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I am very confused as to why I was banned in the 1st place. If I wrote something that SA didn't like in my profile, isn't that why it goes into review? I'm a photographer and I didn't realize I wasn't allow to pursue my hobby as part of my profile. With all the rude men and scammers you let perpetuate the site and prey on woman, I'm SHOCKED I would be the one to get banned! I'm a legitimate business man, who has treated everyone I have met on SA for year with the upmost respect. Is that not what the site is about?
I'm willing to pay your price to join your website. Do you not want good paying members?
PA
panasonic8Y
THEY TAKE YOUR MONEY THEN BAN YOU WITH FAKE EXCUSES
This site is supposed to be for mutual benefit arrangements, but they firstly block you after first 5 messages and then bombard you with messages to pay monthly fee.
Then soon after you pay, they close your membership with fake excuses of 'soliciting' (which is a laughable on a site advertised as 'seeking arrangements), presumably thinking you will re-join and pay another fee to them again. Complete scam.
SG
Sgirl
I have been on seeking for many years
I have been on seeking for many years. In the beginning it was wonderful a lot of selection of wonderful guys. Now there's a lot of scammers unfortunately. But I can at least fish them out. Easy to use free for women and yes it cost for men. But if you want a real relationship doesn't matter discrete Adventure. This app/site is easy to use. So I gave it a three stars out of five because it is the usual kind of site.
JO
Jon
Seeking Arrangement Confidential
VERDICT: money aside, this site is a colossal waste of time. I can meet a gold-digger in a City bar with more success than "seekingarrangement-dot-com"
ME: early 30's, good looking, daily gym, banking professional. Paid for premium account, posted a carefully crafted profile with 8 pictures ( face blurred out ).
SUMMARY: received 100+ messages in just 1 weeks [ boom, demand was through the roof piling up and I though I hit a jackpot, but quickly realised it's too good to be true. I am not Brad Pitt either ]:
First 50% were "out-of-town lovers pouring-in" like avalanche, but all were hired bloggers. How? Easy to spot:
-1, may be 2 pics, posing as a British but can't help with an American slang. Some bloggers made mistakes copy-pasting wrong reply from another conversation. Effectively same storyline: "when are you coming to belle-ville Paris". "Girl, I keep telling: no pics, no Paris. I know how president Macron looks but not you" [ I didn't say exactly that ]. Whole distance-love thing set up just to keep your membership rolling.
Second 50% were escorts and scammer. A scammer will share their phone # then ask for $ in return for pics/videos. Even escorts asking for double the price! LOL
LAST NOTE: The only real person was a good looking girl also in her 30's ready to meet. However, she as married. Not my cup-of-soup unfortunately. So what's that? Potential 1 out of 100+, who knows may be she was fake too..
BA
Barry
Overpriced
As a 30 year old guy, I have met better women on SA than tinder or bumble, believe it or not. The problem is that you have to pay a ridiculous monthly price to message girls on the app, which is what prompted me to quit using it. I am not massively rich or that attractive, maybe just average or slightly above, but matched with, chatted with, dated, and helped out some really attractive and cool young ladies from the site. I'm sure I would have met more if their pricing wasn't as ridiculously high as it is.
Another site, Secret Benefits, has the same idea but in my opinion is better because you pay per conversation, not per month, making your dollar go farther. I have decided to use that site from now on if I decide to do this type of dating.
AM
Amy
Full of scammers, escorts and sexual predators.
I was one of the girls using it when i was studying and working minimum wage part time. Prior to that, i had no experience with guys.
Though the site is full of prostitutes and escorts, most of the guys will disregard them. You see, the guys don’t want professional girls, girls who have been with multiple men already. They want their own personal prostitute, and so seek out the non-pro girls. Girls who are young and naive, and inexperienced; most are struggling financially. I’ve had grown men (ranging from 20’s up to 60’s), (a lot with daughters themselves), take advantage, manipulate, lie and deceive me when i didn’t know better. I’ve heard horrible stories from other SBs and horrible stories from the guys i’ve spoken to on there as well. And i feel not an ounce of sympathy for the men who get scammed and hoodwinked and stood up, the sick perves all deserve it. Even SA as a business is ripping the male users off and i’m glad.
I’ve reported multiple users on there, some soliciting for sex, some looking for really young girls, all making promises they don’t intend to keep, but SA has done nothing to ban those users. I know guys who have also reported people on there, but have seen no results.
Whether girls start off as a sex worker on that site or not, there’s a good chance, if she manages to get an “arrangement”, she will become a sex worker eventually. So to the girls using or thinking of using SA, please be careful. I had no one to warn me.
SA wants to advertise itself as a serious and genuine dating site, don’t know who they’re trying to kid. Good thing Apple has taken the SA app off its app store.
JS
JJ S.
Cancelled membership with no refund
Joined this site and got my 3 month membership canceled because apparently I spoke with an underage girl! I’ve asked for the proof or requested my membership Money back but refusing in both! Worst dating site ever!!
AN
Anonymous
SEEKING.COM OWNER LOOSER WAY LEA SCAM ARTIST RIPS OFF MEN TO FUND HIS FAKE ASS LIFE BIG DIRT BAG
After numerous attempts to contact wade I haven’t even had the courtesy of a response. I don’t expect much of a resolution with my comment as he lives in a bubble.
He says he commands respect however gives no respect especially to his male members.
We all make a mistake in business as entrepreneurs sometimes it’s best to own the mistake and admit to it shutting down men’s memberships when they’re the one paying all the bills and banning them from the site is an absolute pathetic joke. He spends quite a bit of money marketing his website In which he brags all about himself and how great the website and performances in actuality there are thousands of women worldwide using the site for solicitation of prostitution money extortion fraud in which Wade knows about and continues to do nothing of it except shut male members down and banned them from the site.
Original review posted by user 41 minutes ago
In less then 1 year with his high prices I have been shut off ,Banned 3 times the miniute you report escorts, prostitution, solicitation, women asking for all kinds of money your account gets terminated. He gives away free memberships to the women and brags about how his members are 4 to 1 on the world level which makes someone wanting to actually meet someone interesting.
The truth of the matter is he treats his employees like garbage he can’t keep employees if you look online he is consistently Advertising for job positions because he such an *** no one wants to work for him.
He brags about being a MIT graduate as if he’s the only one on the planet that went to that university.
He reports revenues of $10 million a year with the net worth of IN excess $40 million in which he rides on the strength of men’s membership who he consistently shuts down members after they pay as he did to me when you’re paying member why should you have to beg or plead to keep your membership active when he doesn’t abide by his own terms and conditions that’s why he’s been investigated numerous times. Also if he’s so rich with the high net worth why does the offer no refunds?
Reason of review: Owner cancels 3500 accounts regularly ripping man off as he did mine even though it has taken almost a year to build my profile..
GOVERNMENT SHUTS HIM DOWN HE GOES TO PRISON FOR SEX TRAFFICKING AND PROSTITUTION AND MEN IN PRISION TREAT HIM LIKE he treats MEN LIKE GARBAGE THAT HE IS.
I didn't like: How they took my money and failed to provide the service, Hiding crooks, Customer service and poor quality of website, Women looking for handouts from men dumb enough to provide them.
AND HE FACILITATED ALL OF IT HE STEPED DOWN AS CEO AFTER BEING IN THE MEDIA AND THE NEW CEO IS THE BIGGEST LOOSER THESE ARE 2 old ugly Middle Aged predictors and scam artists and ugly dirt bags.