connection over time (like journaling, meditation, or stretching), it can feel repetitive or even frustrating at first. That’s totally normal. The impact tends to show up gradually, especially after a few weeks of consistency. And if it doesn’t feel like the right fit for you, that’s okay too. Not every tool works for every couple, and part of the journey is discovering what helps you both reconnect most meaningfully. That's why I present multiple connection rituals for you to try.
Finally, I want you to know that I care about your outcome. Whether you found exactly what you were looking for in this course or not, you invested in your relationship, and that already makes you a rare kind of human. I see that, and I respect it.
If you’re willing, I’d be honored to chat with you and offer you some support or guidance. Just reach out. I'm here to help.
Warmly,
Bruce
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Eileen
I have one more session to go
I have one more session to go. It's very insightful and provides a lot of very helpful information. The sessions are very flexible. I wish I had known about this course sooner.
Response from Love At First FightMay 22, 2025
Thanks Eileen. I'm so glad it's been insightful for you and that the flexibility worked with your life. Thanks for the kind words. I wish you'd found it sooner too. Bruce.
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JB
The course is a lot of work but it’s…
The course is a lot of work but it’s worth it! I’m learning so much about myself and my partner.. for example, why we react the way we do, our attachment styles, and how to have a reflective conversation that make us feel heard and understood and much, much more. Thank you Bruce!
Response from Love At First FightMay 22, 2025
JB, it is a lot of work, but it sounds like you're discovering some powerful things about each other. Thank you for sticking with it and for sharing this. Bruce.
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Claire M.
This course is saving our marriage
This course is really helping my husband and I to reconnect and learn to communicate effectively without blame. We were on the verge of divorce and this has definitely saved our marriage. I am now hopeful that we can work.
Response from Love At First FightMay 22, 2025
I'm touched to hear that, Claire. Thank you for giving it your all and for letting me know it's made a difference. Bruce.
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Jude K.
We are half way through and already…
We are half way through and already massive progress has been made. It is hard work but after years of couples therapy that didn’t help it is incredible. I would recommend it to anyone.
Response from Love At First FightMay 22, 2025
Wow, I’m so glad to hear it’s helping you both reconnect and communicate in a new way. Thanks for sharing your story. it means a lot. Bruce.
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Andre
It'S saving our 56 year relationship
We found your program over the course of the 2025 winter. Following the tragic death of one of our grandsons, our 56 years relationship took an undesired turn that led us to rethinking our future together. We were not on the same line of dealing with the issue and after finding your program, it seemed that this was one way to try saving our marriage.
So far into the program, we are pleased with the different exercises, although not all easy, but efficient. The one that influenced the most so far is writing each day, one reason why we are grateful for each other. Close to two months into it and we still find ways to appreciate our life together. Looking forward to continuing after the midterm break.
Thank you.
Response from Love At First FightMay 19, 2025
Losing your grandson must have shaken your world, and I’m so moved that you’ve chosen to walk this healing path together. Thank you for sharing how the Appreciation Journal is already making a difference. Bruce.
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Jessica P.
Worth the money! Better than counseling for me...
I'm on week 5. Really practical and sound teachings. Some things are odd and no I haven't done everything by the book orbeven got thebcourage to ask my husband to do it with me. That being said most of these tools and teachings will stay with me for the rest of my life. I really love that it focuses on changing yourself and not your partner. That was the main draw for me. Changed my perspective and now we are more connected than we have been for probably 10 years (together 16yr with 2 kiddos). Worth every penny. Considering purchasing the lifetime access now.
Response from Love At First FightMay 16, 2025
Thanks for your honest share. it takes guts to do this work solo, and I’m so glad it’s helping you feel connected again. I appreciate you taking the time to write this. Bruce.
