Finding your person shouldn't feel like a second job. VIDA Select is modern matchmaking for professionals who refuse to settle. Your dedicated matchmaker draws on our internal database of vetted singles and an active scout network, then handles the searching, screening, and scheduling. You see detailed profiles and photos before meeting anyone. No blind dates. No surprises. Since 2009 we've created 11,000+ relationships, with 82% of clients meeting someone special within 90 days. You approve every match. We handle everything else.
VIDA Select (vidaselect.com) has 457 customer reviews on Five Star Index, with an average rating of 4.7 out of 5.
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2026
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This is my second time using Vida and cannot express how satisfied I am with my matchmaker, Ashtarina Hillton. I enjoyed her personal touch when sending me matches via email. She would add comments like good luck, can’t wait to hear back how the date went. To me those comments made me feel as if I wasn’t just a number. I can’t thank her enough. To be clear, I stop using Vida because I found my match, thanks for her.
Response from VIDA SelectNov 30, 2022
Hi Dave, thank you so much for the wonderful feedback! You were a delight to work with and the entire team enjoyed working with you! We are so glad that you found your match because of us and we wish you all the best! Warm Regards, Ashtarina 💜
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Po Chou C.
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It’s a new experience to me
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Andy H.
Excellent service
I wasn't sure about VIDA at first. I needed the help but I wasn't sure about them. Boy was I wrong. My matchmaker, Rene, spoke with me at length to get to know me and find out what I was looking for. She and the VIDA team has been there for me whenever I needed and their advice/guidance has been invaluable.
Response from VIDA SelectNov 24, 2022
Thank you for the kind words. I am so happy that I was able to provide you with valuable guidance and advice during your VIDA journey. -Rene
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happy C.
Correspondence was always professional…
Correspondence was always professional thanks to Zee MacCarthy and I was getting matches and numbers soon.
Response from VIDA SelectDec 7, 2022
Effective communication is the cornerstone of what we do! Thank you for your review 😎 Zee
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anonymous C.
HIGHLY recommend VIDA Select, 10/10
I am truly impressed and beyond satisfied with my experience with VIDA Select. I was skeptical to sign up for VIDA at first, because I wasn't sure how much they had to offer. I always considered myself decent-looking, had great photos, and had a lot to offer, and so I wasn't sure how much more VIDA could help me achieve quality matches. I was totally wrong and glad that I gave them a chance. My matchmaker, Hayley, spoke with me at length to get to know me and find out what I was looking for. She has been very responsive and keeps close contact with me to get feedback on matches and dates. She and the team set out and connected me with numerous quality matches. I am very glad that I gave VIDA an opportunity and would highly recommend them to anyone looking for assistance in boosting their dating prospects.
Response from VIDA SelectNov 22, 2022
Working with you was such a great experience for myself and the team. Your openness to trust in our process is what made the outcome so successful. It brings me such pleasure when a client leaves due to so many great results. I wish you nothing but the best and you certainly deserve it! Please make sure to send me updates!! - Hayley
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Mike
Sounds great until they get your money.
Sounds great until you pay the subscription. During the initial phonecall - the person I got to speak with sounded like she cares, understands and is very much willing to help. After that - nothing. As in, it took them A MONTH to just fill in my profile. You don't get to communicate directly with the "ghostwriters" or the people actually creating your profile.
Null results after 2 paid months. They offered one more month free - but same thing: no results. I've had better luck on my own.
2 stars for trying. This isn't a scam, it's like, I feel they kinda try to do deliver, but it just didn't work for me.
Response from VIDA SelectDec 8, 2022
Hey Mike,
Rosalia with Client Success here. You and I had several interactions over the course of your time with us as I worked with you and on your behalf to help you get the most out of your VIDA Select experience. I’m sorry to hear you feel we still didn’t meet your expectations.
But I was surprised that you felt we got you “null results”. During your time with us, we provided you with two date opportunities. And from those, I understand you even went on several dates with the woman from Bumble.
When I look at activity levels on your account, I see that we produced an online presence that was attractive to matches you were also interested in. We found those women via our scouting and successfully started conversations with them.
Specifically, I see in our system that 20 conversations were marked “Client Took Over,” meaning you took over mid-conversation instead of letting your writer finish the job. Given the opportunity, I’m sure we would have converted a number of those into further date opportunities. As I know your matchmaker explained on several occasions, having a client jump in mid-conversation on the apps is not ideal for multiple reasons. I sincerely hope those conversations turned out well for you! I saw, for example, that you responded to one of our match approval emails saying, “Yup. I took over the chat with her. Good find!” I truly hope that one worked out and you also found some value in the other 19 conversations that we didn’t have the chance to turn into date opportunities for you!
We’re always taking client feedback into consideration as we continually evolve and make improvements, and in the rare case where a client leaves the service unsatisfied, we do our best to provide a resolution that’s fair to both parties. As you and I discussed when we spoke back in January, it’s true that your setup was delayed quite a bit beyond our normal timeline and that’s why we offered you a complimentary month of service.
The structure of our service maximizes the strengths of each team member while streamlining the process as much as possible for you by minimizing your points of contact. This combination of efficacy and efficiency results in the most productive use of your paid time, and your matchmaker quickly relays any feedback you may have to your ghostwriter.
Ultimately, our service is designed to be flexible - that’s why we don’t require a long-term contract. If a client isn’t finding value, they simply don’t choose to continue with us, as you have done.
We wish you the best in continuing to pursue your dating goals.
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Chris A.
Excellent service and great communication things went as explained
Ozora was excellent to work with ! The service was great. Communication was great.
Response from VIDA SelectNov 15, 2022
Hi Chris! I've really enjoyed working with you and wish you all the best with the matches we found you. 🙂 Ozora
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Anonymous
It is a very useful and highly…
It is a very useful and highly effective service and I highly recommend it. Donna was my matchmaker and was fantastic, responsive, and extremely helpful and patient. I highly praise the profile development process along with the visual narrative. I thought this part of the whole process was well worth the cost. I had an overwhelming response in 3 of the 5 online sites in which I subscribed and have had a number of dates and now just trying to assess which one will be longer term. I did have to go in and view and give feedback to the conversations the writers were having as there were a few mistakes; fortunately none that had negative consequences. I felt comfortable after giving them feedback.. Again, Donna handled these situations very professionally!
Response from VIDA SelectNov 12, 2022
Thank you so much for your kind words, it has been a pleasure being your matchmaker (and personal cheerleader!) as we have navigated this journey together. I am excited to see what's in store, and look forward to your updates as always! - Donna
