I have used this site in the past with no issues. Since I didn’t want to use my college email I decided to use a prepaid visa to upgrade to premium. I had just made an account that took a half hour, and it got suspended as soon as I hit submit on the payment. They say prepaid cards are allowed, and I had read the giftcard I used worked for others. I reached out to customer support and I have heard nothing. Extremely disappointed as it seems this site has somehow gotten worse.
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Mica
Useless hypocritical site
It's meant to be a relationship with money involved yet if you try to mention anything you get banned and even if you don't and just try to chat somewhere else to avoid mentioning they still ban so why create a site if you deny it's only purpose. It only benefits the time wasters men who are 95% and just want a free chat without ever meeting
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John W.
There are numerous red flags on this…
There are numerous red flags on this site:
1/ Most profile pics appear airbrushed, or as stock photos, and have text seemingly written by impersonators who speak English as a second language (i. E. subtle grammatical errors and/or similarly themed text from one profile to another).
2/ You will be contacted by people/profiles on different continents (usually before purchasing the service in order to falsely pique your curiosity and get your hopes up). Their messages will usually be 1-2 sentences of complements, formulaically written, and with nothing substantive.
3/ Most females ask for money, but explicitly state they have no intention of ever meeting up.
4/ The majority of female profiles are under 30 years old (which is pretty convenient when you're preying mostly on horny, desperate men).
5/ Most profiles aren't written as other normal dating sites are written. For example, these profiles usually don't mention anything about specific current events, hobbies, or mass entertainment/western culture. Instead female seekingarrangment profiles usually just talk about money, achieving an otherwise unsustainable lifestyle, being showered with luxury goods, and having you provide it to them with "no strings attached". See point 3.
6/ Very few of the pictures of the women have any normal detail in them such as being taken in public places such as parks or restaurants or near other landmarks, very few photos include groups of friends, family, pets, or have any brand name products in the background usually (normally you'd expect to see some "real life" products or scenarios in pictures of real profiles).
Basically, in my opinion, seekingarrangement is this decade's version of a Nigerian email scam, or, boiler room stock broker. For the most part it's a fraud.
My advice would be to not buy the service.
JR
Jeff R.
Either outdated or fake
Have been on this site for over 7 months. While i have met 3 decent women who honored their side of the arrangement. Most of the women are escorts or just plain scammers. So far the bad outweighs the good. The site WILL NOT clean up the profiles after one reports them as scammers or fake. So far i have met
One girl that turned out to have a criminal record for fraud. She had served 6 months for shoplifting and fraud under 600.00
One woman that just left prison for stabbing her mother to death. She is on parole after 16 years in state prison.
Even after you report this to the site, they wont take the profile down. Even after i contacted the owner of the site who takes "pride" in being ethical. A simple reverse image search of the pics in the profile will at times show you that their profiles have stolen pics or different names on it.
Stay away guys, seriously.
My experience has always been disappointing.
Yes there are photos and profiles of many beautiful girls. But they don't respond. My response rate was very low (1 response for 20 initial emails) and those women who did respond are either scam artists or hookers, and not very good ones.
The site may work for a tall wealthy handsome man in his 30's or 40's willing and able to spend $3000-$10,000 per month.
For the average guy in his 50's or 60's looking for companionship its a waste of time and money.
If you're still going to try it despite my advice, at least don't pay in advance for the girls and don't agree to pay travel expenses without seeing the woman in person-many of the photos are outdated.
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Rick
Training ground for escorts
This site used to be a place where a Sugar Daddy could find a Sugar Baby and a true arrangement could be found.
These days there are scammers who pose as women and have a way of conniving money out of someone without ever meeting. For the women there are scammers who convince them to provide banking information and then take money that these women desperately need.
The site also will delete a profile if they feel you have used the site for either hiring or being a supposed prostitute. What is interesting about this rule is it appears very arbitrary and once black listed they do not have an appeals process so someone knows why they were blacklisted. So they basically take your money for a subscription and can cancel it and keep your money on a whim.
Although the site does not promote prostitution the reality is the women on the site are usually open to having sex for money. That is the definition of prostitution and the site doesn't want to be known for this because then the innocent naive women who join would realize they are basically escorts in training, and here instead of being called an escort they are a "Sugar Baby".
The only positive about the site is that there is a lot of traffic and as such it has many young women who need money and guys with some money and who don't want to go to an escort instead use this site.
Overall the only redeeming value the site offers is high number of active users and sadly there isn't a good alternative.
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Lisa J.
Seeking arrangement, now seeking.com should be avoided at all costs!
Seeking arrangement, who now go by seeking.com should be shut down. The website is full of nothing but con artists, scammers and nasty deviants looking for thrills and cheap escorts. I do not recommend this website or service to anyone!! It’s genuinely scary how disturbed the so called sugar daddy’s are… I’d advise any women to look elsewhere for their sugar relationship, this website will only con you of your time and money, and put you at risk of being manipulated or used by old men who do nothing but lie lie lie.
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Darren
Joined in good faith but they cancelled…
Joined in good faith but they cancelled my subscription without any refund when a girl asked me how much she charges!