Finding your person shouldn't feel like a second job. VIDA Select is modern matchmaking for professionals who refuse to settle. Your dedicated matchmaker draws on our internal database of vetted singles and an active scout network, then handles the searching, screening, and scheduling. You see detailed profiles and photos before meeting anyone. No blind dates. No surprises. Since 2009 we've created 11,000+ relationships, with 82% of clients meeting someone special within 90 days. You approve every match. We handle everything else.
VIDA Select (vidaselect.com) has 457 customer reviews on Five Star Index, with an average rating of 4.7 out of 5.
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2026
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I enjoyed very much my experience with VIDA Select, and highly recommend them. Using this service made the on-line dating process fun and productive. I saved a lot of time and disappointment by working with this highly effective team. I only "saw" those potential partners who were great matches for me and were interested. Shyne was a joy to work with and not lonely did I find my someone special, but made some male friends as well.
Response from VIDA SelectMay 3, 2021
Hi Marlene,
You are a joy to work with too! I love the fact that from the start, you knew what you wanted and understood our process. It made working with you so effective and efficient.
The team is very happy to hear that you are exclusively dating one of your matches!
We wish you all the best in your new romance ❤️
Shyne
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Ricky
Vida is life changing!
My experience with Vida was a fun a rewarding experience. Shyne and her team were amazing, she really took the time to get to know my likes and dislikes. They eventually got me soo many matches it began hard to keep up. I would 100% recommend this service for anyone who wants to change their online dating life!
Response from VIDA SelectMay 3, 2021
Thank you, Ricky!
It was easy and fun to work with you. Your grateful attitude and positivity has been an inspiration to the team.
You are a true gem ❤️
Shyne
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Sam
Excellent experience
Excellent experience! Tanzy, my matchmaker, has been an excellent dating consultant. Tanzy took the time to get to know me so VIDA could draft profiles that conveyed my personality, interests and passions. Tanzy also helped me select the right dating sites to attract compatible matches. I live a busy lifestyle and really value VIDAs management of my dating profiles. I am meeting more high-quality women now without having to spend hours swiping and messaging. Tanzy makes the experience effortless and provides coaching and other tips to help me make the most of my dates! Thanks Tanzy!
Response from VIDA SelectMay 10, 2021
Hi Sam,
Thank you for your kind words. You are so easy to work with, and I love having you as a client. I am so happy that we can remove the burden of online dating for you, and make the experience effortless and fun.
Best,
Tanzy
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Phoenix R.
I went with the VIP option at Vida Select...
I went with the VIP option at Vida, and I am very glad that I did. I received fantastic service from Stacy Blackwell, especially with the inevitable disappointment of rejection she was there to build me back up. She would be in constant mail/phone contact with me and listened to my feedback and she was there with advice when asked about specific matches.
Moreover, another fantastic person, Meagan Kaufman had a professional photographer take my photos, and before that, with Covid lockdowns, helped me take a bunch of selfies when a photographer couldn't be had - and they were instrumental in generating a lot of leads that I may have missed otherwise. Meagan taught me how to pay attention to my posture and which clothes worked best with my build and skin tone.
As with everything in life, the proof of the pudding is in the eating, and within months, I met the girl of my dreams and we are both madly in love with each other. I don't believe that I would have met her without going through the process I did. They both told me that online dating was a "numbers" game. Expect a number of rejections, and you yourself will reject many. Statistically speaking, it is a matter to time and luck before one encounters the right person, and then there is the whole matter of dating and follow through. Not only were both of them ready with advice on how to navigate through those first few personal interactions, but in one case, where I had gotten too deeply entangled with the wrong person, Meagan coached me through how to extract myself with integrity, and not causing pain to the other person. That was just invaluable and worth 10 times what I paid for the service!
Response from VIDA SelectFeb 24, 2021
Hi Phoenix,
Thank you for sharing your experience. It has truly been my pleasure to get to know you and help you navigate the world of online dating. I am excited about your romance and wish you two every happiness. I feel like I won a great friendship with you too!
My Best,
Stacy
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CB A.
Amazing success
Having never used online dating apps before, nor having any decent photos of myself, I was a little suspect how this would work. Process from engagement to getting online was very efficient, though biggest benefit came from my match consultant Shyne. She made me feel at ease immediately, was always available, and coached me through a few situations that arose. Within a month of engaging I was already putting apps on pause as I'd met 5+ woman who I could see myself having a longer term relationship with, and I'm now exclusive with the first Bumble match made!
Response from VIDA SelectMay 3, 2021
Awww, thank you for the kind words, CB! Working with you was truly a pleasure. You were crystal clear on what you wanted from the start, which made things smooth as your matchmaker. I am so happy my team and I were able to help you find someone special and I wish you all of the happiness you deserve in your new relationship. Can't wait to hear how it evolves, please keep in touch! ❤️
Shyne
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Ken
Vida Experience
I really enjoyed VIDA, I honestly believe they are the best dating service, in the United States. This is due to research, in understanding the US dating market. And also the flexibility with showcasing matches, you are actually attracted to. I also like that you do save alot of time, searching for matches. Since I work a very busy schedule. My matchmaker Tara, has been really great, in answering questions, she has very high standards. Also very optimistic, team is friendly.
Response from VIDA SelectMay 10, 2021
Hi Ken, Thank you so much for sharing your experience and your kind words! It was wonderful getting to know you and I loved being able to help you navigate the world of online dating.
I will miss our chats! Looking forward to working with you again in the future here at VIDA, should the need arise.
Take care,
Tara
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Carlos Z.
Truly amazing, this actually WORKS, trust the process...
Overall my experience working with Joyce at Vida Select went great! At first skeptical, and quickly realizing that Joyce at Vida Select knows exactly what needs to be updated throughout all of your profiles.
Working with Joyce I quickly realized she was very responsive and communicative with ALL of her text messages and emails that were sent directly to me. On multiple occasions, I felt I could be open and direct with my comments and she’d respond appropriately.
I’ll be honest, even today, after the contract is over, my photos look incredible, the profile copy makes it SUPER easy for females to start a conversation with me; especially on Bumble.
Vida Select left me with the documents with all the copy written for me, including intro lines, ice-breaker lines, and conversation lines that “TRULY” work to receive an immediate, positive and engaging reply. #fuckingamazing.
Response from VIDA SelectMay 3, 2021
Hi Carlos,
We are pleased to hear how happy you are with the overall service. You were wonderful to work with. You listened to our advice and you put your trust in us. It allowed us to do our job smoothly. Thank you so much for your kind words, it means a lot to all of us.
Feel free to reach out if you ever need us again. We wish you all the best!
Best,
Joyce
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Madeline
Francesca is amazing!
I am still incredibly impressed with my matchmaker, Francesca, and the impeccable service and work from beginning to end. Francesca spent quite a bit of time getting to know me, answering all of my questions and explaining the process and next steps. The profiles they put together for me and managed were really well done and the conversations sounded like me. I'm incredibly busy with work and do not have the time to deal with dating apps nor am I familiar with the dating app scene. Having Francesca take care of everything meant I learned about managing the conversations and didn't have to bother with it and connected me with people I was interested in. Easily the best decision I've ever made.
Response from VIDA SelectFeb 10, 2021
Hi Madeline,
Thanks for your sweet words! You were a pleasure to work with and I loved getting to you know. Like I've said before, I think you are absolutely hilarious! I know you were a bit intimidated by the online dating world initially, so I am happy we were able to help put you at ease. I am here if you ever need to get back into the dating game.
Thanks again!
Best,
Francesca