Kyla
Incredibly manipulative sales tactics
Incredibly manipulative sales tactics! I found Kitty's website when searching for a poly coach, and signed up for a free "breakthrough sessions". The team member we spoke with asked about our relationship problems in detail, we spilled our hearts out, and she told us we absolutely needed help and would be good candidates for the course. It turns out the course is $9000. That's more than we can afford, so we told her it just wasn't an option for us, and she said that we would never fix our relationship without their help?! We said that we just didn't have the money, and she suggested we take out loans or borrow money from family or friends(!!!). She asked if we had kids (we don't), and said to imagine that a niece or nephew was in trouble and needed help—wouldn't we do anything to get the money to help them? Why wouldn't we do anything to get the money to help ourselves? Did we not care about our relationship? She then graciously told us that if we payed right now with a credit card, she could lower the price to $5000. If you have the money to pay for this course, I'm sure it must be decent (if I remember correctly, for $9000/$5000 you get 10 prerecorded lessons, access to a FB group, and two or three 30 minute conversations with one of their specialists, which seems a bit steep). My problem is not with the price, but with the way they lure you. They prey on people who are just trying to save their relationships and become better partners, which I honestly find disgusting. IN RESPONSE TO YOUR REPLY— If you have a recording of the call I would LOVE to hear it, to see exactly which parts I’m apparently remembering incorrectly (I never claimed to remember the exact details of the course—like I said, my criticism was of the sales tactics, not the course itself). If you have nothing to hide, feel free to send me the recording via email.
Response from Loving Without Boundaries, Kitty ChamblissMay 22, 2022
Thank you for sharing your experience. I honor that you reached out for help, seeking a coach to guide you through issues that you were facing. You are absolutely correct that the initial consultation is free of charge. On that call, myself and my team do not make an offer to assist you until we see if we are actually a fit to work together, based on what you vulnerably share on that call. Our job is to get to the heart of why you reached out, and see if we can help, while we also determine if you are ready and willing to put in the work to change your situation. Otherwise, it would be unethical to proceed. Where there is some inaccuracy / misunderstanding: 1) This is not simply a “course”. Working with myself and my dedicated team is an immersive process consisting of live coaching with multiple coaching touch-points a week, a carefully crafted curriculum based on decades of experience that I steward clients through, and the opportunity to join an elite lifelong community, with continual support and ongoing upgraded materials literally for the rest of your life. 2) With all due respect, some of what you say here is not correct based on the facts of the call in question. I do have a recording of our call (recorded with disclosure). Some of what you share here is not accurate based on the transcription and my team listening closely to that very call. I do understand that our memories as humans can be faulty sometimes. That happens. 3) The team member that you spoke to that day no longer works for Loving Without Boundaries. We do our best to offer a quality experience at every stage. This is why I do invite feedback and thank you, even though you and your partner chose not to enroll and have not actually worked with me or my expert relationship coaching services at all, nor been through this transformational program. In terms of cost: There is a cost to months, years, and decades of emotional pain that I help my clients move up and out of, in living their most authentic lives in healthy relationship structures of their choosing. Many say they couldn’t afford NOT to do this transformational work getting lifelong priceless skills. This is stated eloquently here many times by our actual clients. The people I work with know that investing in themselves, their mind (emotional/mental health), their skills (including relationship building skills), and their future is 100% worth the investment. One thing I know to be true: Some people stay stuck for years (by not taking inspired action), other people get results (by believing in themselves and taking a courageous step forward). This immersive – and even fun and beautiful process – works powerfully for those who are decisive/committed, coach-able, and resourceful. Clearly, we are not a fit to work together. That is ok and I honor your decision. I wish you the best in all of your endeavors. I’m sending you love, light, and positive energy to you and your loved ones. I do hope that you find the right professional to help you. Sincerely, Kitty Chambliss and the Loving Without Boundaries Team




