Finding your person shouldn't feel like a second job. VIDA Select is modern matchmaking for professionals who refuse to settle. Your dedicated matchmaker draws on our internal database of vetted singles and an active scout network, then handles the searching, screening, and scheduling. You see detailed profiles and photos before meeting anyone. No blind dates. No surprises. Since 2009 we've created 11,000+ relationships, with 82% of clients meeting someone special within 90 days. You approve every match. We handle everything else.
VIDA Select (vidaselect.com) has 457 customer reviews on Five Star Index, with an average rating of 4.7 out of 5.
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2026
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The initial meeting with Lorraine was nothing like I expected. I'm not great @ discussing these things but Lorraine made me feel completely @ ease and comfortable talking about my past and what I wanted in a relationship. She definitely listened. The potential women to meet proved she knew who I wanted to meet. She guided me thru all of my idiotic questions and this became a great experience for me. I do believe I have met that special person after one month. Thank you again. Great Great service!!!
Response from VIDA SelectJun 7, 2023
Hi TG, Thank you so much for this glowing review! It really means a lot to me! Getting to know you during our call was one of the highlights of our journey. I just wanted to let you know that it was indeed a great pleasure working with you, and I genuinely wish you the best! You are always welcome to send me a message.🙂 Lorraine
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Sandra O.
Jessica Bailey - Kudos to You!
I'm giving a 4-star rating only because of the rocky start I've had with VIDA as a company. It has turned around now, but initially I had 3 different managers in a few weeks, getting my profiles online too much longer than it should have, and the photographer shoot setup was not handled well -- all of which caused much more delay than I expected or thought I was paying for. That said, now to the good part... my manager now, Jessica Bailey, gets 5 stars all the way. She has turned around my initial bad experience. She's very good at what VIDA offers, and she is a personal and professional delight. Hard working, caring and dedicated to me as a client and to her work. I feel like she is as much invested in this endeavor as I am! She is astute at all facets of "project management" -- scope, schedule, budget. And yet she still manages to make me feel like I'm not just a client. Her delight when things go well with a match is genuine and much appreciated. I'm just at the start of my dating journey (after 50 years!!) but I couldn't ask for a better partner in my personal manager and the resources VIDA offers for its clients. It took a bit, but I'm very satisfied with VIDA now.
Response from VIDA SelectMay 26, 2023
Hi Sandy, thank you so much for this beautiful review. It has been an honor and pleasure to work with you. You have made my job a pleasure and I cannot wait to hear your future stories and to help you find the one 🙂 Thank you for everything. - Jessica
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Bill
The Vida process and Simmy used their expertise…
The Vida process and Simmy used their expertise on what “works” to remove “trial and error” on my side for online dating. In particular I worked with Simmy Sanchez at Vida, who gave great advice, insights, and feedback to me about the whole process and how women perceive online dating, which helped me relax and enjoy it as I began dating again for the first time in 30 years. I highly recommend Simmy and her guidance with the Vida process through all of this.
Response from VIDA SelectMay 24, 2023
Thank you for your kind words, Bill! It's been wonderful watching you come into your own and enjoy so many amazing dates and I have thoroughly enjoyed our conversations about the psychology of dating! Wishing you many more beautiful connections in your future! - Simmy
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Alex E.
Dating Made Easy
Jen was very understanding of my needs, always sent quality matches to review and worked seamlessly to coordinate dates. She really took the work out of it, and I am happy to say that I am in a serious relationship with the best one she set me up with. Thanks Vida!
Response from VIDA SelectMay 24, 2023
Thank you so much, Alex, for taking the time to leave this amazing review! I am so pleased things are going so well for you and I am looking forward to more updates! Wishing you all the best. - Jen
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Susan G.
Busi was so responsive and helpful
Busi was so responsive and helpful. The whole team worked hard on my behalf.
Response from VIDA SelectMay 17, 2023
Hey Susan, it was such a pleasure working with you on this journey, we had a great time helping you find a potential partner! - Busi
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Dane D.
Nordika from Vida Select
Nordika from Vida Select has been absolutely wonderful to work with. The entire process has been smooth from start to finish (and we aren't finished yet!). Everything has been as good or better than advertised. In particular, Nordika has been super communicative and takes time to understand what I'm looking for. I would highly recommend the service to anyone who needs help finding their match.
Response from VIDA SelectMay 17, 2023
Hi Dane. Thank you so much for leaving us a review. We really appreciate it! You are as wonderful to work with 🙂 Looking forward to what we can achieve together over the next month. - Nordika
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Matthias
Very Misserable Service
Very Misserable Service. I tried it two full months with a 100 / hours package. I spend 5.000 $ for the Matchmaking service and 1.000 $ for many App Services, brought a few phone numbers but no date. The Service was very slow and unprofesionell. I ask often to make the profile better and inform the service before the start, that the photos doesn´t get a high value on photo feeler. They tell me, it isn´t a problem, they bring me many fake accounts and suggest me to go to seeking. I won´t belive the bad reviews but I must say, the reviews are true. Don´t use the service, you waste your money.
Response from VIDA SelectJun 1, 2023
Hi Matthias -
Rosalia from Client Success here. I was looking forward to discussing your experience with you after I saw this review go up, and disappointed when you didn't show up for the call we set. As I noted in my email to you at the time, had I known you weren’t happy during your service time, I would have been able to help course-correct.
That said, we sent you 11 phone numbers over the two months that you were with us. The majority of them were obtained during Month 2, meaning that the various strategy changes we were implementing already to increase activity were effective. At the onset of our engagement, we allow our clients to choose between us arranging the dates (whenever possible) and getting the match’s phone number. You decided you preferred to receive phone numbers over having dates set up for you, at least in part due to your unpredictable travel schedule. And of course, once we send those over, what happens from there is out of our hands!
On average, our clients convert 72% of the phone numbers we obtain for them into dates. So statistically speaking, we would expect you to have around 8 dates! I wish we had known you were having trouble in that area, as your Matchmaker would have offered time with our resident dating coach. Or we could have switched tactics, and started arranging the dates for you instead!
You mentioned that the service was slow, and when I took a look over your account, I did find one instance recorded where it took your writer over 24 hours to reply to a message from a match. This is outside of our normal operating procedure and not representative of our service standards, and we did take accountability for that at the time. However, we did end up successfully sending you that match’s phone number!
Additionally, after that incident we increased the frequency of messaging on your account overall to be more than sure you wouldn’t see that happen again.
With regard to your photos, we agree that they could have been stronger. Your Visual Branding Coordinator did recommend getting started with the photos we had originally to see how they would perform, and in an email on 3/1 you told your Matchmaker “I’m happy with the photo choosing. These would be the photos I would choose, too.”
However, after a time of not seeing the results we were looking for, your Matchmaker then requested additional photos from you on more than one occasion, and you never sent any new options to us. I think had you sent us additional images to consider, this likely would have significantly increased the results we were able to produce for you.
Your review mentions that some of the women we were communicating with were “fake accounts.” However, I was able to confirm with your Matchmaker that you were also selecting women for us to communicate with. Despite our bringing to your attention red flags about some of these profiles you selected, such as having only one photo included, your instruction to us was to continue to communicate with them anyway.
In general, I do think we could have been more proactive about impressing on you the importance of new picture options in order to strengthen your photo lineup, although as mentioned already, your Matchmaker did email you about needing more photos at least twice. I would still love the chance to connect with you over the phone, so please do reach out to me via email so we can talk about what VIDA might be able to do for you to provide you with more value than you’ve found so far. - Rosalia
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Prefer to be A.
Good experience
Kedi & her team were always professional and responsive which was great. VIDA definitely saved me a bunch of time which was the main reason I bought. Everything was as-advertised, I'd recommend them. Currently in a relationship sourced from them.
Response from VIDA SelectMay 12, 2023
Thank you so much for the review. I've enjoyed getting to work with you and ultimately finding your special someone. Thank you for your active participation throughout the process. I'm wishing you and your special lady all the very best in the future. - Kedi
