Better than alternatives. Yes you have to weed out a lot of fake/scam profiles of girls just wanting you to buy pics, but otherwise it's simple and straightforward. They should make photo verification easier, but I've met some stunning real girls on there. I am younger, 30, experience is probably different for older people
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Enrique H. M.
They deleted my account still with Premium and are trying to blame me for that
I had an account and profile with SA for 3 years. They performed a “maintenance” during the March 4 to March 5 night. When I tried to login on March 5, I couldn’t. I tried several times, I clicked then at least 5 times on the “forgot my password” link and asked to reset it. No email arrived at my registered email. So I sent two support tickets about this problem. Seeing that the matter was not addressed, then I started to guess that they had probably deleted my account. To see if I was correct, I decided to open a new account with the same email that I had before. When I managed to do that without any problem is when I KNEW they had f***ed up and deleted my email from their database, as there is no way I could have used the same email to open a new account if they hadn’t. So, I sent a new support ticket logged in to that account. This finally got me a reply from the “support” team. One that stated that during maintenance they had deleted accounts with more than 180 days inactivity, that it was my case according to them and that they even sent me two emails warning me about the deletion.
Of course, my account was not inactive for such a period, and I replied accordingly. I even sent them the email I received from them on February 20 thanking me for purchasing the Premium status for my account. And I offered to send them the daily notifications I receive whenever I receive a message, some user sees my profile or favorites it. I have dozens, so I have the proof that my account was active all the time.
Now I wake up with a new reply, blaming me for the deletion of the account, stating that I deleted it on my side so I can’t complain that the account information is lost and that they can’t refund me for the Premium I paid and supposedly forfeited by deleting my account. Of course, they offer no proof of their saying, because there is none, as I didn’t delete my account at all. I feel helpless now because I can’t prove to them that I didn’t delete the account. I KNOW I didn’t, and I know that’s why I sent the support tickets asking first what was wrong with the login and the new password features of the website, and then, after finding out on my own that my email was not in their database anymore, sent another support ticket explaining to THEM what they had done.
By reading the reviews here I know that I’m up for an endless repetition of lies from their part to try to excuse their own incompetence and that what I paid for Premium will be stolen without anything I can do to stop them.
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Nope
Seeking arrangement does not care about…
Seeking arrangement does not care about your pages or profiles. Nor you or the money you spend. They will delete your accounts without warning or reason and blame it on “technical issues” it’s happened multiple times. Then when you have an issue they will respond l saying everything is fine when I just contacted to inform them everything is indeed not fine. Jackson with customer service honestly was a bad experience and was rude. He literally kept sending me the same message saying everything is working fine. I replied to Jackson yet he sent the same message as before. I clearly explained the issue and he again stated everything g is working fine. EVERYTHING IS NOT WORKING FINE IF IM COMPLAINING ABOUT IT NOT WORKING.
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Dawn F.
So this guy out of state flies in and…
So this guy out of state flies in and hits me up. Offers me $400 to come to his hotel in the evening. Mind it,his hotel is an hour drive each way.
So how is it in arrangement? The guy is not local meaning it will be just one time hit and run. The average price for this kind of service if you were to hire An ok looking escort would probably be twice as much, and escorts require all sorts of verification. And this is the majority of the emails I get.
This or people listing kik or messanger numbers in the heading of profiles And probably are looking to scam you out of your money as a sugar baby.They never messaged you, they just Favorit you Probably because they don’t even pay for premium membership. They’re out of state and they’re hoping that you will send them a little bit of money to prove you’re a good sugar baby LOL
The site is a joke. Do not recommend for what it worth
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Disappointed
SA steals money. Suspends account for no reason.
Signed up, paid $90 membership fee, and they suspended the account an hour later. Makes no sense. No explanation. No refund.
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Kathrin
Don´t waste your time
Don´t waste your time. You wont find what you are looking for. Men here are looking for escort service on low price or for free. They will not give any luxurious lifestyle, nor help. Just food, drinks, free ticket. Those who claim themselves as millionaires will fool you. They are not looking for sugarbaby. They all are looking for young naïve girls. Not generous at all. All men here are very cheap and low level no matter which income they put! Why meet these old ugly men who steal youth and could be your father????!!
Better find some young attractive strong smart lion in real life.
Men who are succesful, rich, generous don't use this website!! Prince/Princess is not on seeking.
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Robert P.
How SA really works
You got onto SA hoping to find that nice girl for a long term arrangement. You signed to say that you will agree to their codes and presume that the girls are real and are also monitored.
You are wrong!
Most of the girls are either scammers or escorts, maybe both or not even girls at all and its getting worse. SA are trying to rebrand themselves as a dating site, it isn't, its an arrangement site but they are a US based company and don't want to fall foul of US laws on prostitution which is illegal there Of course not in the UK or most of Europe. Hence they are aggressively persecuting any male who dares to ask a girl if she is looking for an intimate meeting for example. Even though on their web site is the option to include 'Friends with benefits' their moderators don't seem to understand what this means.
The normal scenario is you contact a girl.
The web site now rightly advises against sending money to anyone that you haven't met. This is common sense but it doesn't stop the 'girls' asking. If you do its a sure fire way of ensuring that you will never hear from them again! Some of the methods used to persuade you to send money vary from crude to very sophisticated even heart wrenching.
But they are all cons!
So you want an arrangement, the girl seems nice. You need to discuss what she expects. Now you are faced with a dilemma. If you ask what she wants per meeting then you will get banned for daring to suggest a PPM arrangement, even if she suggests it first and you say OK.
You agree to a monthly allowance, turn up at a meeting and hand over several hundred ponds then what happens. If you are very lucky you go on to see the girl many times again and are hopefully very happy.
More likely though is that she says she hasn't the time now and arrangeS to meet later. You never see her again...or she takes your money, goes to the toilet or for a cigarette.
You never see her again.
Or you have a nice meal etc., agree to meet later. She goes home, you get a message: "Sorry babe, I just didn't feel it, don't think it will work". You never see her again.
Do you see the pattern?
Worse than that is that you meet at hers, hand over cash, the boyfriend jumps out of the cupboard and you run from there. Alternatively you hand over the cash and she says no thanks and if you don't go I will tell the police you raped me.
Being fare I also had a year and a half with a wonderful girl who I am still in touch with.
Back to SA's role in this: Why don't they do any thing?.....well its not in their interest. As it is they can claim that girls outnumber men 4 to 1 on the site. If you report an incident its either ignored or they ask you for evidence...OK there isn't any!
Its not as if you can go back and ask for a statement.
So the scam and scammers go on. SA could reduce this by insisting that females also pay a subscription but that would drastically reduce the number of girls so wouldn't look so good. Of course those left would mostly be genuine but SA don't care, they just want lots of female members. Nor do SA properly review female profiles.
You will see girls stating that they are looking for 'pay pigs' or they want to 'rinse your wallet' or simply that they are only looking for an online arrangement...against SA rules. they get around it sometimes by saying start with online and meet later...of course that isn't going to happen. They do nothing to close these accounts. There are many girls selling photos and videos and you will spend a lot of time sorting through the dross and rubbish on this site.
Its supposed to be an arrangement site to meet up. Then we are back to the payment problem, if you want to pay per meet which is the safest for your wallet then you will get banned as against SA rules. They are happy to facilitate the scams and thefts.
The other problem with reporting girls that break the rules or are scammers is th
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Morgan R.
You get responses and have people look…
You get responses and have people look at your page and ask you whether you want an arrangement majority of guys will say to you I have been scammed. Then they Will proceed to say in order to get the money you need to make me trust you meaning you owe me x amount of money and if you can afford that because you are broke and I mean like me $0 in your bank account they don't talk to you again. Or they look at you and they say oh you can send 25 okay send 25 then they go oh well you didn't send me 25 I want another 25 okay you didn't send me another 25 I want another 50 and then they look at it when you say finally I really can't be getting money from other people anymore that's when they finally look at it and they finally say well then I don't trust you and they leave you with your money even when you say return it if a man gives a crap about you they don't need your money what they need is to understand that there are trustworthy people out there that will not leave them just because they got money and I think there needs to be a policy on the site saying that if you do that once you are kicked off but there isn't so therefore this is a scam don't trust people who say on the website reviews that it's great that they're getting $700 a month they're lying and they're full of s*** and clearly they've got their head shoved too far up somewhere they don't need to have it shoved.