My N.
Trash since the update on 11.05.2026
Since the update on May 11, 2026, the app has become unusable. I don’t actually think the design is that bad, but key features that were at the heart of this app have simply been removed. My entire profile text, which I painstakingly crafted to create a good, trustworthy profile, has simply vanished. Only the first paragraph remains. You can no longer view photos directly; instead, you have to wait for the truncated slideshow to load on each profile. You can no longer indicate whether you’re currently accepting guests or not. Consequently, you can no longer filter for people who are accepting guests. You also can’t filter by “last online” status, which is extremely important, because otherwise you’ll end up sending tons of requests in vain. Logging in now only works via a registration link sent by email and not via a password. You can’t decline requests with a message. The exact age is no longer visible. Instead, you can now specify your pronouns. Important: I have absolutely no problem with products becoming more expensive or having to pay for verification, but the quality has to be there to match. That is definitely no longer the case. Last but not least, the company seems to have no interest in criticism whatsoever and deletes posts and blocks members who voice criticism. A wonderful community, built up over decades, simply destroyed in a single day...



