Three Day Rule is a personalized and modern matchmaking service for high-intent singles seeking meaningful connections. Their unique "Three Day Rule" approach to successful dating guides singles through an intentional dating journey before, during and after a date. With a team of experienced Matchmakers and a proven track record, they focus on relationship wellness and long-term compatibility, helping clients build authentic, lasting connections.At Three Day Rule, dating is more than just meeting someone—it’s about building a connection that lasts. Let us help you take the right steps toward finding a healthy relationship.
Three Day Rule Matchmaking (threedayrule.com) has 85 customer reviews on Five Star Index, with an average rating of 4.3 out of 5.
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2026
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Tammy was very eager to share my personal contact information with her client.
She was very difficult to talk to and she barely listen to anything I said. Regardless of me taking time out of my day and energy to have a sincere interaction with her, she was in a HUGE rush to check boxes and move on whether she heard my answers or not. I had 2 follow up questions and she was non responsive. Then she shared my phone number with her client without confirming with me.
Overall I would say this is an unethical and insincere service looking to churn out dates.
Response from Three Day Rule MatchmakingJul 24, 2026
Thank you for taking the time to share your feedback. We're sorry to hear that your experience did not meet your expectations.
At Three Day Rule, we strive to treat every client and match with professionalism, respect, and care. We also take privacy very seriously, and feedback regarding communication and the handling of personal information is reviewed carefully by our team.
We appreciate you bringing your concerns to our attention. If you're open to discussing your experience further, please reach out to us at [email protected]. We'd welcome the opportunity to learn more and address your concerns directly.
— Three Day Rule Team ❤️
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RR
DO NOT WASTE YOUR MONEY OR TIME
My advice: Save your money and stay away. I paid $6,000 for a matchmaking service that promised three carefully vetted matches based on detailed discussions about preferences, values, and relationship goals. They failed to deliver on those promises. The first matches were so far outside the criteria we discussed that I had to request a new matchmaker. The candidates presented did not align with my stated preferences, and it felt as though little to no consideration had been given to the information I provided during onboarding.
What made this even more disappointing was the gap between the sales pitch and the actual service. I was promised a personalized, high-touch experience with quality matches. Instead, I received introductions that could have easily come from a dating app, without the benefit of a meaningful screening process or thoughtful matchmaking. After spending thousands of dollars, I was left feeling frustrated, disappointed, and no closer to finding the type of relationship I was seeking. Looking back, I see no added value that justified the cost.
My pledge to anyone considering this service: don't do it. Save your money. Use the dating apps. At the end, TDR uses the same pool of candidates you can access yourself. Paying thousands of dollars does not guarantee better matches, better service, or better results.
In my experience, this service delivered none of what was promised. I would not recommend it to anyone and strongly encourage prospective clients to think carefully before investing their time, money, and emotions. There are far better ways to spend your $.
Response from Three Day Rule MatchmakingJul 21, 2026
Thank you for sharing your feedback. We’re sorry to hear that your experience did not meet your expectations.
At Three Day Rule, our goal is to provide a personalized matchmaking experience tailored to each client’s relationship goals, values, and preferences. We understand how meaningful this process is and take concerns about the experience seriously.
We have successfully matched numerous clients and have seen the impact a thoughtful, personalized approach can have in helping people build meaningful connections. While matchmaking is a highly personal journey and results can vary, we remain committed to listening to feedback, continuously improving our process, and providing the high-touch service our clients expect.
We would welcome the opportunity to discuss your experience further. Please reach out to us directly at [email protected] so we can connect.
We appreciate you sharing your perspective and wish you all the best moving forward.
— Three Day Rule Team ❤️
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AM
I had a really great experience with TDR
I had a really great experience with Three Day Rule. Kelly took the time to understand what I was looking for instead of just setting me up with random matches. She introduced me to my boyfriend, Tam, and we’ve been really happy together. I’m so grateful for all the support and guidance throughout the process. If you’re serious about finding a meaningful relationship, I’d definitely recommend giving Three Day Rule a try!
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Ze
My experience with Three Day Rule…
My experience with Three Day Rule Matchmaking Service was a good one. I decided to join after being unlucky in finding love on my own terms. If I can invest in trips for vacations, why not invest in finding love? After encouragement from my mom and speaking with Talia Goldstein, the founder and president of Three Day Rule, I decided to purchase a 3-month subscription and give it a try. I don't regret my decision. My matchmaker was Kelly Bonanno. She was very nice and attentive. Provided good advice and helped me find my fiancé. I recommend taking advantage of all the resources offered through Three Day Rule if you haven't been lucky at finding love on your own terms. At the end of your day, you will never know if you don't try. Thanks, Three Day Rule!
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Ning S.
Sheri McCall is best!
Sheri was introduced to me as a replacement in the last month of my contract (my previous matchmaker was moved to a different position). I immediately felt the connection with her at our first meeting. She was totally present, and listened to me attentively and asked many questions in order to have her own impression of me, so she can really know what I m looking for, without completely rely on data from before. Although this is my last month and I only had a few potential match from her, I already feel the difference. The women I meet or about to meet in date are clearly more aligned with me and I feel much more hopeful and confident. She also actively get my feedback weekly vis face-time, listening to the details of my previous date and give me really practical advice. I feel like she truly understand me and know what type really fit me. Other great quality of Sheri is her ability to pay attention to details in choosing my match, such as availability and other practical issues which is important to make match works, particularly in New York, where simple logistics can make or break a match, even seemingly a good match in person. Sheri is warm and kind, and make me feel ease in something totally new to me. I feel she opened a new window in my dating life. I would personally asking her to be my matchmaker if I decide to come back to try again in the future.
KS
Katie S.
Kat is a truly exceptional matchmaker!
Kat is thoughtful, attentive, and deeply committed to her clients. Her personalized approach and unwavering support make her an outstanding matchmaker. I highly recommend her to anyone seeking someone who is truly invested in helping them find a meaningful and lasting connection.
What sets Kat apart is how engaged she is throughout the entire process. She regularly checked in before and after dates, offered guidance when needed, and always made sure I felt heard and understood. Her level of care is remarkable. It was clear that she was not simply making introductions; she was carefully searching for the right match based on a genuine understanding of what I was looking for.
Kat has a natural ability to make people feel comfortable, valued, and hopeful about the journey. Her professionalism, compassion, and commitment shine through in every interaction. It is evident that helping people build meaningful relationships is more than a job for her; it is something she truly cares about.
Anyone who has the opportunity to work with Kat will quickly recognize the impact she makes. I cannot recommend her highly enough.
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gameplayer
Predatory
Predatory. Send you relentless emails and messages. Only focused on building a database for their male clients. Just go to a bar in a nice part of town.
Response from Three Day Rule MatchmakingJul 8, 2026
Thank you for your feedback. We appreciate you taking the time to share your experience.
We strive to communicate respectfully and thoughtfully, and we're committed to helping both men and women make meaningful connections. We appreciate your comments and will take them into consideration.
– Three Day Rule Team ❤️
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Shahram S.
AMAZING WORK IN A BROKEN WORLD
Also, on a more personal note, even though the last date wasn't the right match for me, I want to sincerely thank you and your team for what you're doing. No joke—you are doing important work.
Dating today can be incredibly challenging, and sometimes it feels downright brutal. That's why I genuinely appreciate the effort that goes into finding thoughtful introductions.
While my last date wasn't the right fit romantically, she was an amazing person. I truly enjoyed meeting her, had a wonderful time, and I sincerely hope she finds the man of her dreams.
As for me, I'm still holding out hope that somewhere out there is my girl-next-door: healthy, adventurous, kind, child-free, and maybe even willing to jump out of an airplane with me. If there's any justice in the universe, perhaps one day we'll find each other.
Thank you again for all of your hard work and dedication. It is genuinely appreciated.
Best,
Shahram