raymondbros
Don’t Use! Find a real therapist!
Before you use this site, I would seriously recommend finding a real therapist online and not signing up. From my experience the people on this site are under qualified to give serious advice. I used the site to discuss an abusive relationship I was in. I was reaching out because I had been violently attacked on multiple occasions and in my initial message I sent to the therapist I was paired with, I said that I wanted to know if I had pushed my partner too far and I was the cause of this. During the therapy sessions I barely spoke. My therapist would pick up on a nugget of information and use it as an opportunity to rant about what I should be doing until the consultation ended. I said about three things and then would have to listen to her telling me about her life and her sisters, etc. The initial consultation started with her asking if I had any childhood trauma and I said I really just wanted to discuss my relationship, but she insisted we needed to go through this first. I doubt she even read the message I sent her beforehand. There was a lot of noise in the background of the call and it sounded like she was cooking dinner at the same time. The therapist gave me homework to do about what I like and don’t like, which I have since learned from a real therapist that this is some life-coach rubbish. She never addressed the abuse, instead, she told me tips on how to handle my partner so I didn’t create problems. Such as give my partner a budget instead of giving them a credit card, not picking up that my partner was actually abusing me financially, which is what I was concerned about if this was normal. Her response was I was discovering if was with someone who liked their partner to pay for everything- not that I was actually trapped in a toxic codependent relationship. After 5 sessions, we had run out of things for the therapist to rant about and I just started saying everything was fine, when it wasn’t. I cancelled the membership and didn’t message her again. Last month, I was once again violently attacked in my home by my partner and had to flee in the middle of the night. I am now single and with the help of friends and family, I am safe. I reached out to betterhelp because I needed someone to listen and found nothing, just a total waste of money. Now I am so angry because people in the future might come to this platform looking for serious help and my advice to you is to GO SOMEWHERE ELSE.
Response from BetterHelpMar 11, 2024
We're incredibly sorry to hear about everything you've gone through, and are currently going through. Based on what you've described, we'd like to ensure our Clinical Operations team can investigate this further and also try and work with you directly to see if any further action can be taken on our end. You'll receive a Trustpilot form shortly. If you can simply provide us with the email address linked to your BetterHelp account, we'll reach out to you directly. Thank you, BetterHelp Team



