If you search "Seeking Arrangement Reviews", the top two sites rate SA very highly. But if you look into it a bit, you'll see it's the SAME website owners. SA used to be good but now it's FILLED with fake profiles of women to bait you into paying their high membership fees. The vast majority of the "women" are fake either created by SA to sell memberships or men who pretend to be women. Save your money.
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Peter K.
Your private date is NOT secured on this site
I've been using SA on and off for approx. 2 years but very recently experienced something deeply concerning.
I signed up on the site, paid for a membership, and began contacting a few people but it's late so I go to sleep.
I wake up few hours later, my password is changed, all my content on the profile is changed, my pictures are removed, and I have countless of emails being sent (mostly) and some replies as well.
I log into the email I signed up with, the one I always use, and I immediately see that there's a warning with "suspecious login" and an email confirming "you changed email". I immediately click on the link in regard to "if this is not you, click here" and change password.
I have no - absolutely zero - security breach in my gmail. If you know gmail you'll also know that strang logins are notified and in the logfile you can see what has happened recently. Nothing of course shows up. So no one "hacked" my email, etc.
It is impossible that a random person just happens to try and log into my NEW account using MY email, then guessing my weird password (that is btw NOT similar to any other password) on a profile just made.
This person, whoever it was, spammed a ton of people. Some of the ones I wanted to contact blocked me (of course, the profile got totally screwed up and it was evident).
SA do not recognize this but of course try to blame it on the user. I'm sure they got plenty of users who actually do forget to log off, or who are unfortunate to have someone guess password, etc. but this is NOT the case for me.
All the private data I received from people of course got exposed. Same for pictures shared, background info, everything.
This is a genuine concern about being very careful what you upload and share because they do not, as history have proven, take IT security very serious and this is a very sensitive site with enough issues already (professional scammers, rape, etc.)
Very disappointing.
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Jana N.
I am a SB in her 30s based in Prague…
I am a SB in her 30s based in Prague and get messages on SA regularly. If I was in NYC or London, I would be probably flooded. The other sugar dating websites where I am registered generate almost zero interest on the other hand. It could be because many of them are stuck in the 90s unlike SA that is easy to navigate and use.
The majority of the men seem to be genuinely successful - not based on the income that can be easily lied about (most members don´t choose to have their identity and wealth verified) but because of how the profile texts sound. Quite a few even come across as intellectual. Just the fact that the men have to pay for the membership (for women it´s optional) seem to weed out the usual losers that can otherwise be found anywhere on the internet. That itself is, honestly, refreshing.
Now the con - as a successful member you can offer allowance / cash in the profile text but as a beautiful member you can´t ask for the same or your profile text gets rejected. You can hint though. I find this ridiculous, at least they could have the same rule for both men and women. It seems they are extremely concerned about escorts using the website. Honestly, I don´t see how the call girls might find it worth it to exchange numerous messages with men who usually state in their profiles "no prostitutes". I suppose they can make some money there if they don´t mind to waste time but with the trillion of escort websites available, this doesn´t even make economical sense.
The other thing is that a lot of men state in their profiles that they are not comfortable giving allowance but they are willing to be generous in other ways. It´s the usual dinners + gifts + trips combination which might be interesting for some but I believe most of the women are on the website because they need financial assistence while studying, starting up a business or working a low key job. If you are a very attractive, smart and confident young lady, you will probably be able to get the meals and the occasional treat from any man you might choose to date - you don´t need SA for that. I think the older / less attractive the guy, the more willing he is to give allowance.
I paid for the premium membership for 90 days just that I could be searching for key words and create filters. Maybe it´s money that went down the drain, hard to say at this moment.
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Amelia R.
The worst customer service ever!
The worst customer service ever!! So I’ve actually bin on this site for over a year having had on successful arrangement in past so today they suspended my account for no reason and said I must said a photo of my id? Which I did they then responded asking me to send a picture holding my id again no reason as to why my account was suspended so I asked them to remove my details and I won’t be sending a selfie and they refused to remove my details even tho they suspended my account am 23 I pasted my driving license when I was 18 even tho it’s biin five years you can tell it’s me on the picture I’ve lost two stone but in the face you can still tell it’s me and I actually think they are having a laugh with me so I’ll just be looking into getting my details removed now as never known a company to refuse to remove the account holders details or refuse to give reason on a suspended account
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Melissa G.
To be completely honest
To be completely honest the website is so bad that even apple decided to take the app off of the App Store. So many reported meet ups that turned in to rape claims, woman getting scammed and so much more. The ratio to women to men is truly unacceptable. It’s a horrible horrible horrible dating site. I almost got scammed every time a guy talked to me on the site. Thank God I’m not one of the naive ones to give out my bank info. (No offense) and their were so many frauds on that site, posers who made it seem like they “need someone to spoil and have an emotional connection with” but it’s all a fictional figment of imagination. I have been on this site for 9 months and it’s nothing but a fraudulent site. Just another fake dating site and everyone who defends it has been paid by the ceo himself, I know this because my friend in California exposed the agenda to me.
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Teresa
Sick creeps and slime bags
I've used this site a couple of times. Plenty of horror stories and I wasn't even dumb enough to meet them in person.
I will categorise the men as follows.
Looking for sex as cheap as possibly no intention to pay for it 50%
Fake accounts, creeps and scammers 20%
Looking for a girl to take on a date while on town for work with no compensation despite being double/triple her age and possibly expecting sex 15%.
Looking for a new wife or gf 2.5%
Genuine sugar daddy 2.5%
Looking for long term escort type arrangement and willing to pay a good amount and actually polite and friendly 2.5%
Looking for quick sex and willing to pay but only talk to girls 10/10in Physichal appearance. 2.5%.
Looking to help and mentor someone not really interested in paid arrangements as a priority 5%.
At a maximum only 15% of the men are worthwhile and that's a generous estimate. Given they say 8 babies to one S. D. girls and that includes all the scumbags in the above classifications. Girls need to be in the top 1- 2% of appealing profiles since they'd have to be the best of at least 60 other girls and stick to their guns to bag a worthwhile guy who won't abuse or take advatage, take numerous safety precautions and value themselves highly and let no one tell them otherwise.
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holly D.
Full of cheap asses and scammers
Most of the men on the site are cheap losers and definitely not worth the status of a S. D. It's too bad there isn't a way to filter. They want a personal escort for the cost of what a waitress or receptionist gets paid to do a shift a work. What they expect would cost them over quadruple if they did use a proper escort so I think they must prey on young naiive girls or drug addicts.
I have had better success in the real world, never any success on the site. No young attractive woman on her right mind is going to meet a grotty old man and have sex with him all night for $300-400 so I don't know why so many men are requesting such services for such small amounts of money and even more laughable is many of them expect the girl to somehow host when she is likely living in a sharehouse or with her parents. The only "girls" I know who accept the small amounts of money for not even laughable, actually disgusting terms had a thing for that nasty drug called ice and certainly looked like it too.
I like to believe all the other young ladies value themselves more but who knows.
There are a few nice gents on there but it is just too hard and not safe to screen.