Michael M.
I have been very fortunate to have…
I have been very fortunate to have engaged IJL. I have had only one date and i couldn’t be happier with the outcome. I have been introduced to a woman who shares the same values, is a pleasure to be around and is very respectful of my past. We have now known each other for about eight weeks and feel as though we have been together for eight months. During this time i have introduced my date to many of my friends, those who have known my deceased wife well. Each of them had the same reaction, “where did you meet her, you are lucky to have found someone as nice and wholesome as she is and you both look very happy together”. My wife passed away from cancer after a long bout. She encouraged me to live my life and to find someone who would make me happy. She really loved me. My response to my friends when they ask how did i meet my date is the same, “my wife sent her”. I certainly feel that way but of course i have no proof. What i can say is that IJL through the on-boarding interview asked the right questions in terms of what i was looking for and what really mattered to me. My responses were based on the happy 30+ years i spent with my wife. I was brutally honest in my responses and provided explicit examples of happiness for me. IJL not only listened and took my responses to heart but they matched me with a woman who i would have never encountered unless i became an IJL member. I am thankful i had a good friend who encouraged me to engage with IJL. I started to meet woman based on well intentioned friend’s recommendations. That took a lot of time and effort. I soon realized i didn’t want to spend my time being my own filter, life is too short. So after five or six encounters i took my friend’s recommendation to heart and outsourced the filter activity to IJL. It couldn’t have worked out any better. I am grateful for this experience. The membership fee became a rounding error because i would have spent much more trying to meet people and going through various meetings to appreciate any long term benefits. And, i can’t quantify the emotional benefits of not having to deal with situations where i needed to extricate myself and deal with the friends who were kind enough to make the introductions. If you are serious about meeting someone for a long term relationship, i highly recommend IJL.
Response from It's Just LunchMay 9, 2022
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