Love At First FightReviews of loveatfirstfight.com

We found your program over the course of the 2025 winter. Following the tragic death of one of our grandsons, our 56 years relationship took an undesired turn that led us to rethinking our future together. We were not on the same line of dealing with the issue and after finding your program, it seemed that this was one way to try saving our marriage. So far into the program, we are pleased with the different exercises, although not all easy, but efficient. The one that influenced the most so far is writing each day, one reason why we are grateful for each other. Close to two months into it and we still find ways to appreciate our life together. Looking forward to continuing after the midterm break. Thank you.

I'm on week 5. Really practical and sound teachings. Some things are odd and no I haven't done everything by the book orbeven got thebcourage to ask my husband to do it with me. That being said most of these tools and teachings will stay with me for the rest of my life. I really love that it focuses on changing yourself and not your partner. That was the main draw for me. Changed my perspective and now we are more connected than we have been for probably 10 years (together 16yr with 2 kiddos). Worth every penny. Considering purchasing the lifetime access now.

I’m not finished with the course yet, but I’m already seeing positive results. My husband and I have been married 39 years and are in our late 60s. I wish I had this course 39 years ago! I am watching the videos by myself, but my husband has agreed to read my notes and do the workbooks with an open mind. (And for a man who never wants to talk about “feelings,” that’s a huge step.) I have a greater understanding of relationship dynamics and why we behave like we do. I have adapted a more empathetic view of my husband and myself. I’ve also seen things in my behavior that I can change to grow us closer. I’m very hopeful about our future. I think this course should be taught in high school!

We are only half course complete and it is amazing to see the difference in our communication skills, Im very positive for a better lasting relationship now ,thank you

I was skeptical, and I am a complete believer! The content is rich, intense, and well put together. From a degree in Psychology to many years work in industries that were customer/people centric, I thought I’d heard it all. Boy, was I wrong! This program is worth it’s weight in gold. Thank you Bruce and team,this information will enrich the quality of my life, my marriage and the life of my family for years to come!

So far this course has been very helpful. It helps us communicate in a way we can be heard. But most importantly, it gives tools, ways of avoiding the high level conflict. I have a better understanding of what makes my partner tick and he has expressed I have become more calm. It’s a program which takes hours every week and introspection. It’s a commitment! I believe my connection has deepened with my partner but also with myself.

Bruce takes a lot of very dense scientific knowledge about relationship dynamics and not only delivers it in an easy to digest format, but he has also created training that applies this knowledge directly to your relationship in practice. The practice is the learning and the set-up itself motivates you to do it. I am starting to see pieces coming together and seeing small but meaningful change and the potential for that change to be both highly disruptive, and also profoundly freeing with a surprising and deeply moving benefit of improving connection to my partner AND connection to myself despite my ongoing challenges. I can tell that Bruce is a skilled coach, and the value of this course which gets people to learn emotional intelligence and start healing their oldest wounds is probably the most important learning I've ever done.

This is one of the best investments I have ever made. I wish this material could be taught in all high schools and it would avoid so much unnecessary pain. I have learned so much about myself and my husband and I am listening better than I ever have before. The information has been so helpful that we went from feeling no hope, to feeling like we can overcome our triggers and be the best version of ourselves possible. I highly recommend this course to everyone. It is true that only if one partner makes changes you can turn a relationship around. I am so grateful for the help I received and the program has been so helpful. After 21 years of marriage we are starting to feel closer and are going away for our anniversary after years of no dates or meaningful connection.