Henrik J.
The toughest review I've had to write
It seems wrong to write this review on Trustpilot, as there seems to be some kind of disconnect in my head in writing a review for the most life changing decision I've ever made, on a superficial platform like Trustpilot. But I will do my best to describe what this program and Geoffrey has done for me. To say that I was sceptical going into the program is an understatement. It's not cheap, so I did my research and tried to find any reason not to join. I had previously tried joining another marriage program, that was all bells and whistles, but with no real meaningful content - other than the constant reminder to work on your 'PIES': Physical, Intellectual, Emotional, Spiritual attributes. But with no real guidance on what that meant. However this program did seem different. It seemed like it had a completely different approach, with real science based processes. I went into this program with one objective; to save my marriage. However it quickly became apparent, that this program doesn't just aim at fixing your marriage - It takes aim at fixing you fundamentally. Your marriage being fixed might just be a side effect. I won't go into detail about the process, but I will highlight how it has changed my view on life itself. Before joining I was very firm in my beliefs, it was my way or the highway. I wouldn't put up with anything that went against my views and I had a very hard time seeing things from other peoples perspective. Shortly after beginning the program I started seeing subtle changes in how I view the world and people. Where I would once feel like people were being unfair or judge their behaviour, I'm now able to see things from their perspective and spot how I might be wrong in my assumptions. Soon after I also started to notice how my kids behaviours and their views of me started changing for the positive. I was slowly laying "nazi dad" to rest and instead adopted a more empathetic approach to the dad role. There's no doubt about it, this stuff makes a fundamental difference to your life. But do not assume that things will come easy. It is really hard work and it takes a lot of time and effort. I have failed many times to follow the program as it was laid out. I've misunderstood things that cost me precious time, and I've struggled to overcome mental blocks that kept me from doing the actual work. Do not join this program if you don't have a strong mental drive and the ability to adapt. Do join this program if you realise that something needs to change and this change starts with you. But be prepared to work for it. It does not come easy. If it did, the results wouldn't be what you need.
Response from Relationships Revival | Geoffrey SetiawanJun 25, 2025
Thank you so much for the review, Henrik, love seeing your journey!


