The Mind EngineerReviews of unleashingyourmindset.com

The truth is that, before I started working with Tommy, I felt completely lost, without direction and unsure of how to move forward. I genuinely did not want to open my eyes each day only to find myself in the same situation, asking myself the same questions, punishing myself, and feeling so terrible that I was on the verge of depression. I learned about Tommy through a friend who sent me one of his videos. I really connected with the way he thought and immediately saw that his approach was completely different from anything traditional. I had always known there was something more, and then I found it. Tommy completely changed the way I see and think about things. He taught me how to truly care for my inner child and how to stay present with my pain, even when it felt unbearable. I came to understand that this was the only way to heal: by staying, listening to myself, and understanding where all that suffering and those limiting beliefs from childhood came from. I used to believe that I was incapable of achieving anything. I was always looking for someone else to protect me because I did not think I could make it on my own. Thanks to this process, I made decisions I never believed I would be capable of making—decisions that have brought me a sense of peace I would not trade for anything or anyone. I am happy. Today, my mind, my heart, and my inner child are finally in harmony. Thank you, Tommy! I love you.

What made it great? What can be greater than a journey to find yourself and your purpose come about not by reading books. Not by doing affirmations not by thinking if it’s meant to be it will be. Not by expectations that it’s if you change your thinking. No it happened when something about Tommy caught my eye and I felt safe to listen to him to hear him

My sessions with Tommy have helped me uncover and remove the negative messages I had internalized from my childhood. He has showed me how to validate myself and undo the internalized shame causing me to berate myself constantly and relapse into drug an alcohol abuse over and over throughout my life. I also have a diagnosis of bipolar disorder. When I started sessions with Tommy (8 months ago), I was coming out of psychosis, a drug use relapse and near death due to a grand mal seizure. I had just been released from an inpatient psychiatric hospitalization. I cried nearly all day, everyday and was experiencing intense dread and panic continuously. I interviewed several traditional clinicians and was rejected for treatment because my case was too severe and too complicated, too much of a liability. This rejection from traditional psychotherapy was, at the time, humiliating but these rejections led me to Tommy; I can see now this was a great gift. I was skeptical of Tommy's approach because I had always been treated by highly credentialed and very expensive psychiatrists and psychologists throughout my life. I have a history of trauma with men, so I was also hesitant, as I have always avoided therapy with men. When I was referred to Tommy by a friend, I was feeling suicidal every moment of everyday. I have been in and out of psychotherapy with some of the "best" psychologists and psychiatrists since age 17 (I am now 47). When I started with Tommy, I was feeling broken beyond repair and completely without hope but this desperation forced me to try something new. I was on the brink of suicide daily so I thought, what else could I have to lose? I'm not going to lie, the work Tommy asked me to do was hard, there were days I wanted to avoid or skip our sessions. I didn't want to talk to my inner child or love and validate myself in the way Tommy wanted me to but the pain and hopelessness I was feeling made me stick to it - I'm so glad I did. When I look back on all the expensive therapy, medications, cushy rehabs and psychiatric hospitals I've been in and out of, I can now see that all those treatments ever did was put a bandaid on a deep, gaping and life threatening wound. My work with Tommy, though difficult, has help me get to the root of my trauma and heal these wounds at their core. Tommy is deeply attuned, empathic and driven to heal. He makes me feel safe in a way I have never experienced in therapy before. My therapeutic relationship with him has helped me stop hating men and to see them in a new way. He brings an intense spiritual passion to his work and his methodology goes deeper and is more effective than CBT, DBT, Psychoanalytic talk therapy, EMDR, Positive Psychology and all the other therapies I've tried (there are too many to list). Furthermore, I have worked as a therapist in the past. I hold a master's degree in clinical psychology. I believe his methodology for healing trauma in adults is more effective than anything I learned in school. Although I did not complete my PsyD, I have several years of direct clinical experience with and training in "evidence based" trauma therapy at the doctoral level - nothing comes close to being as deeply effective as Tommy's method. Tommy is validating and gentle in his approach but also able to push back against unhealthy defenses without judgement. This work is hard, it is uncomfortable and it takes time but it has helped me more than all the other approaches I have tried. This work goes deep but Tommy as a guide made me feel safe and supported in a way I didn't know was possible. I recommend him fully, without reservations. If he is able to help a case as complex as mine, he is able to help anyone - provided one is willing to do the work and not quit before the healing happens.

Working with Tommy has changed my life in the most profound way. For years, I carried the belief that I was fundamentally damaged, and that something was inherently wrong with me. Through his gentle guidance and inner child work, he helped me see that I was never defective. I was wounded, not broken. His kindness, patience, and completely nonjudgmental presence created a space where I felt safe enough to explore parts of myself I had long avoided. For the first time in my life, I began to experience real self-love and self-compassion. He helped me reframe qualities I once saw as flaws and understand them through a compassionate, empowered lens. That shift alone has transformed how I move through the world. I am no longer living from shame. I am living from self-understanding and acceptance, and I will always be grateful to him for that.

Wow! I am so grateful that I found Tommy, The Mind Engineer. I have had several relationships that had issues and traditional counseling wasn't helping. Of course, communication was key but after talking with Tommy, I realized that the way I was listening and communicating was not correct. After the first session with Tommy, things started registering more clearly in my mind. He showed me how past experiences are processed in the mind and how they affect a person in the right now. Having this information and applying it to everyday life has been life changing. Not only has my relationship with my wife improved exponentially, my approach to everything else going on around me has been great. I am so very thankful that I found Tommy and I have recommended Tommy to quite a few of my friends. (They all love him!!) Tommy's approach is one that both males and females will benefit from his service. I cannot recommend Tommy and his Mind Engineer program enough for you. He is what I needed to get my life on track and improving my emotional wellbeing.

I came to Tommy feeling stuck and stalled in my business. I had been on a hiatus for about two years and felt overwhelmed to start. First, I'd like to say I felt total acceptance and safety to fully express my thoughts and feelings with Tommy. This is huge when doing this kind of work. Tommy helped me to see how I was neglecting a part of me, which translated to rejecting that part, which created a disconnect and lack of trust within. Tommy was kind and caring in our sessions and provided me with a printed copy of our conversations and also shared resources for me to use in my own time freely. I highly recommend spending time with Tommy if you want to take a deep dive into what's keeping you stuck!

I’ve been working with Tommy for several years now. He is amazing with his insights and knowledge of how the mind works🤩. He is passionate about his calling and selflessly works to help his clients understand why they think like they do and how. Tommy will ask me to Identify my emotion that may be popping up, work through it , questioning me Why I might be feeling that particular way. In particular we have been working though grief/sadness, guilt/shame, anger and hurt. Tommy will ask me to go back to an event or events where I might have not been “helped” by my parents or shamed me to keep quiet instead of sharing how I was feeling. The little Suzanne was not heard. I was taught to stuff my emotions whether it was anger, sadness, envy, etc as they were considered “bad”. As a result I developed deep anger, grief, sadness that has been with me unresolved for many years. If these “bad” emotions show up, I feel guilty. Tommy has worked tirelessly in his weekly group zoom meetings as well as private coaching to help me identify and work through these emotions. This is uncovering the shadow in me that can finally be recognized, embraced and allowed to be freed. I am so much happier. I absolutely recommend working with Tommy, The Mind Engineer🥳💙

Tommy's support, through his live events, social media, videos, daily posts, and messages, has been incredibly impactful. As someone with severe C-PTSD, beginning my fifth year of recovery, I've experienced a profound shift from constant hypervigilance to regaining control of my emotions, now measured in seconds and minutes. He has been paramount in guiding me to the heart of my challenges, fostering acceptance, embrace, transformation, the loving tending of my inner child, and helping to rewire the neuroplasticity of my brain. He is one of the very few people I allow myself to connect with, even virtually, as he makes me feel safe and secure. His constant presence and consistent guidance, whether through posts, videos, or live events, provide invaluable support. Thanks to his work, I'm feeling safer in my own mind and home than ever before, and my sense of safety in the community is steadily increasing. His approach is heartfelt and effective, and I give him my strongest recommendation. Thank you, Tommy, for everything. My sincere gratitude to you. - Pamela Davison.