DORA R.
I am a paying member of this platform…
I am a paying member of this platform and would like to share my experience so that other users can be more cautious. During my time on the site, I communicated with a member named Haitao. In the beginning, he made very strong emotional statements, saying that I was the love of his life and that he considered me as his wife. However, over time his behavior changed and his responses became cold and very short. One of the main concerns I had was about identity verification. I requested a live video call several times to confirm that I was really speaking with the person behind the profile. A live video call never happened. Instead, the platform sent me a short video, claiming that it had been recorded specifically for me by the member. According to the support team, this video was meant to verify that the member is the person in the profile. However, this type of video does not allow real-time interaction and does not prove that the person is actually communicating with me directly. When I asked the support team about arranging a live video call, they told me that technically all members can make video calls, but they cannot force a member to accept. In practice, even though I requested it several times, it never happened. Another important point is that I am required to use paid credits to send messages, while the member I was speaking with uses the platform for free. Despite this, the platform states that all messages are written exclusively by the members themselves and that there is no intermediary involved. When I asked for more specific clarification regarding the verification of the profile and the authenticity of the messages, I received only general explanations about the platform's policies and no clear investigation into my specific case. I cannot say with certainty how the communication was actually being managed, but my experience raised serious concerns about transparency and about how paying users may continue investing money in conversations that never progress to real interaction, such as a simple live video call. For this reason, I recommend that other users exercise caution before spending money on message credits on this platform.



