Love At First FightReviews of loveatfirstfight.com

I have always been reluctant on joining internet-based courses like this that pop up in you social media feed, but after watching the masterclass I decided to give it a try given the price is nothing if you consider it with couples therapy. The tools share in this course are crucial to any human relationship and in particular to a relationship with a partner, either married or not. Of course, you are not going to be in possession of magic just by watching the videos, or by immediately applying the tools given by Bruce, but if you practice on a consistent manner all the concepts and tools Bruce will share with you by presenting them in a natural manner in your relationships, you will always think "why didn't I know this before? why didn't I put in practice before?" and will be tremendously satisfied to have followed Bruce Musik leadership on this.

Amazing content, clear explanations, and a very thoughtful structure. This is the best relationships course I’ve ever taken - and it’s delivered the best results.

I truly found this course helpful. I did it as a single woman and now that I am in a relationship it has really helped me navigate conflict. As we all know the honeymoon stage never lasts. This helped me and my now partner to have quicker conflict resolution (in a healthy way). We feel more connected as a team after our mishaps instead of having another unresolved level of resentment. I recommend this course for anyone looking to learn about themselves as a single person navigating the world of humans or if you are in a relationship.

Having helpful and organized information presented in an easy to understand format is just the beginning of Bruce's program. Short concise labeling is eye catching and also motivating to search for simple but well thought out solutions. In 7 weeks or less you can learn more in his online alternative to marriage counseling. Then he talks about the three stages of a relationship- ROMANCE, POWER STRUGGLE, MATURE LOVE. Next he lists 3 Deadly Mistakes - 1) Thinking their problems will somehow just go away.2) Taking friends and family's advice & 3) Trying to fix things on your own. REPAIR YOUR RELATIONSHIP - works well for 90% of couples. YOU DON'T NEED COUPLES THERAPY. You are not broken. I was hooked immediately and have continued to be impressed with his blending quotes from experts and exercises etc. I could go on and on...

We are only 1/2 way through the program and our chaotic interactions where the smallest differences became a source of anger and disparity are truly gone!!! We are speaking to each other following the advice of Bruce Muzik with purpose and results. The best part is learning the way the brain and human nature works in simple terms to understand that each one of us were doing their best and that we had limitations holding our lives for each other hostage. I wish I knew this 10+ years ago, it would of saved me so many wasted hours of discussion and despair that I would of had time to get a PHD. Bruce not only is saving our marriage, he is saving our lives. The stress level was literally taking years of our lives. We tried briefly a private therapist and left feeling so misunderstood that I just wanted to end what once was a fairy tale of a relationship sooner than later. We actually look forward to the lectures and the assignments as they reveal so much basic truths we never knew that brings us a sense of peace and hope. The years of research, experience, and knowledge that Bruce has makes him the best professor at the university of life, and his program the best money we ever spent!!!

Even doing the course on my own has helped out relationship to a point that my spouse is open to joining

Almost at the end of this course and it has been a real eye opener. It has helped me understand myself and why I do things so much better. Realised that I had no idea how to be in a long term, secure relationship. Unfortunately my husband and I are not together anymore. We tried it together for the first week and he decided it was not for him and things were too far gone to change, so we separated. However after going through the Rapid repair module I realised why, as he felt I had betrayed him and there was no way just trying to reconnect was going to be enough for him. If only I had found this course before, then I believe we would not be separated, but at least I know that I have improved and grown in myself and hopefully if I am in another relationship I will know what to do to make it work. It does take effort from both of you with watching the videos and doing the workbooks but I do feel it is worth it. And even if you doing it on your own it is still a good course.

please read carefully the other negative reviews, this is exactly what I experienced, too. These are no individual cases, this is strategy. Please also read carefully how they are answering the negative reviews. This speaks volumes. Making customers wrong has a very negative touch in sales companies, they are not at all interested in finding any common understanding with customers, 100% deflecting the feedback. The recording and the content what is claimed to be based on research is more than 10 years old (date of recording) and does not reflect at all the newer research about nervous system what is the base level that enables any tool to land in a helpful way. Example: if you speak the love language of your partner, this will help. NO. Not at all, this might even land as manipulation or overwhelm if you are only applying this tool as a tool! So please please be careful here! If you want to have someone reading to you the content of several books, you will find that here. However not in the depth these books have. Please do not expect any support when you contact the customer service, they just wrote me, everyone is happy with the content, they did send me other people's review and I should just stick to the tasks and might not have done what was requested or might not understand the tools or apply them correctly. They build a lot of pressure and even blame "you must have done it wrong as all others are happy". The load of the tasks you have to do is even an overwhelm. If you have a life with job, kids, household... this is extremely demanding and connected with "must": you must do all this otherwise you have yourself to blame. I decided to ask for their money back guarantee and handed in all requested documentation, on top of that I got lots and lots of questions which they used to argue me out of their money back guarantee. I complied 100% to their regulations and did my part of the contract but they told me, I am not entitled as they delivered their promise. But what is their promise? Please read carefully what they write - there is actually no promise at all apart from delivering some information about tools. Yes some information taken from books was delivered. That's mainly it, not at all in depth, not at all helpful, not at all up-to-date, not at all current research based. For them it is only an exercise of the customer. Once sold their wish to help and support you is gone. Their only aim left is to argue you out of their given guarantee. To my questions they have never stated exactly what they guarantee/promise, they only say what they do not guarantee and this covers all situations you can even think of. In trust pilot they state: "At Love At First Fight, we provide a proven, research-based alternative to couples counseling, so you can improve your relationship or marriage quickly. With over 20,000 marriages and relationships transformed, we help struggling couples move past their differences, resolve conflict and get back on the same page together." The contrary is what they wrote to me. I would have been also open to switch to another program that might be a better fit for me but they did not even consider this, to get a better fit, they just wanted me to stick in their program. Based o my experience, they are not sticking to their own conditions, argue themselves out of it and don't have any values or ethics. Distorted situation for a counseling company! Never ever I would do business with any company whose behavior is anyhow comparable to what I experienced here. So I am expecting that their response here will equal all other responses, its me to blame and they delivered perfectly. Just read and make up your own mind about it.