Finding your person shouldn't feel like a second job. VIDA Select is modern matchmaking for professionals who refuse to settle. Your dedicated matchmaker draws on our internal database of vetted singles and an active scout network, then handles the searching, screening, and scheduling. You see detailed profiles and photos before meeting anyone. No blind dates. No surprises. Since 2009 we've created 11,000+ relationships, with 82% of clients meeting someone special within 90 days. You approve every match. We handle everything else.
VIDA Select (vidaselect.com) has 457 customer reviews on Five Star Index, with an average rating of 4.7 out of 5.
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2026
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Vida made getting back into the dating scene after a long-term relationship exponentially easier! My matchmaker, Nordika, was extremely kind and understanding and really helped me narrow down what I was looking for. We tried various strategies that she brought to the table, and I finally ended up meeting someone I really like. I honestly don't think this would have been possible without Vida and I highly recommend them to anyone who is very busy and somewhat picky like I am.
Response from VIDA SelectMar 19, 2026
Thank you so much for your kind words. It truly means a lot to me to have been part of your journey. I’m so glad that you have found someone special. It was such a pleasure working with you. I am going to miss our interactions, but wishing you all the happiness in the world - you deserve it 🫶 Nordika
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Richard M.
Working with VIDA Select/ Francesca…
Working with VIDA Select/ Francesca Wright - my relationship coach and Matchmaker - was a delightful experience. Francesca is always encouraging and offering positive perspectives. I told Francesca that she was an instrument in God's hands, that she was helping me to "ask, seek, and knock" for MY PERSON. AND I FOUND HER. If you are considering using VIDA realize that they are working around the clock to bring you home to THAT PERSON that will meet your needs. My new girlfriend-LTR suggested that this service deserved a BONUS because she noticed that (seemingly) my profile never slept! Funny. The process is easy. They walk you through it with Zooms, texts and personal phone calls. They are very proactive- setting up sessions to coordinate on a regular basis to tweak what is happening. Like the GPS, you can't take a wrong turn! It just redirects and keeps going. If I sound excited, I am. I really thought that the likelihood of matching me would be pretty tough, but in fact, I met a person that was my exact compliment which rocks my world, since my type only accounts for 1.8% of the population. As an Engineer I have trouble striking up that first conversation, which is the real beauty of this service: they open that door for you. I cannot provide a higher recommendation for VIDA Select and Francesca and her team. The process starts out slow, then picks up, so keep that in mind. But for me, from beginning to end it was only a little over 3 months. Thank YOU so much!
Response from VIDA SelectMar 12, 2026
Thank you so much for your incredibly kind words—it truly means a lot. It was an absolute pleasure working with you and being part of your journey. Seeing you find such a meaningful connection is exactly why we do what we do. I’m so grateful you trusted the process, and I wish you and your new partner all the happiness ahead. Thank you again for sharing your experience! - Francesca
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MIke M.
My experience was awesome!
I've used them twice. The first time, within 6 weeks I was dating 3 PhDs. I've been with one of them for almost 5 years now. Both times I've used Vida the people and results have been great, especially my matchmaker Nordika, who was such a help and made it so fun!
Response from VIDA SelectMar 9, 2026
Hi Mike. Thank you so much for taking the time to share this. It truly means a lot to hear that you had such a positive experience. That is exactly the kind of outcome we hope for. It was genuinely a pleasure working with you. Wishing you continued happiness! - Nordika
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Roy C.
Francesca Wright has made my experience…
Francesca Wright has made my experience wonderful and has done all the heavy lifting to make my dating experience easy and stress free!
Response from VIDA SelectNov 14, 2025
Thank you for your kind words! I’m truly glad you’ve enjoyed your experience. You’ve been an absolute pleasure to work with as well. - Francesca
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AB
Great service for super busy people
Great service for super busy people. They take the time to get to know you and have represented me well. I’ve been involved every step of the way! Particularly good working with Francesca.
Response from VIDA SelectOct 20, 2025
Thank you so much for your kind words! It’s been a pleasure working with you and I’m so glad to hear you’ve felt supported and involved throughout. Always here if you need anything! – Francesca
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Patti S.
Very disappointing first match
Although my initial experience with VIDA was less than desirable, I want to share how impressed I’ve been with how the company handled it. When I voiced my concerns, Rosalia reached out to me immediately. She explained that my original matchmaker was new in her role and that there were very limited suitable matches available at that time. Most importantly, she took full ownership of the situation and went above and beyond to make things right.
Rosalia’s professionalism, compassion, and genuine commitment completely restored my trust in VIDA. She exemplifies what excellent customer service should look like. I now feel confident recommending VIDA to anyone seeking a professional matchmaking company with a truly customer-focused culture.
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I signed up for Vida Matchmaking 2 weeks ago. While my matchmaker didn’t make any recommendations to enhance my profile—which I was fine with—my first match was quite surprising and disappointing. He was 23 years older than me, even though I clearly indicated a preferred age range of seven years above or below my age. He also follows a religious belief system very different from mine, which made me question whether my preferences were fully considered.
I reached out to my matchmaker to share these concerns, and although she promised to call me back, I haven’t heard back yet. This lack of follow-up has been frustrating, as I expected a more personalized and attentive experience.
I’m currently considering canceling the service, but I may give it one more chance given some of the positive reviews I’ve read. I’m still hopeful that Vida can provide a more thoughtful and tailored approach moving forward.
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Uri H.
Francesca is awesome
Francesca is awesome, and she gets me and the discussions we've had were very informative and helped my dating journey
Response from VIDA SelectOct 7, 2025
Thank you so much! I'm really glad our chats have been helpful. It’s been great getting to know you — excited to see where your journey leads! - Francesca
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Meliodas
Francesca was great at onboarding me to…
Francesca was great at onboarding me to the platform. She patiently asked me a bunch of questions about my partner and made me comfortable. Overall, the service at VIDA was great.
Response from VIDA SelectOct 7, 2025
Thank you so much for your kind words! It was a pleasure getting to know you. Wishing you all the best on your journey with VIDA! - Francesca