Three Day Rule MatchmakingReviews of threedayrule.com

Tammy was very eager to share my personal contact information with her client. She was very difficult to talk to and she barely listen to anything I said. Regardless of me taking time out of my day and energy to have a sincere interaction with her, she was in a HUGE rush to check boxes and move on whether she heard my answers or not. I had 2 follow up questions and she was non responsive. Then she shared my phone number with her client without confirming with me. Overall I would say this is an unethical and insincere service looking to churn out dates.

My advice: Save your money and stay away. I paid $6,000 for a matchmaking service that promised three carefully vetted matches based on detailed discussions about preferences, values, and relationship goals. They failed to deliver on those promises. The first matches were so far outside the criteria we discussed that I had to request a new matchmaker. The candidates presented did not align with my stated preferences, and it felt as though little to no consideration had been given to the information I provided during onboarding. What made this even more disappointing was the gap between the sales pitch and the actual service. I was promised a personalized, high-touch experience with quality matches. Instead, I received introductions that could have easily come from a dating app, without the benefit of a meaningful screening process or thoughtful matchmaking. After spending thousands of dollars, I was left feeling frustrated, disappointed, and no closer to finding the type of relationship I was seeking. Looking back, I see no added value that justified the cost. My pledge to anyone considering this service: don't do it. Save your money. Use the dating apps. At the end, TDR uses the same pool of candidates you can access yourself. Paying thousands of dollars does not guarantee better matches, better service, or better results. In my experience, this service delivered none of what was promised. I would not recommend it to anyone and strongly encourage prospective clients to think carefully before investing their time, money, and emotions. There are far better ways to spend your $.

Predatory. Send you relentless emails and messages. Only focused on building a database for their male clients. Just go to a bar in a nice part of town.

I'm only in their database as a free candidate and my experience with how they handle email interactions is laughable. They request info calls to see if you are a match for their client, I agree to the info call, then they never follow up. Not even a courtesy of saying matching had closed for the client they forwarded to me. It's just feminist geared bs to to rush through whoever they can get to show up. I feel sorry for anyone who pays these people when they aren't even trying.l

I couldn't agree more with the 1-star reviews. This was a horrible experience, I feel completely ripped off. Paid thousands of dollars for matchmaking services including several consultation session that were never delivered. Despite my asking the matchmaker to let all potential matches know a key fact about me, she kept sending me people who didn't know the key fact, and when I mentioned it, all communication went silent. Don't waste your money. In response to TDR's response: The company is well aware of my concerns and has not taken any corrective action in over one year.

3 first dates which didn’t lead to anything

Run! They do not listen to your preferences, i.e. they send you whatever people they have available, claiming that you should be more "open" to bad matches, and they cannot be trusted to have your back and to present you properly to ones that are appropriate matches. In my experience, they do not provide a level of service equal to what you spend. They will even shamelessly sell a package to people who do not live in a market they service, and they don't even seem to have enough clients in major markets (LA and NY), as evidenced by the continued direct recruiting they do on LinkedIn. Also, be wary of the over-the-top contracts they put in front of you. They are one-sided and you will not be protected. Only they are. 98% of the guys they presented to me were still married, were nowhere near my physical or age preferences, and worst of all - we didn't have any similar interests. It's a total crap shoot, just like any dating app. Save your money and get back to swiping for free or a much lower fee, or get a real matchmaker who knows what they're doing. I genuinely thought this would be a big step up from the apps. It's not. If you decide to do it anyway, my advice is to make sure you know how you're being pitched to possible matches, because they will use your worst photos unless you tell them what to use, and they will do a very fast writeup that doesn't make you sound interesting at all. They do not care about matching people for love. It's just a rolling business model with a bunch of single matchmakers who work there part time and don't seem to know about dating themselves. They probably secretly resent their clients and purposely set them up to fail. I do NOT recommend this service, AT ALL.

I initially signed up for a matchmaking service in 2022 in Philadelphia. The matches provided were decent, surpassing the quality of those I found on dating apps in terms of compatibility. My final match during a three-month contract in Philly was so promising that I decided to renew for another three months after relocating to Miami. Unfortunately, this is where my experience deteriorated. After signing the new contract in Miami, I was not informed that the service was not fully operational in this market. Consequently, my matchmaker struggled to find matches, leaving me without a single match for over a year. The quality of the few matches provided was extremely poor. Despite clearly stating my preference for a financially stable partner, I was matched with a 36-year-old man living with his parents due to financial constraints—an unacceptable match. I provided detailed feedback, but my matchmaker dismissed my concerns and refused a re-match, luckily I had one match left. Now, 2.5 years later, the matchmaker has failed to fulfill the three-month contract and provides no regular updates on their progress. Despite my clear communication about my physical and emotional preferences, the matches have consistently been unsuitable. For those in Miami, I strongly recommend exploring other matchmaking services, as this company's performance in this market is substandard and not suited for high-caliber women. Despite breaching the contract (a three-month agreement stretching to 2.5 years), they have refused to offer a refund. While I believe in the potential of matchmaking, having had positive experiences with other companies, I advise avoiding this service in Miami.