When We First is a modern dating platform that was developed by a matchmaker to help customers date better both online and offline. Matchmaking is at the heart of what we do, and we believe that technology and the human element combined can revolutionize the dating industry one intentional match at a time. Whether you’re looking for fun first dates, a long term relationship, marriage, or just a better way to date When We First has your dating life covered and supported.
When We First (whenwefirst.com) has 24 customer reviews on Five Star Index, with an average rating of 4.5 out of 5.
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JD
I've been working with Sheri for a few months and really appreciate her. She's always available to check in and answer any questions, and I feel like she genuinely cares and is very willing to take feedback! I've had a few first dates and all have been great first dates. Though I haven't yet met my match, I'm appreciative because I know I'm going on more dates with Sheri's help than I would on my own!
Stephanie A.
First date with When We First and it was absolute perfection. We had so much in common we were laughing and talking the whole time. He was such an amazing person and we already have our second date planned. I don’t think I’ve ever been on a date with someone who has so much in common with me.
Dan F.
Available for any questions, engaged in susbtatnial outreach for clients, hosts an interesting and engaging variety of social events for members and new guests, overall exciting and a good way to get guidance in navigating a murky dating scene
Response from When We FirstOct 23, 2025
Thank you so much, Daniel. You’re such an amazing client and we love working with you.
John B.
When We First is premium and 2nd to none. Highly Recommended!
Response from When We FirstOct 2, 2025
thanks so much John! you are a fantastic dater, and that is a fact!
Danielle De La F.
I signed up in February, really excited to explore matchmaking! However, I quickly learned not all they pitched is true. The company is very new and seems to have limited men available to match you with. From 4 dates I went on, only 1 was a potential match. I have found the matchmaking experience soul sucking and unpleasant. I wish whoever wishes to try this luck, but I would have preferred simply going on a vacation to meet new people.
Response from When We FirstSep 18, 2025
Thank you for sharing your thoughts and experience. We’re sorry to hear the process hasn’t felt as smooth as you hoped, though we’re glad to see you’ve remained open to the journey. It’s important to note that the introductions you’ve received have been with highly educated, successful, and attractive individuals who, on paper, shared your long-term relationship goals. While not every date results in a second meeting, or the potential we all as a team strive for with each set up, the purpose of matchmaking is to go beyond the checklist and discover whether there’s true alignment and chemistry face-to-face. Every introduction helps us fine-tune the process and get closer to the right match. It just takes ONE right one. You still have additional matches to be met, and we remain excited to continue working with you. In matchmaking, it often means fine tuning, feedback, and taking it one connection at the right time, to make all the difference. We value your feedback and look forward to supporting you on the rest of your journey.
Deven F.
When I first joined When We First, I was excited to try a service that offered a truly personal, human-centered approach to matchmaking. They focus on getting to know you beyond just a profile, pairing you with matches who align with your values, personality, and relationship goals. It felt refreshing to work with a team dedicated to both finding quality matches and helping you grow in the dating process. For the past 7 weeks, I’ve had the pleasure of working with my matchmaker, Claudia. She is warm, kind, and incredibly easy to talk to. From day one, she’s taken the time to understand who I am and what I’m looking for, then thoughtfully explained why each match she presents could be a great fit. Getting matched has been my favorite part of the process. I look forward to hearing her describe the women she’s found for me and the character qualities she sees aligning between us. So far, I’ve been matched with two amazing women—one where I had a fantastic first date, and another with a date coming up soon. Along the way, Claudia has also been an incredible coach, helping me shift from putting early pressure on myself and my matches to simply enjoying the connection and letting things develop naturally. She often reminds me of my strengths, from being a respectful gentleman to a creative, romantic, and fun guy to go on a date with. Plus, she encourages me to bring my authentic self into every interaction. When We First has been a genuinely fun, growth-filled experience, and I’m grateful for how intentional and encouraging Claudia has been in this journey. I look forward to where our partnership together could lead.
Response from When We FirstSep 18, 2025
Hi Deven, thank you so much for your kind review. I am really happy to hear that Claudia and you have had such a great relationship and appreciate your feedback. We love matching you and are committed to finding you some fantastic dates and keeping your experience on par with the quality man you are!!
Elizabeth T.
Sheri has been incredible to work with. She's kind, thoughtful in her questions, and really respectful of the process. She made everything feel easy and natural. 10/10 I'd recommend her to anyone looking to find a meaningful connection. 🤍 Ask ChatGPT
Response from When We FirstSep 18, 2025
Hi Elizabeth, thank you so much for your review working with Sheri. She is so happy you reviewed your time with her and we appreciate the positive feedback.
John M.
A wonderful experience and different than any other dating platform I’ve tried. My matchmaker Sheri has been a delight. Very helpful and engaging throughout the whole process. I would highly recommend When We First to anyone looking to find their person.
Response from When We FirstSep 18, 2025
Hi John, thank you so much for your review. I am so happy to hear that you have had a great experience so far with Sheri and it has been a fun and engaging experience. We look forward to continuing to work with you.
