Finding your person shouldn't feel like a second job. VIDA Select is modern matchmaking for professionals who refuse to settle. Your dedicated matchmaker draws on our internal database of vetted singles and an active scout network, then handles the searching, screening, and scheduling. You see detailed profiles and photos before meeting anyone. No blind dates. No surprises. Since 2009 we've created 11,000+ relationships, with 82% of clients meeting someone special within 90 days. You approve every match. We handle everything else.
VIDA Select (vidaselect.com) has 457 customer reviews on Five Star Index, with an average rating of 4.7 out of 5.
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2026
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My experience began with my first contact with Rhonda, she explained everything and having been in the business for 20 plus years assured me this service was the best available. Then I was introduced to
Francesca who was my primary point
Person. She made sure that I was represented exactly as I wished to be.
I couldn’t have asked for a more caring and concerned person, she is fantastic!! Now to the good stuff.
They sent me profiles of ladies to review several times a week and I met someone within 10 days and so
Far the connection is amazing !
Because I don’t want to date but one woman at a time Francesca put everything on hold just in case.
The service is not inexpensive but at
This point worth every nickel!
Response from VIDA SelectAug 24, 2023
Thank you so much for your kind words, Stan. You were a joy to work with and it does not surprise me that you've been snatched up so quickly. As I said when we last spoke, please do keep me updated on how everything goes with this special lady. I am so happy for you and wishing you both all the best!
Best,
Francesca
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Melinda R.
Courteous Service
I worked with Briona Sutherland and her team. Every step I was met with courteous professionalism and I will be using their service again if I need to. Dating is always overwhelming for me, so having VIDA was a source of reassurance. Briona was always available and able to answer my questions, and most of the matches they found for me had potential.
Response from VIDA SelectAug 19, 2023
Thank you Melinda, it was a pleasure working with you! I am happy I was able to help on your dating journey and provide reassurance during the process. I wish you the best! - Briona
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Brian I.
Vida Dating so far has been great
Shyne Gabriel and her helper Cristina on days off made my experience great along with the ghost writer. I haven't had so many dates in such a short time thanks to them. Shyne listened to any issues I had and would work with me financially if I had any issues. I've got so many dates that I don't know if I'll be able to keep up with them. Hopefully one of them will work out, but if not I'll be coming back to Vida. I really wasn't sure this would work, but amazingly it does. I would highly recommend Vida dating and the matchmaker Shyne Gabriel.
Response from VIDA SelectAug 23, 2023
Hi Brian, it has been a pleasure working with you! Thank you for your kind words, and I am glad that we have sent you more dates than what you expected 😉 I can't wait to see a new blossoming relationship for you. All the best! ❤️ Shyne
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Leslie S.
Vida
Vida, frustrating and a NO. The teams did not take direction. I'd write to use one profile and they would post another. This happened repeatedly. The writer's writing was at a low level. Many sentences didn't make sense or simply were not even complete sentences. The team has form letters they send on any issues that minimize the problem insinuiating that they just don't know your taste and need more time when the problem was basic grammar. Example, the swiping team sent a match that had obscene language and it was clear no one was looking at matches they would pick. Vida customer service was quick to say it was a matter of taste. No, they weren't reading profiles. The person was reported and taken off the site. Again, the form letter said they were getting to know my taste. It's a low level group, stay clear.
Response from VIDA SelectAug 18, 2023
Hi Leslie, Tara your matchmaker here. Thank you for taking the time to share your viewpoint on your experience. Every piece of feedback is invaluable to us, and we strive to ensure our clients always feel heard and understood.
I genuinely regret that the service did not meet your expectations. That said, I am pleased we were able to facilitate a date that you said went well! At the end of the day, our approach is not everyone's cup of tea, and for some, placing trust in the process is a challenge. I completely understand.
However, there are some specifics you've mentioned that need clarification, since they've been shared on a public platform.
The profile that you found objectionable was not a match our team presented to you for approval. You took a screenshot of this particular profile and shared it with me, expressing your intent to report it to the dating app, before we had completed the vetting process.
And while I regret that you saw content you personally found objectionable, humor is subjective, as is what someone might consider obscene. In the case of this particular profile, the line of concern (“Not allowed to say I’m Rich, Hung, and Funny, but I can say I’m not bald, bitter, or broke”) could be taken as light-hearted banter by some, while others might find it distasteful. Both reactions are valid.
Learning the nuances of your personal tastes and preferences does take time, and our approach to your search is an evolving one. We continuously refine the search based on the feedback we receive, learning more about our clients' preferences as we progress. This iterative process is a cornerstone of how we've successfully matched thousands of clients.
Regarding your profile text, our writing team produced several drafts based on your inputs. I even had a call with you where we created a document together, going through what you wanted to express in your profile and noting specific words and sentences you wanted used. The writers then took your requested material and edited it to accommodate the character counts on the dating platforms. It was indeed unexpected to note that some of your criticisms pertained to this new version of your profile.
While the vast majority of our clients leave the service satisfied, on rare occasions our approach simply isn’t the right fit for a particular individual. This is precisely why we offer a flexible pay-as-you-go model, with monthly packages rather than long-term contracts.
I know our Client Success Manager reached out to you via email, and I was disappointed to see you didn’t respond to her before posting this review. I encourage you to reach out to her, but if not, then I wish you all the best in your search!
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SS
The VIDA team were a pleasure to work with
The VIDA team were a pleasure to work with. They made the process seamless from the start. My matchmaker Nabeelah was attentive, friendly and ensured that they were finding the best matches for me. I recommend working with them.
Response from VIDA SelectAug 12, 2023
Thank you for your kind words, it was an absolute pleasure working with you! All the best and don't be a stranger 😊 Nabeelah
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Marcus C.
An excellent service which great results. Thank you :)
A fantastic experience with VIDA Select and I would recommend anyone who is on the fence to take that leap of faith.
I’d previously struggled to get traction with dating apps and didn’t enjoy the amount of time required for them.
However, VIDA Select made the process easy and I was surprisingly inundated with more numbers and prospective dates than I could handle!
Lorraine was exceptionally patient with my hectic schedule and made sure everything ran smoothly. She also gave excellent advice as required which was really appreciated.
I felt that the whole process was focused on presenting an honest picture of me in the best possible light.
I’ve paused the service for the moment… hopefully I won’t need to come back but if I do I will use VIDA again without hesitation.
Response from VIDA SelectAug 8, 2023
Hi Marcus, I'm thrilled to read this glowing review of yours! I wanted to let you know that the team and I genuinely enjoyed working with you. I really appreciate how you fully trusted us and the entire VIDA process. I just know that you're onto better ventures, and I absolutely wish you all the best! Thanks again, Marcus! - Lorraine
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Annoymous
Expert and Professional
Charlotte was fantastic and hand held me through every step of the process with care and consideration. She was always responsive to my questions and addressed any challenges as they arose. I highly recommend Charlotte and the Vida team - they are the real experts in what is a daunting space. They make it easy with their professionalism, true expertise and real capabilities in this arena. I can’t thank you enough Charlotte - Thank You!
Response from VIDA SelectAug 3, 2023
Thank you for the kind words. It was a pleasure working with you and I'm so happy you have decided to pause things right now whilst you pursue your new relationship. Wishing you all the best! - Charlotte
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Jordyn
Lorraine was a pleasure to work with
Lorraine was a pleasure to work with. She was informative and in tune with my requests. Everyone was responsive and comforting during the interview and writing process. I highly recommend this agency and Lorraine as your match maker!
Response from VIDA SelectJul 29, 2023
Hi Jordyn, I had a wonderful time working with you! Thank you very much for the trust you've given us, and for being so open throughout the entire journey. I wish you nothing but the best. - Lorraine
