Finding your person shouldn't feel like a second job. VIDA Select is modern matchmaking for professionals who refuse to settle. Your dedicated matchmaker draws on our internal database of vetted singles and an active scout network, then handles the searching, screening, and scheduling. You see detailed profiles and photos before meeting anyone. No blind dates. No surprises. Since 2009 we've created 11,000+ relationships, with 82% of clients meeting someone special within 90 days. You approve every match. We handle everything else.
VIDA Select (vidaselect.com) has 457 customer reviews on Five Star Index, with an average rating of 4.7 out of 5.
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2026
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Nathaly was beyond helpful . Before signing up w Vida, I read many reviews which mentioned other “ coaches” at Vida to help find dates.
I was really glad to get Nathaly. She helped me a lot over the next several weeks.
Response from VIDA SelectJul 25, 2026
Hi Jeffrey! Thank you so much for taking the time to share your experience with VIDA! Your kind words truly made my day. It was such a pleasure getting to know you, and I had so much fun working with you throughout the process 💕 I'm so grateful I had the opportunity to be part of your journey and help along the way! Wishing you nothing but success, great connections, and an exciting new chapter ahead! ✨ - Nathaly
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Mitch M.
I would highly recommend the services at Vida Select
I would highly recommend the services offered by Vida Select. I had the fortune to talk with the owner and discuss his approach to helping people navigate these often difficult waters of dating. His entire focus on being able to provide the best possible service in finding your most important person is crucial. The top-quality service was elevated to Shyne and her team where they carefully worked alongside of me to understand my goals. Their focus on me and my goals instead of theirs was evident throughout the process. That partnership has since been manifested in top quality matches. It has always been a focus on quality instead of quantity. Her team was very proactive and approachable. I would highly recommend the services offered by Vida Select when the best use of anyone’s valuable time and energy is crucial to success. Thank you Vida Select!
Response from VIDA SelectJul 25, 2026
Thank you so much, Mitch, for your thoughtful and encouraging review. It was truly a pleasure working with you throughout your journey. We're grateful for your trust and are so happy to hear that you felt supported every step of the way. Your kind words mean a great deal to me and the entire VIDA team. Wishing you continued success and happiness! ❤️ Shyne
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Gail S.
Learning to let go was not easy for me
I had a hard time letting go of the wheel at first—I wanted to stay in control of the process. But once I learned to trust Shania and the team at Vida, everything felt much less stressful. As my time with them was coming to a close, I ended up meeting a truly great guy, and I'm so grateful for their guidance, encouragement, and expertise throughout the journey.
Response from VIDA SelectJul 13, 2026
Gail, thank you for sharing this. Letting go of the wheel is the hardest part for so many of the people we work with, so watching you move from wanting full control to trusting the process meant a lot to me. That trust is what opened the door. Getting to celebrate you meeting someone great was the highlight of our time together. Wishing you both nothing but the best, and please stay in touch. It was a real pleasure. — Shania
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Kristen
My matchmaker Nathaly took the best…
My matchmaker Nathaly took the best care of me. Really listened to what I wanted and helped me find great matches and ultimately a connection I’m really excited to explore.
Response from VIDA SelectJul 1, 2026
Thank you for taking the time to share your experience, Kristen. It was truly a pleasure working with you, and I'm so grateful for the trust you placed in me throughout this journey 💕 I'm so happy we found someone you're genuinely excited about, and I'll be cheering you on as you continue this exciting connection! - Nathaly
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VIDA J.
Francesca Wright and VIDA Select
I've worked with Francesca Wright and the VIDA team twice, and the results have been outstanding both times.
As a busy professional who travels frequently, I simply wasn't dedicating the time and attention needed to build and optimize my dating profile. Francesca and her team stepped in and did an exceptional job. They took the time to understand who I am, crafted an authentic profile, and created a much stronger presentation than I would have put together on my own.
The increase in match quality and conversation volume was immediate and noticeable. Most importantly, the entire process was easy, professional, and efficient.
If you're successful in your career but short on time, I highly recommend Francesca and the VIDA team. Their expertise and attention to detail deliver real results.
Response from VIDA SelectJun 10, 2026
Thank you for your kind feedback and for working with us again. I'm glad to hear you’ve had strong results and that the process felt easy and efficient. It’s been a pleasure supporting you, and we appreciate your continued trust in me and the VIDA team! - Francesca
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M V.
Not much different than swiping yourself
They promise a whole innovative approach to it and that you'll get a lot more matches and dates because of their approach, but I didn't really notice *any* improvement compared to what I could do myself. The dates they got for me were very subpar.
Response from VIDA SelectMay 28, 2026
Thank you for sharing your experience. We're sorry the results didn't feel meaningfully different from what you'd achieved on your own.
Our approach is built on expertise, time savings, and consistent effort, but we recognize that match quality and date outcomes are ultimately what matter most. If you'd like to discuss your experience in more depth, I’m available at [email protected].
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Eric L.
Vida Select over promised and under delivered
Vida Select over promised, and significantly under delivered both on execution and results. You be the judge, here’s my accurate experience with their service.
During the initial and then onboarding phone calls used to create my profile, I was assured they would have no problem finding me appropriate matches within the 3 month service contract. They said matches would be attracted because I offered what many women wanted and lived near Boston. In brief: I’m a truly nice and kind man on all levels who is emotionally available, am financially secure, own a nice home in a nice town near Boston, (Belmont), reasonable looking (“he’s cute”), in good shape (5’9” 166lbs, bike 40 miles), Ivy grad and undergrad, and looking for a good mutual match.
The reason I hired Vida is because I was not able to find a good long term mutual match, and who was also physically available to significantly travel. I want to explore North American parks and other interesting places in my comfortable new Airstream Trade Wind 25FBT. A match would enjoy this adventurous travel including riding our E-bikes, hiking, and enjoying the outdoors together, in comfort.
Based on these assurances, I paid Vida in early November, immediately provided all information requested, but my profiles did not go live for over two months!
Vida’s selection of womens’ profiles to “like” frequently completely ignored both my and their preferences. Vida would occasionally make up false interests or activities which basically lied to women, (via my account so lying Using My Name)! Even Match.com at one point suspended my account due to suspicious behavior.
At Vida’s recommendation, I then searched for good mutual matches and sent Vida a screenshot of women to contact, but they would either delay many days or not contact them at all.
The result is None of the women were interested in this type of adventurous travel. Finding a mutual match was the entire objective of hiring this service!
So six (6) months after hiring Vida I have not met a single woman with the common interests promised by Vida. Multiple emails to Vida have yielded no response.
Response from VIDA SelectMay 28, 2026
Hi Eric, thank you for sharing your experience.
You're right that there was a longer gap than there should have been between when you signed on and when your proactive search began. We own that.
That said, we provided 3 full months of live search time. And what we guaranteed in your 3-month agreement was 3 introductions. We delivered phone numbers of 9 interested women that you approved. You told us you wanted a partner to tour the country in your RV and were open to meeting anyone within 2,000 miles, so we presented matches accordingly.
On match criteria, there were two early instances where women outside your preferences were contacted. That was caught and corrected. And they were not included in your tally of 9 presentations.
Our team gave your account their full effort, and while we're sorry the experience didn't feel like a win from your end, we stand behind the work that was done. I'm always available if you'd like to talk it through: [email protected]
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Sara
Francesca from Vida was a wonderful…
Francesca from Vida was a wonderful match maker. She sort of holds your hand when you have questions about a potential match. And professional. She made time to talk with me once a week. Wonderful experience.
Response from VIDA SelectJun 10, 2026
Thank you for your review. I'm glad to hear you had a positive experience and found our conversations helpful throughout the process. I'm especially happy that you found success working with us! - Francesca