DC
Our last hope to save our marriage
What can I say. Once I discovered my husbands sex addiction and all the lies and deception that went with it , I was literally on my way out of this marriage. That day I could never see us ever recovering from this painful betrayal. As a last effort my husband signed up for the mens online 16 week program , stating he needed to do this for himself with or with out me as his wife, as he needed to get better as he hated his life. He worked diligently on the course for the next 4 months, attending zoom meetings with craig and Adrien and Tara and doing the deep personal internal work on the modules, dealing with past traumas. I was involved in the empowerment program for spouses , where I realized I was not the blame for his actions. It is here where I focused on self care and ME. So all of my interactions or decisions could be made from a place of strength not weakness. We each had to work on our own programs, not worrying about the other. as we each had different paths to go on. Slowly as time went on, I saw less projection of blame onto me , slowly the walls came down, and around the 12 weeks mark I actually saw genuine emotions from my spouse and true remorse. Between both programs , it saved our marriage and taught us how to communicate better , and to react better to trigger points . The whole mindful habit team have been amazing! I recommend this program to anyone who feels they have hit rock bottom, and have no hope left
Response from The Mindful HabitFeb 15, 2023
You are so amazing DC!!!! Michelle and I feel so blessed to be part of your journey. We know how hard you worked and boy did it pay off!!!!! We are so proud of you and your husband and are so happy for the love that you are building and the trust that he is restoring. It's hard to find words sometimes and this is one of those times!!! We are blessed and honored!!!!




