SeekingarrangementReviews of seekingarrangement.com

[Asian SB] About 7 years ago, I first learnt about this sugar baby site. Even though I was too young & scared to be involved in this affair, I had strong positive experiences than the bad experiences. I met a couple of married men who are really good looking & generous/chivalrous. Came back this year for about 1 month+. It’s been crazy seeing how bizarre SDs are now behaving. I never once asked for payment before or during M&G. Always genuine in my replies. My experiences were such a mixed bag and did not have any truly positive experience: • Kink Based Selection It’s no longer enough to be young, good looking, intelligent and willing to be physically intimate. 2 Business owner with one of the highest monthly allowance range filter me based on whether I am willing to cater to their specific extreme sexual fetishes (I don’t). Whatever nice stuff they wrote in their profile and messages isn’t the main deal, how unfortunate despite meeting the criteria. • Long Conversation Without Meeting Some men just wants to keep texting without meeting. A few obviously wanted some sex-text entertainment— The western guy even send some sex videos and constantly ask about my fantasies, non-stop. • Passive & Flaky Local SG Men Most exist just to view beautiful female photos. Some are flaky in meeting, cancels last minute few hours before meeting, others talks about meeting yet MIA. My experiences of all (2) Chin-Dian tends to have an irrational emotional outbursts. • Bizzare American Expats Men They at first appear to be the most perfect profiles. For no apparent good reasons, they seem to be overly thinking things and will block you (don’t spend too much energy trying to analyse them). For instance, my M&G went perfectly well with impeccable & respectful lawyer who said he wants to meet again. He went on a business trip and we didn’t spoke at all. A week later, our chat messages were gone and my account got reported I think (didn’t even ask for anything or even said anything!), he blocked me on seeking too. Next day, with another American in his 60’s who will be flying over for a business trip— my one innocuous reply about why I was up late (I was studying & planning my life) got me blocked the next morning too. 🧐🤨 • Disappearing Accounts About 80% of the people I had conversations with for past 1.5 months either have deactivated accounts or were blocked by either party (LOL). To clarify, I only block only those with weird fetishes like licking of armpits or were stringing me for too long, etc! • Pimps One of the SD was looking for a SB to pimp to his investment client(s) for a mere S$500 and asked me to take pills (Which hints about unprotected sex). I initially thought he was a cool person! Summary: As you can see, the original idea of a sugar baby has become more of a distant dream & an illusion. I don’t know if it’s even real, whether a wealthy sugar daddy even exists. People are acting weird after the years of covid 19. Being a genuine SB has make me feel so exhausted. I felt that I have wasted so much time on this, constantly rewriting my profile and taking better photos but yielding no fruitful results given the sort of people on the platform. I guess it’s better to go back to getting a traditional job or focus on entrepreneurship and keep ourselves out of the entire dating market! (I don’t use Tinder) I understood and expected the site to have busy successful men but not a flood of mentally & emotionally unstable individuals. 😕

Registered on this platform to find out who are using this kind of dating service. Meet couple of girls, but conversation hasn't gone much further than the 'pay per meet' topic. Can't say for sure, but most of users look like a catfish. Better be careful.

Ive been a member for a year and a half. There DEFINITELY are some fakes. So if anyone tells you different, they are wrong. Im a real dude who has seen literally thousands of profiles and have talked to 100s of girls. I have met up with at least 10 girls on the site. Most are for sure looking for sugar daddy money. But I wont pay anything unless there is a connection. Also - this is a good site for peeople seeking just a little extra excitement outside of their current relationship. I've met up with a few girls. Plenty of REAL girls on here - just wanting a real connection or a simple hookup. I give it a THREE stars because there are many girls who lead in with crazy unreal things they say to you (talking about sex on the first message is a sign of a bullshitter). Too good to be true message means it IS too good to be true. Im a Diamond member so I think that if they see Im not getting attention, they FOR SURE have girls that come in and give me a day or three of attention - but it fades WAY OUT from where it started. Goes from overwhelming texts back and forth to in a day or two - one text a day or none. Its pretty lame. But Ive had BOTH sides. Good and bad. Thats why I give it a 3.

seeking.com Has a lot of flaws, but as bad as SA is, it's still one of the best options, if not the best to find an arrangement. It is true that the site is full of scammers, time wasters, fakes, rinsers and so on, but if you take the time to filter out profiles and use common sense... You can meet legit girls looking for an arrangement. It did take me a lot of time, and vetting, to meet real and attractive SB's, so if you are willing to put in the time and move thru the BS, then SA might work for you. Even though I've had some good experiences on the site, I've also had a lot of bad, for that reason I can't give the site more than 3 stars. They need to figure out a way so that les scammers and fakes join the site. So I can't recommend, unless you are okay with all the sites cons.

It used to be better but it seems like they are making a lot of changes ever since changing their website name. I will continue keeping my profile but won't renew for a bit.

Habe mich (weiblich) neu bei der Seite angemeldet (heißt jetzt nur 'Seeking'). Kann bis jetzt nichts schlechtes darüber sagen. Man kann auch ohne zu bezahlen die anderen Profile sehen und Leuten Nachrichten schreiben, und das weltweit. Kann die negativen Bewertungen hier nicht wirklich nachvollziehen. Es sollte doch klar sein dass man niemandem Geld schickt den man noch nie vorher getroffen hat. Es muss einem auch klar sein dass hier alles sehr oberflächig ist. Wenn man genau das sucht, passt es aber. Aktualisierung: Bin seit ca. 1 Jahr angemeldet, bis jetzt hat sich aber nichts ergeben.

I’m a 21 year old college student who is in dire straits to pay for my education in order to further improve my career options for the future. I work two jobs tiredlessly just to get by so I’ve decided to try looking for a Sugar Daddy to help out with my living expenses. I signed up with seeking.com a year ago and have gotten mostly positive experiences. However, I might have also gained a creepy stalker... I’ve met this guy (profile: Kevall1n) through messaging and in the beginning everything was going great. We’ve arranged a meet & greet to see if we connect for a long lasting sugar relationship and also get a feel of his personality/vibe. However, this guy arrived driving a beat up Lincoln and claimed he would compensate $700 if I was down for fun now. He also seemed super young...no more than 21, around my age. There was something very off putting about our meeting together. My intuition told me to steer away and forget the arrangement. We ended up parting ways that day. A few hours later my phone blew up with messages sent from him saying, “You remind me of my ex, please give me a chance to prove I’m a real SD.” “I’ll give you $2,000, if you are still down.” The whole thing was just super odd and awfully immature, so I ignored it, blocked his # through a chat app (thank god!!!) and moved on with my search. Fast forward a few months, things have gotten way out of hand. He goes around browsing the website creating multiple profiles in order to stalk my profile and falsely report me for stupid reasons. As a result, my profile is up only for a few weeks only to be wiped out/deleted completely from their database. I have messaged Seeking multiple times discussing this issue and apparently there’s nothing they could do to retrieve my profile once it’s been flagged or deleted.🙄 I’m currently in a vicious cycle of creating multiple profiles to secure my place on the website so that I don’t have to start my description over from scratch and waste time. I also take multiple anonymous photos to keep ready for uploading just in case. Quite frankly, I’m extremely sick and tired of these games. He has nothing better to do than ruin my peaceful seeking experience. I bet he doesn’t even have a life. He’s also managed to find my real iPhone #. I’ve been bombarded with threatening text messages daily. Even after all of that hate, he still tries to set up a date with me by using these sneaky accounts hoping to start something. I usually know which one is likely his profile due to the fact that the description is very vague and he usually offers a ridiculous amount. Same tactic... Wouldn’t be surprised if I’m not the only girl being caught up in the web. Furthermore, I’d decided to set up a meeting again to see what his deal is and face this psycho in person. I was brutally honest. He just didn’t come across as a genuine person. I just ended things by standing my ground. Just recently he’s called me out through messages on seeking.com I quote word for word :0 “”Why do you keep making new accounts. You might have some mental issues, tbh. Lol The fact that your profile says your “chill and down to earth” is a complete 180 from your actual demeanor.”” “”Dumb f*** prostitutes that treat this site like it’s their money making playing grounds. Hope you catch an STD!”” “”Stop f*** wasting people’s time your not special. Your f*** nose needs a job!”” Wow, my intuition served me right. His true colors really showed there.🤣 Morale of the story is, I don’t have time to play games. My reality/school/life etc goes on as usual but if anyone else is being harassed or experiencing something similar. Don’t feel afraid to post your nightmare experience. Speak Up! Get your message across! Ladies at the end of the day, we don’t deserve this kind of treatment. Peace✌️

I've used Seeking on and off for about 5 years now. More recently (and especially during lockdown), the site has become riddled with scammers, so it takes an awful lot of time to browse through literally hundreds of fake profiles before you find a few real honest girls. That being said, if you put the time and effort in and if you remain honest, upfront, respectful and polite, you will eventually find someone. I've met a few wonderful girls with whom I've had fantastic relations. So does it work? Yes. Will you find someone 5 minutes after logging on? Definitely no.