Danielle De La F.
Not for everyone
I signed up in February, really excited to explore matchmaking! However, I quickly learned not all they pitched is true. The company is very new and seems to have limited men available to match you with. From 4 dates I went on, only 1 was a potential match. I have found the matchmaking experience soul sucking and unpleasant. I wish whoever wishes to try this luck, but I would have preferred simply going on a vacation to meet new people.
Response from When We FirstSep 18, 2025
Thank you for sharing your thoughts and experience. We’re sorry to hear the process hasn’t felt as smooth as you hoped, though we’re glad to see you’ve remained open to the journey. It’s important to note that the introductions you’ve received have been with highly educated, successful, and attractive individuals who, on paper, shared your long-term relationship goals. While not every date results in a second meeting, or the potential we all as a team strive for with each set up, the purpose of matchmaking is to go beyond the checklist and discover whether there’s true alignment and chemistry face-to-face. Every introduction helps us fine-tune the process and get closer to the right match. It just takes ONE right one. You still have additional matches to be met, and we remain excited to continue working with you. In matchmaking, it often means fine tuning, feedback, and taking it one connection at the right time, to make all the difference. We value your feedback and look forward to supporting you on the rest of your journey.