At Love At First Fight, we provide a proven, research-based alternative to couples counseling, so you can improve your relationship or marriage quickly.With over 20,000 marriages and relationships transformed, we help struggling couples move past their differences, resolve conflict and get back on the same page together.We believe that love isn’t a mystery; it’s a skill you can learn.Imagine a world where every couple has the tools to navigate conflict with ease - raising children who grow up knowing what deep, secure love feels like. That’s the future we're building one couple at a time.
Love At First Fight (loveatfirstfight.com) has 281 customer reviews on Five Star Index, with an average rating of 4.8 out of 5.
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2026
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The course has made a great change in my couple. The teachings are simple but efficient. I recommend this course
Response from Love At First FightNov 14, 2025
Hi Joyce, glad to hear the simple tools made a real difference for you both, and thanks for recommending the course. Appreciate you taking a moment to share your experience. - Bruce
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Paula G.
Hello to everyone
Hello to everyone, I’m here to say thanks to Bruce and his program, cause it helps us a lot. It’s super useful and the strategies and resources are really helpful and easy to apply on daily basis. I think every couple must learn about this, and subscribe, to be able to learn how to communicate, how to learn more about yourselves and over all, different ways of dealing with crisis and difficulties that arise during marriages. I recommend this program and also, I think is an easy tool to use and to promote a better way of dealing with yourselves and others, specially with your couples. All the best for everyone and don’t forget that the first step to change is to discover your own self, and the only way change is possible is to learn and to commit to make things better, for you, your couples and your family. Good luck!
Response from Love At First FightNov 14, 2025
Hi Paula, thanks for sharing how the tools helped you communicate and handle the tough moments together, and I appreciate you taking the time to recommend the program. - Bruce
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Ms G.
PROOF OF BRILL SALES SUPPORT
UPDATE... They have got in touch with me and sorted this. Thanks guys for quickly sorting it. We are on the program. ..... . I listened to the free webinar at 7.15 am UK time today - it was great and so my partner and I decided to buy the course - however I could not complete the purchase cos I click in the wrong place and lost the link and could not return - so could not complete - I have registered again coming in for the end three more times today - last time at 7.30pm - the same thing happened....is this deliberate? ......is the offer real?
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Paisley V.
this course helped me get more insight…
this course helped me get more insight into conflict styles, prevention and repair. It was extremely helpful.
Response from Love At First FightOct 30, 2025
Hey Paisley, I’m glad the course helped you see conflict in a new light and gave you tools for both prevention and repair. Thanks for sharing your experience with me. - Bruce
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Paul
Changed our lives!
My wife came across Bruce’s Love at First Fight course online and asked if I wanted to do it. I’ll be honest, I was sceptical at first, but thought, “What have we got to lose?” Well, I can honestly say, hand on heart, it has completely changed our lives. It’s possibly the best money we’ve ever spent!
Don’t get me wrong, it’s not always easy. It takes commitment and effort. But if you’re not prepared to dedicate seven weeks of your life to improving your relationship, then you’re missing the point! Bruce is clearly an expert in his field... his modules are fascinating, thought-provoking, and even fun at times.
From a cost perspective, this course is an absolute no-brainer. You’ll save a small fortune compared to counselling, and the results speak for themselves. Our relationship has never been better. We’ve learned so much from Bruce... in fact, it’s now hard to complete some of the “work through an argument” exercises because we haven’t had any for so long!
Finally, I was really disappointed to read a one-star review on here recently. Honestly, it couldn’t be further from our experience... Bruce is incredible, and his methodology should be mandatory for all couples!
PS. Bruce, we’ll be in Puerto Plata next August when our cruise stops there... maybe we can thank you in person!
Response from Love At First FightOct 22, 2025
Hey Paul, I loved reading how the course helped you both turn things around and made arguments a thing of the past, even though you were skeptical at first. Well done for putting in the effort when the going got tough. Thanks for such a thoughtful review, and enjoy Puerto Plata next August. Do get in touch. I might be around - Bruce.
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Caeden
Don't be fooled by Bruce's sales tactics
I signed up to Bruce's free intro session. He has apparently been running this business for years but the bulk of reviews on here are from 2025, with the oldest one posted in August 2024.
Everything about the intro session has been made to look like it's live, but it's not; Bruce tries hard to persuade you of this as he mentions the attendees, making a point of saying names and locations of people, there is a live chat but you are only messaging admins and can't see the comments of others, and Bruce asks questions via polls throughout the session where you have about 10 seconds to answer and then he pointedly looks at his screen and tells everyone the results.
When you sign up, the course starts at a specific time & there are a number of start times each day.
There is NO WAY a company would run live free taster sessions like this. If it were live, it would be way too costly/time intensive for Bruce.
The 90min intro did not tell me anything I didn't already know from reading I've done on relationships, included a terrible worksheet which just reeled off quotes from Bruce in huge font with some words missing that you are meant to fill in (what a waste of 17 sheets of paper!), and I actually switched off after 45 mins once Bruce started his sales pitch. I'd seen enough.
Please please please, don't be put off seeking help from other sources; books & couples counselling are legitimate sources of help which Bruce does his best to deter you from accessing, saying these resources won't help you, which, in my opinion, is a disgraceful thing to say. Don't be fooled by Bruce's tactics, he is preying on your relationship desperation...don't waste your money!
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Edit: Thanks Bruce, I am glad to have confirmation from you and your team that the session is not live. It is good to have that evidence listed here to help others decide whether to work with you. Maybe you should update the way you do things so this is more transparent.
The first email I received after watching the session said 'Thanks for showing up to the masterclass today. I noticed that you had to dash out a bit early. I totally get it. Life happens', which still makes it sound like the session was live.
After I emailed some feedback in response, the Love At First Fight team then reached out and did confirm the session was a recording.
So why would a company include a working messaging feature and a working poll during a session when it is a recording?...to try and convince people it is live! Because a live session is more effort and makes Bruce look more legitimate in his hard work to help people. This is my main concern as it is misleading, especially for someone who you are looking to trust with your relationship health.
Bruce then emailed me to ask me to update or remove my review. I did not respond to this but then received an email from Trust Pilot with a form from Love At First Fight requesting contact details from me in order to verify my review. At no point has this company had my phone number and I am not happy to give them this information. The catch with this request is that if the details are not provided, your review is deleted!
So I have gotten in touch with Trust Pilot to verify my review with them instead. If this review is still here then it has been verified.
Bruce may be able to teach you some useful things, but it won't be anything you can't learn elsewhere. And I stand by my statement that it is disgraceful to try to put people off seeing a therapist or finding help in books just to try to persuade them to spend money on your course. Find someone to help you who is qualified. Not all therapists are $500 per session, Bruce!
Oh, and I went and watched the rest of your sales pitch via the link your team sent me just to make sure I had all of the information. I still sand by my review.
Response from Love At First FightOct 20, 2025
Hi Caeden,
Thanks for sharing your feedback. I understand how, if you expected the masterclass to be live, it might have felt confusing or even misleading, especially online where so many of us have been burned before. The free masterclass is actually a recording of a live event I lead to a real audience, replayed at different times so people worldwide can attend when it suits them. I’d love to clarify a few points and give some context below.
I appreciate that you joined my free masterclass and cared enough to write such a detailed review. You’re correct, the masterclass isn’t live but a recording of that live event. The polls, chat, and audience participation are all from that original session. I keep them in because they help recreate the same energy, connection, and engagement of the live event.
I can totally understand how, if you went in expecting a live broadcast, the experience felt misleading. In today’s online world, where scams are very real, that reaction makes sense. My intention, though, is never to deceive, only to make learning accessible to everyone around the world. To be clear, the masterclass has never been described as “live”. It may appear that way because it was originally delivered live and is now replayed for convenience. The multiple start times exist precisely so people can choose a time that works best for them.
You also mentioned that the reviews on Trustpilot only date back to August 2024, and again, you’re absolutely right. That’s simply when I joined the platform. Before that, I didn’t even know Trustpilot existed. I decided to register because I wanted an independent, verified place for clients to share their honest experiences, where reviews can’t be filtered or faked. Every review you see there was written by a real person whose relationship was impacted by the work we did together. Trustpilot independently verifies reviews and bans businesses that engage in deceptive practices.
It’s unfortunate to hear that you didn’t find the masterclass valuable. It is designed to introduce some of the core tools and frameworks that have helped tens of thousands of couples. I offer it freely so people can experience the content and decide for themselves whether to take the next step.
I imagine you care about protecting others from being misled, and that’s a generous intention to hold. There certainly are unethical marketers online, and I understand your caution. My goal is the opposite: to provide honest, research-backed education from the world’s leading relationship researchers to help people navigate the hardest parts of love and conflict.
I’m sorry that your experience felt disappointing. If you’d like to share constructive feedback on how I could make the masterclass clearer or more valuable, I’d genuinely welcome it. You’re welcome to reach out directly via our website.
Thank you again for taking the time to share your perspective.
Warmly,
Bruce
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Dani
Everyone should do this programme, what an insight!
I stumbled across Bruce completely by chance, and it honestly feels like fate! We’re over halfway through the programme, and it has already been transformative for our relationship. The science and small but incredibly effective tips have helped us show more empathy toward one another, be mindful of our own protest behaviours, and finally reconnect, something we’ve both longed for.
The appreciation journal is absolutely adorable! My friends can’t wait to hear how we’re getting on each week and some are even starting to implement the strategies themselves, while others have said they wish their partners would join the programme too.
Even our children have noticed the difference, one of them recently commented, “You’re acting like you’re dating again!” That moment really made us smile and showed just how much this course has impacted our family dynamic too.
I could go on and on about how much this course has helped us. For me, I finally feel like I am being heard and for my husband, he now does not live in fear that I will leave. The reflective conversations are a game changer in our relationship.
This course definitely requires commitment and time, but we’re fully embracing it and are so grateful to have found something that has genuinely changed our 16-year relationship for the better. We’re breaking old habits and have found a closeness I never thought was possible again.
Thank you so much, Bruce!
Response from Love At First FightOct 17, 2025
Hi Dani,
I love that you’ve noticed changes not just between you two, but in your whole family dynamic. It’s amazing what happens when connection starts leading the way. Thanks for taking the time to share your experience with me - Bruce.
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Alex
Bruce is the real deal
Bruce is the real deal, a real game changer in providing a framework to face crisis with your partners and action plan to face it and resolve it
Response from Love At First FightOct 10, 2025
Thanks for saying that. It means a lot to know the tools I teach make a difference. I appreciate you taking the time to write this. - Bruce