Paradigm TreatmentReviews of paradigmmalibu.com

When I first went into Paradigm, I believed that showing emotion was a sign of weakness, but quickly learned that it is truly a sign of courage and strength. I was extremely lucky to have Rob, Jay, Jess, Shannon, and Jeff's help. Their advice and kind words have stuck with me for over two years already. Paradigm helped me make changes in my life and break several bad habits. These changes have stuck and will continue to stick for the rest of my life. The Paradigm staff is fantastic, kind, funny, and overall a group of sincerely caring people who are more than willing to listen to your life story, and offer advice if you want it. The help the staff and other teens provide will help you create a more healthy and stable lifestyle.

Paradigm honestly helped me so much. I was sent there to work on issues with depression and anxiety and because I was suicidal. At first I didn't know what to work on or to think because there was so much going on in my head but the therapists never gave up on me, no matter how many times I fought the treatment. I wasn't willing to put in the work for the first month I was there, but throughout the next month and a half I explored traumas and family issues I didn't realize existed. The therapists really care about the clients and actually want to get to know us and help us. It really is a family. The therapists aren't just therapists, they're there throughout the day and we get to have fun with them. The clinical assistants are really helpful too. Everyone at Paradigm is there to help the clients. The staff really put a lot into helping us get better. I got close with almost every therapist there and even played guitar with Steve (Hi Steve I miss you and your John Mayer obsession) which helped me clear my mind a lot. I gave up a lot to spend my summer at Paradigm but I wouldn't change anything about my summer. I was there June - August 2015 and it was one of the best experiences of my life. I got to work with Dustin, Shannon, Steve, Erin, and a lot of other people who made my experience what it was.

I was lucky to work with Rob and Shannon on my personal family problems. Unfortunately, the patients (for lack of a better term) there typically didn't want to work, and therefore caused a slightly awkward and hostile environment. The teen drama definitely hindered my treatment

My experience at Paradigm Malibu was life-changing. I went from December of 2014 to February of 2015. As much as I was initially opposed to treatment, getting away from my family, my home, my friends, and seeking help at Paradigm was ultimately the best possible decision I could've made. I went to treatment for drug and alcohol addiction, depression, anxiety, and PTSD. My life was perpetually chaos, and I was slowly killing myself. When I first got to Paradigm, I was welcomed by staff and other clients and could immediately sense the feeling of comfort and family in the house (Cliffside). While it took me time to adjust being away from home, once I opened my mind to change, and became willing to do the work, my life shifted. Paradigm never gave up on me. Being an addict, I was constantly attempting to self-destruct, but they never gave up on me. They believed in me when I didn't believe in myself. I did a lot of self-discovery work in treatment. A lot of my problems were rooted in my lack of sense of self - I didn't know who I was without the drugs, the alcohol, all of the numbing, all the masks. I discovered who I truly was, and learned to love myself and respect myself for who I am. Not until I was completely lost did I find myself, and Paradigm was the perfect for me to find myself. There was always someone to talk to, and the community at Paradigm is really a family. You get to know everyone on such a deep level, and you create the most genuine connections, which I found to be the best part. I made some of the most incredible friendships with not only the other kids but the staff too. Going to Paradigm introduced me to so many people I am so eternally grateful to have be apart of my life today. Paradigm is why I am sober. Today, I am proud to say I am 9 months sober, and I couldn't have come this far without the help I got in treatment. Paradigm marked the beginning of my recovery, my new journey, my new life. I learned so much about myself, about addiction, mental illness, and recovery in general. I gained so much perspective and learned how to have a grateful outlook on life. Paradigm saved me and changed my life. I will only ever talk in the highest regard of it, and even a year after going, I miss it so much! I always look forward to visiting, and know I will always be welcome there, which is a great feeling. Paradigm is an incredible facility and an incredible place. If it can get me sober, and change my life, it can change yours too.

I made the initial decision to go to rehab, but my parents found Paradigm for me, and I couldn't have been happier! I thought that getting treatment could only happen in hospitals, not in such a wonderful environment as that of Paradigm. As soon as I got there, I was met by an incredibly supportive staff, who had a lot of experience and could relate to things that I was going through. Also, the other kids were just as supportive, right off the bat. Paradigm is so special, in that it provides a warm and comfortable environment to make progress and start recovery in. It also offers different types of therapy, such as art, music, and drama (all of which I found very very helpful, considering it can be easier to express what you feel through creative outlets other than simply talking). There are three beautiful houses that the kids may stay in, which definitely makes the process more comfortable, and allows for a more nurturing environment. The idea of having a safe and happy environment really sets Paradigm apart from other rehab facilities. It made me feel very at home, like I could relax and be myself throughout the recovery process. I really felt like all of us became a big family. Paradigm helps both clients and their families to foster healthy lifestyles that will benefit recovery, once they leave. The staff make it very easy for clients and their families to share what they feel, and what progress is being made through weekly family sessions, and a big family group discussion on Saturdays, where every family can come and talk with each other. As for the kids discussing and sharing with each other, there are process groups where they can all say what's been on their minds, relate, and validate each other. It is a completely safe environment. In my time there, I never felt like there was something I couldn't share. Personally, I cannot think of a better decision you could make, than going to Paradigm Malibu. I wouldn't be anywhere near as healthy and happy as I am today if it weren't for the help that I received, and the relationships that I formed there. If you are seeking treatment for yourself, or a loved one, and are looking for a comfortable and unique place to heal, Paradigm is definitely the place for you!

Paradigm Malibu was one of the best experiences I have encountered. It truly helped my addiction. They had staff there that went through similar realities that I did. There was always someone to talk to 24/7 and I would recommend it to any adolescent who is facing a difficult point in their life. Since going to Paradigm Malibu, I am very close to being 2 years sober.

I stayed at Paradigm (Meadows house) for two months. I was struggling with many things, including self-harm and suicidal ideation. I had been in hospitals before, and was used to strict professionals who were just there for the paycheck. I got there with a closed mind preparing myself for the worst: . I couldn't have been more wrong. i walked into a beautiful house with tennis courts, a pool, and spotless rooms. The other clients were in school (3 hours set apart for schoolwork or therapy work) when I came, but a client came to greet me, saying how excited they were to have me here. I was immediately put at ease. The staff there are incredible. They are truly passionate about their job, and it shows. Apart from ever so patiently leading groups and chaperoning us at activities, they are open and caring and can tell when you're feeling down. They have changed my life and inspired me. A common concern may be the clients. I know my mom was scared to send me off because she didn't want me to be exposed to things or be in danger. But I can honestly say that all of the clients were there because they wanted to get better. They were all very nice people who not only cared about their self-improvement but cared about the people around them and contributed to a safe, positive environment. They were (and still are) another family to me. We became very close friends and still serve as accountability to each other. It should go without saying that the therapy was truly life-changing. The staff to client ratio is very high, meaning that at almost any given time you could ask to talk to somebody. The groups were honest and open, and therapy was incorporated into almost everything we did, even the conversations we had with our fellow clients. The one-on-ones I have had with staff and the conversations I have had in group have left a lasting imprint on my life and have changed me for the better. Overall, Paradigm Malibu helped me turn my life completely around. I walked in a struggling, hopeless girl who thought she was broken beyond repair, and I walked out with feelings of hope and worth that I hadn't felt in over a year. There are so many memories of wonderful people and stories that will forever remain in my mind. They make me glad to have called that place home.

I was a patient at Paradigm for 2 months and I can undeniably say that Paradigm has changed my life. When I first arrived, I was naturally terrified. My biggest worry is that I would not 'fit in' because God knows how hard it is for teenagers to make friends in new environments. However, I can 100% reassure you that you will make some of the most meaningful relationships of your whole life. I met other kids who were similar to me when I had existed in a world for so long thinking I was alone. The staff there is so, so kind and the activities they plan are playful yet sincere. I 100% recommend Paradigm Malibu for you (or your child). And the first few days are rough. They really are. But things get better. Your whole life gets better. You meet kids you can really rely on. And you meet adults who won't betray or leave you. I wish I had gone to Paradigm earlier in my life, honestly. But nevertheless, some of the best days of my life happened while I was there.