VIDA SelectFinding your person shouldn't feel like a second job. VIDA Select is modern matchmaking for professionals who refuse to settle. Your dedicated matchmaker draws on our internal database of vetted singles and an active scout network, then handles the searching, screening, and scheduling. You see detailed profiles and photos before meeting anyone. No blind dates. No surprises. Since 2009 we've created 11,000+ relationships, with 82% of clients meeting someone special within 90 days. You approve every match. We handle everything else.
VIDA Select (vidaselect.com) has 457 customer reviews on Five Star Index, with an average rating of 4.7 out of 5.
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Elliot K.
I had a great experience with VIDA. Nordika, the matchmaker I worked with was great. Would definitely recommend their service.
Response from VIDA SelectMar 16, 2025
Hi Elliot. Thank you so much for leaving this review for us, we appreciate it so. Was really good getting to know you, and I am wishing you all the best for the future! Please stay in touch and let us know how things go 🙂 Nordika
NB
Nordika Hawken is absolutely amazing!!!she is uplifting and always in a good mood. 😄she instantly makes you feel comfortable with the idea of meeting your perfect match. I’ve been married for 17 years and starting to date was mentally draining. She made this experience pleasant, enjoyable and fun! I absolutely adore her!!
Response from VIDA SelectMar 4, 2025
Thank you so much for leaving this review for us N. We super appreciate having you as our client, and have our fingers crossed that you will find your forever person soon! Thank you for being such a lovely and easy client to work with, and always being so graceful :-) Nordika
ZUSM
I had a great experience with Vida Selects. The matchmaker, Nordika Hawken, was very nice, responsive and attentive. She understood my personality and what I was looking for. Nordika gave lots of helpful tips and advice. With Vida’s help, I’ve been able to better optimize my online profiles, engage in a more dynamic way and meet very interesting individuals. I have made useful connections with a lot of potential. I quite hopeful that these connections lead to an actual relationship very soon.
Response from VIDA SelectFeb 7, 2025
Hey Z, thank you so much for taking the time to leave this review for us. I am so happy that we were able to help you through this process, and I thank you for the trust you had in our team, letting us take the lead. Working with you was an absolute pleasure, and I look forward to hearing your updates. You are one special lady :) Nordika
MN
I've worked with Francesca from Vida since one month. She helped me by setting up dating profiles on a selected services in the UK and calibrating the search to my preferences. She was very knowledgeable about the best quality dating sites, she listened to my preferences and recorded everything diligently to share with the scout and the writer who are active on the sites on my behalf. We are in regular contact and I can monitor the conversations as much or as little as I want to, without the risk of losing the conversation momentum. I feel like the team represents me well in a consistent manner by engaging with the potential matches and going through predictable yet necessary questions to filter through the potential candidates for meeting up in real life. They are graceful and act as gatekeepers for me which allows me to keep a peace of mind and save my energy for the real life dates while they work their magic on the apps. I have so far been on one good date with high quality match, and there are a number planned for the following weeks. If this doesn’t work, I don’t know what will. Thanks and let’s keep up the good work!
Response from VIDA SelectFeb 4, 2025
Thank you so much for your thoughtful review! Saving you time and energy by connecting you with the right matches is what we're here for! We’re excited for your upcoming dates and can’t wait to see where this journey takes you. ❤️ Francesca
Happy Vida C.
I’d highly recommend Vida, Francesca has been amazing.
Response from VIDA SelectFeb 1, 2025
Thanks for your kind words! You have been a pleasure to work with as well 🙂 Francesca
Jack
After paying the membership fee, a matchmaker provided a calendar with no availability for an intake video call. Once the video call was established, the matchmaker did not participate by video; only audio. A full month passed without any follow-up. I finally reached out for a refund, to which Vida responded that they had no legal obligation to do so. The matchmaker scrambled to provide a handful of potential matches. Three were in LA. I live in SF. The other were over an hour away, outside of SF. This was Vida's last communication, over four months ago. No follow-up, complete silence. The membership fee yielded five profiles, no dates and no pro-active communication/effort. Only a singular response to a refund request.
Response from VIDA SelectJan 16, 2025
Hi Jack - Rosalia from Client Success here. Thank you for taking the time to share your experience. The experience you've described doesn't align with our service standards. We haven't been able to fully identify your specific account based on the information provided, which limits our ability to address your concerns in detail. However, I'd like to provide some context about our service and address the points you've raised. The service you purchased is our internal database membership. This includes one proactive search of our database of current and former clients for prospective matches. After evaluating the candidates, we then facilitate a connection if there is mutual interest. Following this initial search, your profile remains available in our database for potential matching for life or until you opt out! This is a significant benefit as new clients join our service regularly. Regarding the specific issues you mentioned: Video calls: We aim to accommodate our clients' schedules and preferences for video or phone calls for a more personal experience. I apologize that this wasn't your experience. Follow-up communication: Our standard practice involves regular updates. The lack of follow-up you experienced is not in line with our usual procedures. Without access to your account details, I cannot investigate what happened in your specific case. Match locations: We aim to provide matches within the specified geographic preferences. However, if we’re unable to provide matches that meet all of your criteria (and vice versa) in a specific location, we may look further afield specifically at matches who’ve noted they’re willing to travel or relocate. Refund policy: While we do have terms of service that outline our refund policy, we always aim to work with our clients to ensure satisfaction. We would very much like the opportunity to address your concerns more thoroughly and potentially find a resolution. If you're willing, please contact me directly at [email protected] with more details about your account. This will allow us to investigate your experience more deeply and work towards a satisfactory outcome. We appreciate your feedback as it helps us identify areas for improvement in our service. We remain committed to providing a high-quality matchmaking experience for all our clients.
MP
Nordika and her team were AMAZING! I was skeptical at first, but then I spoke on the phone with Nordika and she showed complassion, encouragement and treated me like a friend/sister throughout the 2 months. It takes promptness to help VIDA communicate with the matches. Don't Delay! Although, I never got to the stage of an actual date, but I do not regret it. It was fun and energizing!
Response from VIDA SelectDec 2, 2024
Thank you so much for leaving this review for us. Getting to know you was as much fun for us! Thank you for being so incredible to work with, and for trusting the process. You are a very special lady and I wish you all the best for the future. Please stay in touch 🙂 Nordika
Anonymous C.
Great company and service. Nordika has been a pleasure to work with and always exceeds expectations!
Response from VIDA SelectDec 6, 2024
Hi A! Thanks so much for leaving this positive review for us - we really appreciate it! Working with you is such a pleasure and I love seeing the connections we make for you. Thank you for always being super responsive and making matchmaking so easy 🙂 Hope you have an amazing festive break! -Nordika
