Tony
From a Slave to a Man with Choices
I'm Tony, a 24 year-old paralegal; I've been watching porn since the age of 13 and have been trying to quit without lasting success for the last 2 or 3 years. Around November 2018, a friend turned me onto JK's podcast. After listening to a few podcasts, I decided to try to get a call. I had a scheduling mishap (my fault), but did eventually get on a call with JK's assistant. I was hesitant when they mentioned how much $$$ it costs, but it's been worth every penny. JK's system is understandable and effective and gives you a way to track your progress. The community, I'm in the Intensive program, is supportive but holds you accountable. JK's coping skills are simple and efficient. I'm free to focus on relationships with real people instead of living in my fantasy world; plotting my next masturbation session with or without pornography. I'm feeling more, reading more, doing more, and have a deeper sense of satisfaction overall than I ever remember experiencing. I can appreciate beauty without trying to ogle over it. I can talk to women without being as self-conscious as I used to be. I even find it easier to deepen my spirituality without that nagging feeling of hypocrisy I used to always have in the back of my mind. I feel like a man with choices, not a slave who obeys my urges/desires!



