Founded in 2006, Seeking.com is the world's largest luxury dating platform with over 56 million members across 130+ countries. The platform connects successful and success-driven singles in successful relationships and places authenticity, safety, and intentionality at its core.
Reflex Media, Inc. (seeking.com) has 41 customer reviews on Five Star Index, with an average rating of 1.2 out of 5.
Also known as
Reflex Media, seeking.com
Website
seeking.com
Category
Adult Entertainment
Location
Las Vegas, Nevada
Listed on Five Star Index
2026
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Most recent review: June 2026.
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If I could give this dating/hookup site no stars, I definitely would! I got deleted after only a few hours of joining. I never got the chance to even converse with any members! I emailed them and asked them why they deleted me, but they never gave any reason at all. Also, there are very sparse members on this site, and the majority of them were married. I count it a blessing to be deleted! I felt this was God saving me! Don't waste your time! They have horrible reviews all across the board!
Response from Reflex Media, Inc.Sep 16, 2026
Hi, thank you for sharing this, and we’re sorry your experience did not meet expectations. We take reports of suspicious or inauthentic profiles seriously and act on them under our policies. Please report any profiles or messages that concern you, with screenshots and details, so our team can review.
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Jason
Account Deleted, Rude Customer Service
I'm male, and set up a simple initial profile with one basic portrait picture on seeking.com. The profile just had some biographical info about me, no proposition, nothing about what I was looking for. I barely had time to browse around. I didn't even click on anyone else's profile and hadn't even finished setting up my account. In about 5-10 minutes I got logged out. When I tried to log in again, it said my account was deleted. Upon contacting customer service, I got the lovely gem of a response copied below.
I was open to paying for a premium account, but they are completely untrustworthy now. I wouldn't want them having access to my credit card. This is the worst customer experience, and customer service attitude I've seen at any company.
Don't bother. If they randomly delete your account while they have your credit card, they could keep charging it and you'll have to file fraud claims with your bank.
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Hi there,
Thank you for your inquiry regarding your account. Unfortunately, we have permanently removed your account and we are unable to reinstate it. Please review our FAQs for further information.
You are banned from Seeking.com and any of our sister sites. Future attempts to access the site will be considered a continued violation of our Terms of Use. Our decision is final and any future inquiries about this suspension will not receive a response.
Best Regards,
Sydney
Seeking Support
Response from Reflex Media, Inc.Sep 16, 2026
Hi, thank you for sharing this, and we’re sorry your experience did not meet expectations. Where account access is concerned, account reviews help protect the safety and quality of the community, so we’re not able to discuss account-specific decisions publicly. We understand how frustrating it is when an issue feels unresolved or support is slow to respond. Please contact Support through the Help Center using the email tied to your account and reference this review so the team can look into it and confirm any available next steps.
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Peter
Horrible site, avoid at all cost
More expensive than competitors, while seeming to have more fakes and unresponsive woman. In addition, one can get easily banned without proper explanation, and their understanding of what's allowed and what isn't is questionable, to say the least. Horrible site, avoid at all costs. If possible, go to other sugardating sites.
Seems to be particularly biased against men, where men get banned easily, while woman do not.
TJ
Tony J.
Stay away from seeking.com
I have paid to join this website. Then, i received a warning for using this website for commercial use. This is a paradox. A SB/SD relationship is a commercial arrangement.
Then, I discovered the website was packed with scammers.
Sugar babies aren't forced to get ID verified. So, there are many fake profiles on the site. A man can easily impersonate a woman. Very few women on the website don't get verified at all even if this website allows them to get verified thanks to their instagram, their facebook, their ID.
I have been scammed several times.
I paid webcam chat session upfront and I got nothing in return.
More importantly, seeking.com does not NOTHING to protect their customers. It is OUTRAGEOUS.
Response from Reflex Media, Inc.Sep 16, 2026
Hi, thank you for sharing this, and we’re sorry your experience did not meet expectations. Member safety and security are a priority, and we treat concerns about scams, impersonation, payment requests, or verification seriously. We take reports of suspicious or inauthentic profiles seriously and act on them under our policies. Please contact Support through the Help Center using the email tied to your account and reference this review so the team can look into it and confirm any available next steps. You can also report any profiles or messages that concern you, with screenshots and details, so the team can review.
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paul P.
SCAM can t unsubscribe
When the date approach to unsubscribe the expensive subscription they lock your account saying you need a code they sent on your email that actually they don t sent. SCAM
Response from Reflex Media, Inc.Sep 16, 2026
Hi, thank you for sharing this, and we’re sorry your experience did not meet expectations. On the billing side, members should be able to understand their account and subscription status, though for privacy and account-security reasons we can’t review charges or refund eligibility in a public forum. Where account access is concerned, account reviews help protect the safety and quality of the community, so we’re not able to discuss account-specific decisions publicly. Please contact Support through the Help Center using the email tied to your account and reference this review so the team can look into it and confirm any available next steps.
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Arthur
FORMERLY "SEEKING ARRANGEMENT.COM"
FORMERLY "SEEKING ARRANGEMENT.COM", CHANGED THE NAME TO JUST "SEEKING.COM"
GIGANTIC RIP-OFF and may be a FRONT FOR PROSTITUTION as well!
Billed as a "Dating Site," oh sure, if you can or want to PAY for it - Dating site my xxx. It appears there are quite a few women on the site, however MOST OF THEM ARE NOT ACTIVE, and SA does not remove their profile. I spent a little time removing the non-current listings and the total number of viable women was astonishingly LOW.
Extremely expensive. why does one have to pay this site when, if so inclined, you could find 100's of women for free on numerous websites - same types, same services, lets face it, i feel this place is a camouflaged site to locate prostitutes.
I also personally believe they utilize SHILLS of fake profiles. I found some where a woman was using a previous woman's profile who was no longer on the system. Also, some women that seemed to live on this system, and would never give you any real info, they are either emotionally sad wanna-be or fakes - neither of which you want to pay for.
Most of the women thought they were god's gift, often referring to themselves as "Eye candy" or "Arm Candy" well unfortunately they had overblown ideas of how they looked. Most are average to slightly above average, many are outright losers and lowlifes. Many ARE NOT in great shape, though they post these ridiculous pictures of themselves in overweight, unprofessional poses, or looking like carnival tramps on a "Busman's Holiday."
Another facet, these women, when queried as to what they were seeking, said they wanted XXX$ for an allowance or whatever...they gotta be kidding, what planet are they from? That's why precisely most of them are beggars and sad mooches because they have about as much chance of getting this amount of coin as i do of getting picked to man a NASA space ship.
A good many of the women I communicated with were truly ignorant, under-educated, and unpleasant, few social skills (because they were not taught any by their equally deficient parents), trailer trash; the type I would never have to my house- they appear to me like they would be better off standing on a street corner soliciting business!
And then when you ask them what they want they throw out $ figures that are absurd, these desperate women are living in a Fantasyland that no man would offer these very average (or worse, just comical)!
SAVE YOUR MONEY - THIS IS A TOTAL WASTE OF TIME AND MONEY - there are FREE (or much cheaper) sites where you can get a better far better selection, this is the d
regs..
SEPT. 16, 2026. MY REVIEW WAS FROM 2022, AND I'M JUST GETTING A RESPONSE NOW, WHAT MORE NEEDS TO BE SAID ABOUT THIS GROUP!!??
Response from Reflex Media, Inc.Sep 16, 2026
Hi, thank you for sharing this, and we’re sorry your experience did not meet expectations. To be clear, Seeking does not allow prostitution, escorting, or offers to exchange sexual services for compensation, and our Trust & Safety team acts on any report that violates this policy. We take reports of suspicious or inauthentic profiles seriously and act on them under our policies. Please report any profiles or messages that concern you, with screenshots and details, so our team can review.
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Jaè C.
Site is very interesting but, filled with bots and fakes…
Site is very interesting and it’s real with several things to get rid of.
I have been on for 3 months and went on 2 dates. Not what am use to. When I go on a dating site am on dates every week.
This site does have bots and fake pages. But, so do the other dating sites. You just have to figure out how not to get caught up in that. If it’s too good to be real perhaps that’s your sign to not chat with that person. It’s like we are trained to look for only red flags when we should be trained to look for the opposite 😆
My 2 dates were legit. I did a reverse telephone number check and was able to confirm where they worked at. First date was a quick meet & greet short lunch date. He seemed interested then in a couple of days I never heard back from him. He even told me thank you for looking like my picture because he had experienced some crazy stuff.
Second date I actually had a blast. We spent the entire day together. We went to a shooting range then had dinner. When I say that we lol all day. We stayed connected for a couple of weeks and no second date🙃 He was separated so, I just took it as he returned back home.
Other than that I haven’t met anyone else worth my time. Many men have on their profile no scammers but, I believe that they are scammers or liars.
The one thing that I have noticed on this site is that they must own your profile once you close it. I have come across way too many profiles that haven’t been active in months some over a year. But, they still keep it in the cycle which isn’t cool at all. This explains why I would see so, many profiles with a disclaimer on it.
I can offer this…be honest. I have several request on my profile. You must be over 40. You must have a profile picture or willing to share a picture. If we start chatting and we are feeling each other we must meet in 7 days. I am not a escort so speak to me nice. I honestly believe that has helped with keeping the fakes away.
I decided to make this month my last month. Just over the other dating apps and thinking how else to meet men. Ever since the pandemic trying to meet men has been a bit hard.
This site can be great if they got rid of all the bots and the old profiles.
JI
Jimmy
Beware they want your ID
Beware they want your ID. I signed up paid my fee and was using the site when I got locked out while they wanted me to update my driving licence or passport. Now if they had said that when you joined and they were happy to take your credit card, I would have walked.
When I challenged them I got a drivel excuse that I had been given a warning. I hadn't. Just locked out until I give a company registered in Cyprus my passport. Maybe I should give then my pin number for my bank accounts also?
Avoid
Response from Reflex Media, Inc.Sep 16, 2026
Hi, thank you for sharing this, and we’re sorry your experience did not meet expectations. Where account access is concerned, account reviews help protect the safety and quality of the community, so we’re not able to discuss account-specific decisions publicly. Please contact Support through the Help Center using the email tied to your account and reference this review so the team can look into it and confirm any available next steps.