Silver F.
The site has all the appearances of being real - its really click-bait
The site has all the appearances of being legitimate, and, yes, there are some genuine profiles with real people behind them (maybe 10% tops). Many however are Escorts (male and female) or outright scammers. The site has a function to report scammers and escorts however all that actually happens is they are blocked from your feed and remain on the site - effectively serving as 'bait' for other unsuspecting users. This is easy to test by creating a second profile to check. The men have to pay £100GBP/$120USD per month, the women however get to use it for free with the result that of the genuine 10% remaining some just use it as a flirting App and have no intention of ever meeting. I tried complaining about the service twice and my reward was having my account suspended each time and then forced to watch videos on what the site is supposed to be for - crass to put it mildly. Avoid, avoid.
Response from Reflex Media, Inc.Sep 16, 2026
Hi, thank you for sharing this, and we’re sorry your experience did not meet expectations. Member safety and security are a priority, and we treat concerns about scams, impersonation, payment requests, or verification seriously. Where account access is concerned, account reviews help protect the safety and quality of the community, so we’re not able to discuss account-specific decisions publicly. Seeking is built for people who value intentional dating and meaningful connections, and while experiences can vary, we’re sorry the matches didn’t meet your expectations. Please contact Support through the Help Center using the email tied to your account and reference this review so the team can look into it and confirm any available next steps. You can also report any profiles or messages that concern you, with screenshots and details, so the team can review.


