Joined, and absolute garbage! 100% spam, and scams. If you do get messages they 100% scam and spam. Don’t waist your time or money, go ANYWHERE ELSE ohhh and FYI adult friend finder is EXACTLY SAME. Asked for a refund on 3 months, they say they can’t only down grade, 1 month. I don’t want this garbage and would LOVE a refund.
JG
John G.
Avoid this site at all costs
Avoid this site at all costs, it's a total scam. Can't contact members even if you pay membership. They make you have to pay again to allow standard members read and reply to your messages. The internal message system does not work.
So after paying for silver or gold membership you still can not make contact with 99% of the profiles.
Complete garbage of a site.
TM
the M.
I gave this site one star because there…
I gave this site one star because there was no option for zero. 90% of the membership on this site are scammers. One has at least seven different profiles in different countries using the same photos and profiles. Reporting the frauds does no good whatsoever. The Alt administration has no interest in dealing with these fakes. In my opinion they are actually complicate in allowing these scams to continue. The abundance of fraudulent profiles artificially raises the membership, conning new members into thinking this site is worthwhile. The biggest scam here is Alt itself. I was once a paying Gold member, but never again. Alt will never get another penny from me.
BA
Barghest
Better off setting fire to your money
Out of the 25 women I contacted 11 responded and all of them were scammers trying to get my bank details. 60% of the time the site would fail to load webpages of just straight up crash. Now I can’t even sign in without the webpage freezing.
GF
Gabriel F.
Pleaseeaee do not waste your time e…
Pleaseeaee do not waste your time e alt.com dba bdsmdatingonly.com. Its just s front fir women who are scammers fake photo users and ghosters. You might find a honest resl sub out in kansas or indiana but most of the women are doms scams or play endless games. It’s not a useful site anymore. Instead you will be asked to send gift cards phone repair and gas money endlessly. No one will speak on the phone or theyll claim deafness or a sick relative. You’re better off on match.
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Winston
Worst site ever!!!
Worst site ever!!!!!!! Full of scammers and fake profiles. Also being used by scam organizations. Beware of their chatters
TB
Teddy B.
They use all kinds of phony schemes on ALT for ripping you off.
Beware of overcharges! They will put you on recurring payments, they always have one answer: the auto pay box was checked. ALT is a financial minefield: it would be unwise to trust them with your bank details. I used it for six months and I haven't gotten close to meeting anyone.
RJ
ROBERT JOSEPH S.
Cancel Your Debit/Credit Card, Then Leave Site, Never To Return
Terrible site. 90% of accounts are fake. There seems to be Russian connection and The Nigerian 419 scam. I was nearly scammed by a phisher from here. It was the inheritance scam. I believe had I continued down this rabbit hole, I'd ended up in prison for money laundering.
ANYTIME YOU ARE ASKED TO USE Hangouts AND/OR THE CASHAPP don't walk, run away as fast as you can.
You might be asked to pay a $350 Security Guarantee. They will probably require an astronomical relocation fee and/or a crazy submissive/slave fee.
Supposedly they have a process to verify your account and put 'Verified' on your profile. For God's sake don't you do it!!! They validate it with a Pic of your ID! Nuff said. Do your own verification. Ask them to take a photo of their face with a sign with a strange word like, 'Bubbles'. They might say that their camera is broken or they use the phrase, 'I love you, You can trust me' excuses. Firmly repeat the request. If they fail to send the photo, count your blessings - - you probably dodged a Catfish hook.
Google lens helped me find photo stock of women that they use as their pro picture. Also, if their English text is strange, if they don't use spaces between their commas and they say they've never been married, no kids and after the first sentence BDSM is never mentioned again, they might be phishing.
REGARDING UNWANTED MONTHLY SUBSCRIPTION, SIMPLE SOLUTION, CONTACT YOUR CREDIT/DEBIT CARD BANK IMMEDIATELY. Tell them your card has been compromised. Have them immediately cancel your card. In that situation they should waive the overnight delivery fee.
After all I wrote, my strong suggestions are, first cancel your card immediately and leave the site never to return.
Thanks. Robert