Au Pair in America is the nation’s first federally approved program for both U.S. families seeking au pairs to provide live-in child care, and international young people wanting to take part in a year long cultural exchange.
Au Pair in America (aupairinamerica.com) has 136 customer reviews on Five Star Index, with an average rating of 4.1 out of 5.
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aupairinamerica.com
Category
Kids & Family
Location
Stamford, Connecticut
Listed on Five Star Index
2026
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Ich habe 2 Jahre mit AIFS in Amerika verbracht und hatte die tollste Zeit meines Lebens. AIFS war steht’s hilfstbereit und sehr freundlich ich kann die Agentur jedem vom Herzen weiterempfehlen!
Response from Au Pair in AmericaApr 26, 2023
Wir freuen uns, dass Sie eine so tolle Au-pair-Erfahrung hatten und dass Sie unser Team während Ihrem zweijährigen Programm als freundlich und hilfsbereit empfunden haben. Vielen Dank für diese positive Bewertung!
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Summer F.
How being an Au Pair changed my life!
I loved my Au Pair experience. Au Pair in America provides an opportunity to grow outside your comfort zone. The staff are helpful and encouraging. I will never forget my two years in the US because it taught me how to make new friends, how to challenge myself, and how to live life to the full!
Response from Au Pair in AmericaApr 21, 2023
Hi Summer, we appreciate you leaving us such a great review! We're glad the program has given you so much that you can carry forward with you! All the best in the future.
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Federica
THE BEST EXPERIENCE OF MY LIFE
I was an Au Pair in America for two years and I can tell that it was the best time of my life!
The Au Pair In America program was the best experience that made me live a great time and realize my American dream.
I met wonderful people, made friends from all over the world, lived in families that made me feel like at home.
I learned a lot, I experienced a lot, I smiled a lot and I couldn't be more happy to do this big jump to a new life!
I really recommend this experience if you want to change your life and live and incredible dream!
Response from Au Pair in AmericaApr 17, 2023
Hi Federica, thanks for your review. We're so pleased that we helped you achieve your American dream!
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Julyet
Every experience abroad will become a…
Every experience abroad will become a unique story to tell!
You have to expect plenty of ups and downs, but I felt supported by APIA all throughout the programme. Part of this cultural exchange costs a lot of stepping-out-of-your-comfort-zone. Especially at a young age, this can be scary! Not just for me, but also for my parents. Getting introduced to this agency, through an event in my home country, not only made me feel confident with embarking into this adventure, but also gave my parents peace of mind.
Their rich resources of professional knowledge and experience really helped me be prepared and enjoy my time to the fullest. I will cherish having had this opportunity forever!
Response from Au Pair in AmericaApr 14, 2023
Hi Julyet, thank you for your wonderful review. We're so glad that we could help give you the confidence to start your au pair year, as well as reassure your parents too! We love to hear that your experience was such a success. Best wishes from APIA London.
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Eleonora
The best experience of my life
The agency always supported me since I have decided to do this experience. My interviewer was always there helping me and while in the US my lcc was terrific and organized a lot of wonderful activities. My host family was the cherry on top of the cake as they were like family and I miss them so much!
Response from Au Pair in AmericaApr 6, 2023
Hey Eleanora, we’re delighted to hear that you had such a great experience on the Au Pair in America program. It’s so important to us that our au pairs feel supported throughout their time on the program, and we’re really happy that your US host family became like a 2nd family to you. Hopefully you can all be reunited again at some point in the future!
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Laura R.
10/10 would recommend
I came to the U.S. in the middle of the pandemic and Au Pair in America always helped me and supported me with all the documents I needed for my visa.
When I came to the U.S., I was with three families in three different states, had one rematch, and always felt like APiA supported me and had my back.
Especially my last counselor in Nashville, TN was so great! She was always there for us Au Pairs, planned all those great and fun meetings and always helped us. The communication between her, the AuPairs and the families was great and she put so much effort into her work!
I am more than happy with Au Pair in America and would always chose them again! 10/10 would recommend!
Response from Au Pair in AmericaApr 4, 2023
Thank you for taking the time to post this lovely review of your experience with Au Pair in America. We are so happy that you felt fully supported by our team throughout your time on the program, and that your Community Counselor was able to help make your experience so happy and fulfilling. We would love to welcome you back one day!
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Stepanka
Great fit for US families and foreign people who love children
Hi There,
My name is Stepanka, a friendly/loving girl, who became an au-pair in America. Au-pair in America program is a great fit for both US families and foreign young people who love children and want to experience something unique out of their native country.
As an au-pair I met a lot of nice people, I got to go to English school, and also I gained a lot of experience which I have decided to share with all of you and help out with things that every au-pair deal with after her/his arrival.
I created a YouTube Channel called "A Pinch of Advice" where you can already find helpful videos and more are coming every month.
I can't wait to see you there.
Best wishes, Steph :)
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Heizel G.
I had the worst job experience in usa
I had the worst job experience in usa.
First, as an au pair be prepare to get help from no one, your counselor is a joke, they most have a second job and they will always protect the family before you.
I understand that the family paid like 10 thousand per year but we only have 195 $ per week for a 45H. Its clearly modern slavery and I accept it even before coming here. I just want to became bilingual cause it was important for my career.
Second, host family are stubborn with clichés and peoples from others part of the world.
They ask every details to their kids about how your work, how your are, what you said.
My first family was fine. I had a good time for a year but I wish they would have talk to me more about exploring the area or tell me advice about how to do stuff. Even if the teenager start saying lies about me like ; I would change lights bulbs in the house or the microwave hour, I still like him cause they all have a good education and respect me. even when they speak an other languages in front of me.
When I left in an other family I thought it can't be worse but it was, 2 pre-teenagers who just want to chill at home and the mom force us to play together. Honestly I don't think they need an au pair. Someone to watch them maybe, pick up and drop off for school. I try to talk to the mom but then she kick me out.
And I finally arrived in Virginia in the worst family ever who treat you as an employee and not a part of the family like its suppose to be in the program.
I remember after doing the mistake of accepting to go. The host mom answer me the morning to tell me the host dad will pick me up ... A little late ? When he pick me up, after a few minutes, he clearly mention his political side and the fact they were Cristian. I was in 2 family before with 2 different religions so I didn't care. I realize they were camera in the house after a few days. The worst was the fact that they have 5 kids, chickens,3 dogs and 3 cats. Imagine the smell of the house. No one clean my bedroom when I arrived the first night. The bathtub was yellow and obviously they never ask me if I want something from the store or if I can come eat with them on days off. I would starve because fridge was empty and they would take the car to buy fastfood for everyone except me in front of me. They would leave all their mess all sunday for me to clean on monday morning. They also track my phone. I remember at first they ask me to work more during summer cause no school and I will be paying more, except I realize They paid me like 213$ for 7AM to 8pm everyday of the week. I was exausted I couldn't even go to the bathroom without the kids following me. I couldn't let the kids watch tv and I was suppose to play with them all day while the bigger kids was upstairs watching tv. I stopped cause I explain the host mom, a babysitter is paid +10$ an hour, and she said that she can't afford it. Well look at the size of the house and the fancy cars. After that, she count every miles I would drive and take it off my pay. She would text me at 6am every morning giving me a list a chores to do in the house. I heard the kids talk about me a lot after dinner when I was in my bedroom and the hostmom was not defending me at all. They would critize my country, and even the fact that I lost my mom when I was young. Then a big tantrum happens when they lost one of their cat, The host mom told me to bring only the really young kid to school and he was asking me why everyone is crying and I told him, his parents would talk to him after school. So we try to leave for the car and his sister told me to put the dogs in their small bedroom (like a cage) but I say since you are all home and I be back in 30 min you can leave them outside. And the oldest one start yelling at me and cursing about the fact that I can't answer a 11 year old because I'm an employee.
I try to stay calm and left for the car with the little kid but they called they dad cause obviously he was upstairs not recomforting his kids downstairs (logical). He then, came after me and tell to just go, and pick up my stuff and go. I told him I didn't understand. I left for my bedroom and packed my stuff and called my counselor to pick me up. I didn't know what to do. Nobody prepare you for being out in the street. When I was packing my stuff, kids came yelling at me, and cursing at me and almost fight me.
A few days after, even when the counsellor saw that I was traumatized and I could move she told me that to leave and to don't even try to find an other family. I had 5 months left. I paid for my visa, so it was not fair, and I organized vacation for Christmas so I told her no and luckily for me I had friends in an other state who could let me stay over.
I never receive apologies from the agency or host family. I don't know if this HF stay in this agency. I'm now sure that they mistreat lot of others au pairs sad, uncomfortable with their religion and political issue.
Hopefully the agency paid my flight back.