Lorena W.
Heartbreaking Lack of Compassion and Urgency
I am writing this with a heavy heart after the devastating experience my family had with Vitas Hospice Care while my brother was under their care. What we went through should never happen to any family. On Saturday, we asked the supervising nurse, Matt, to classify my brother as imminent so he could receive proper comfort measures, including morphine. Matt refused, saying it wasn’t necessary. By Sunday evening, my brother began shutting down, and his breathing became labored. We called for help immediately, but the nurse did not arrive until nearly an hour later. At that point, we were told morphine was needed, but because Matt had refused to mark him imminent the day before, no prescription had been issued. From midnight until 3:00 AM, we were on the phone for hours with the nurse, the pharmacist, and the doctor, desperately trying to get the prescription approved. We were sent to a 24-hour Walgreens, where we stood waiting, exhausted and terrified, while the nurse assured us the prescription would be ready by 1:00 AM. But at 3:00 AM, we were still waiting — the doctor hadn’t signed the order, Walgreens was waiting on the insurance company, and my brother was at home suffering without relief. My brother passed away at 3:20 AM, still in pain, without ever receiving the morphine he so desperately needed. This experience was beyond inhumane. We trusted Vitas Hospice to provide compassion and comfort during my brother’s final moments, but instead, we were left to fight for basic pain management while watching him suffer. No family should have to go through this. Vitas failed us when we needed them most, and I sincerely hope they review their protocols and hold their staff accountable so no other family has to endure what we did.



