Miles
Use Fetlife.com instead of Alt.com
First off - if you do get a paid membership IMMEDIATELY turn off the auto renewal! It is easier to renew than to attempt to get your money back if your account hits auto renew. Second, if you really want to try and find a play partner or whatever, sign up with Fetlife.com. It is free, there are thousands of groups catering to various tastes, and it is free. It will take more work to find your groups, make connections, and find what you are seeking but, in the end, it will save you time! I signed up for a Gold package for three months - about $100. I quickly realized the filters do not filter to all of your specifications or the profiles you have blocked in order to keep the "numbers" pumped up. Plus, since I am under no illusions of 30 somethings being attracted to a 60+ year old, fat, balding man, I knew that being contacted by 2-3 women much younger was a scam. I do not know if they were bots or what but it was annoying. I even turned off notifications and still got them. Another issue is some of the profiles have not been active in YEARS! I have to wonder how many were deleted by the customers but kept by Alt.com, again, to pump up their numbers? I contacted customer service about the filters and they gave answers barely better than "turn the computer off for a minute and then back on". They also said they could not replicate the issue. Really? And, for those of you who do not know this, Adult Friend Finder is run by the same bunch with the same issues. I would give them a lower rating but it is not set up for that.



