SeekingarrangementReviews of seekingarrangement.com

I Didn’t even know there were reviews on seeking arrangements. To find out the average reviews are one stars are not surprising. The site doesn’t hold any responsibility for sugar babies. Only sugar daddies. You will get banned for just about anything.

Seeking markets itself as an elite dating platform centered around mutually beneficial relationships. In practice, the experience feels far less refined and far more misleading than advertised. A surprising number of the men on the platform appear to be older divorcees still navigating unresolved personal lives. Many profiles present themselves as successful and desirable, yet the expectations placed on women are often unrealistic and highly one-sided. There seems to be an underlying belief that women should arrive with near-perfect physiques, endless admiration, and a willingness to fit quietly into someone else’s already established life. What becomes clear very quickly is that the dynamic on this platform often revolves around *what the woman can provide*, rather than any genuine sense of mutual exchange. The tone of many interactions feels transactional, self-focused, and oddly entitled. It is not uncommon to encounter men who expect companionship, attention, and flexibility while offering very little curiosity about the woman’s goals or desires. One conversation in particular captured this imbalance perfectly. I spoke with a divorced man with children who said he wanted a partner willing to embrace his family. When I asked if he would support a future partner having children of her own someday, his answer was an immediate no. That level of self-interest says a lot — expecting someone to invest in your life while denying them the possibility of building their own. Another frustrating aspect of the platform is the complete lack of communication etiquette. Considering the expensive membership costs, you would assume users would at least engage with messages. Instead, many profiles remain silent. Messages go unread or unanswered indefinitely. A simple “not interested” would show basic courtesy and confirm someone actually looked at your profile. The silence suggests many users either lack social awareness or simply enjoy collecting attention without participating. Profiles themselves often feel cold, vague, and performative. Many emphasize being “extremely busy,” which raises a fair question: if someone is too busy for life, why are they on a dating app in the first place? Relationships require time, communication, and presence — none of which seem to be priorities for many users here. Ultimately, Seeking presents an image of sophistication, exclusivity, and mutually beneficial relationships. In reality, the experience frequently feels imbalanced, impersonal, and filled with individuals seeking admiration rather than connection. For an app that charges a premium price, the culture on the platform leaves a great deal to be desired.

Used to be good till about 2002...now it a lot of hookers and sex workers. Hard to find a decent encounter. Women telling you they want $500 -$700 per meet??? And you report them but its like SA doesnt care. Very bad customer service....Not for me.

Hideous men with shocking morals. Time wasters. Usually either desperate married men who just need a shag, time wasters who just want a w$nk or men who have a very disturbing attitude towards women. A sad indictment of society.

The worst. Total BS, had a girl meet me for coffee, ask for 1K to go back to my place which I politely declined. She said she will report me but I ignored it since I did nothing wrong. Guess what, Seeking put my account on hold then forced me to watch a video and agree to not committing crimes (really?) and then wanted my government ID to verify me. F U Seeking! That is a violation of privacy and you ban someone even when zero evidence is provided of wrongdoing.

J'ai réactivé mon profil sur ce site depuis 48H, et pour l'heure, expérience mitigée. J'ai contacté 3 hommes dans la ville où j'habite et me suis prise 3 vents, mon annonce a étée censurée à plusieurs reprises par la modération car des termes tels que "fétichisme" ou "massage" sont interdits sur ce site lol. Toute annonce à connotation sensuelle/érotique est d'emblée censurée, alors que si on vient sur seeking, c'est pas pour jouer au scrabble... Repéré quelques profils d'hommes qui semblent être des fakes. Le seul mec qui m'a contactée a un profil vide, et j'ignore ses intentions... Là dans l'immédiat, ce site me donne l'impression d'être une arnaque, je reste encore quelques jours pour voir...

Long review ahead. Someone here needs to say what we're all thinking, might as well be me. You haven't seen anything until you sign up for this site as a man and sift through a handful of profiles in your area. The first thing you'll notice is how the same 20 profiles in your city are the only ones online every day (we'll get to the reason in a minute). You wonder why the ok looking ones are online all day everyday. Look no further than the entitlement and how stuck up she is in her profile when you make that click... "I expect this type of lifestyle. Don't message me if. Tall guys only. Spoil me this and that and buy me gifts. I want fine dining this and that. I want to travel. If you can't spoil and pamper don't message. Etc etc etc" Notice something? You will be hard pressed to find any of these foolish and selfish women mentioning what the man she's expecting to provide for her gets in return. Just a whole lot of I...I...me..me and no us..us...you...we. You are literally just an ATM and bailout machine with legs. Gents, stop entertaining these types of women. Start thinking with another organ and save provisions for someone who will appreciate and respect it. Half of them act confused that you want something in person and are confused that she's not amazing enough to just wire things to. Not even the attractive looking ones either. The hogs who weigh two times your weight with green hair and metal coming out of their face will have even worse demands and requirements up and down their bios. They'll leave you on read if you aren't a 6 foot 7 multitrillionaire too. We have a SERIOUS problem with entitlement in this dating world and country. You used to get an actual relationship with an understanding from this site but now you are just the bill payer tucked in a drawer somewhere that she only brings 3% of effort to if you're lucky. **Yes - There are some super sweet women on here. Good luck finding them now.** I haven't gotten to the functionality of the site. Overall it's 'ok' but now you can't even hide profiles from the main window. You have to fully open their profile and pick hide/block from a tiny dropdown. If I see pink hair and metal coming out of your face I would like to simply hide you and not have to pull up your profile and do all these extra steps. The home screen when you first sign in is completely useless and shows people from 8+ states away and in places on the other side of North America (i.e. Canada). I also don't trust their verifications. It feels like they're slapping "picture verified" onto fake profiles to make it look like this site is more trustworthy but you get the same online relationship only bs that I touched on above. Furthermore, why in the world can we not filter out married and open relationships?? I am not here to share you and do your partner's job, I should be able to turn you completely invisible on my feed. Here's the best part. There have been probably 3 price increases and the stuck up attitudes have increased with the prices. Now sitting at $150USD I can't think of any reason that this is worth the money. I used to speak highly of the site. But now Seeking owes everyone an explanation for why on this green Earth they think they are worth anywhere near that for 30 days.

Ive been on here for 10 years the first 5 years were good. Half way decent people butstill doable. You got a lot of girls. Then 5 years ago the prostitutes came in and it was mostly prostitution. The last year or two, mostly scammers and 3s an4s thinking they're 10s. Its a quagmire, chest deep in acammers. Every girl from vegas is a scammer. Be carefull