Love At First FightReviews of loveatfirstfight.com

Hi Bruce Thanks for all your great work with the course. This is our second time with the course, and this time stuff is locking in much better than the first time. One thing id like to comment on is how much more I am aware of my own fear and anxiety ( in my body) when my wife and I start to discuss an idea, or a stressor, or an issue. I can feel I tighten up very early, am on the defensive very quickly from the get-go, and taking a stand - worried that i won't be able to deliver whatever the anxiety brings up, or discuss with my wife without feeling inadequate, or wrong, or not good enough. The more aware Ive become with this anxiety in my body, the softer I feel im becoming, more able to hang in during difficult conversations. Im understanding more now the link between my earlier life and how it has shaped me. Things are improving between us, we are both calmer, and I do realize im going to have to keep practicing the skills and rituals. Thanks Bruce for all your fantastic work -it moves the emotions inside me as im writing this.

As a practitioner in the field of child/family therapy for 3 decades, I’m intimately aware of the power of attachment, understanding the brain, trauma and nervous system regulation and the complete lack of instruction provided to humans for successful operation of our human unit. We get more education for driving a car😂 I’m very impressed by all your work and gratefully reaping the benefits, you’ve gathered together all the best in evidence based practice and made it possible for this “Doctor” to heal theyself🥰 Connection is the key to successful humaning, we are all better together.

Everyone should do this course. I'd recommend this course to everyone who is in a relationship. You will feel the difference after the first chapter. We are only on the 3rd section and our relationship has gone from breaking point to the best it's ever been.

The course makes you discover how your emotions and heart truly needs and work. It shed lights on your partners needs and obstacles.

This course is superb. The understanding behind all of it is applicable in other walks of life and not just your relationship. I found myself instinctively using the reflective conversation tools with one of my staff just yesterday! Me and hubby are doing the course together and almost half way through. I have grown so much from the knowledge and teaching. Bruce is one of the best teachers I've ever come across..his delivery is impeccable. Thank you Bruce Muzik for all the work you put into this. It is truly transformational and we are now floating into the mature love stage."

I purchased this course as a saving grace for my marriage and what I am discovering is a saving grace for myself too. The coursework is giving language to the psychology of relating that is helpful to understand myself and my partner better. While I am only midway through the course so far, I already sense a greater state of hopefulness.

When Bruce Musik popped up on my feed and asked if I wondered why my beloved and I were fighting over the dumbest things, I happened to be considering moving out of our motor home and moving into my own... My husband was off picking up our motorbike at the time and we couldn't seem to get out of the destructive cycles we found ourselves in... I immediately signed up for the prelude and then bought the Conflict Cure, intending to do it on my own for me and for us. When he returned home and saw what I signed up for, her jumped right onboard. After picking myself off the floor, we dove into our first module. I cannot share this course enough with all the struggling people out there - children, spouses, coworkers - it doesn't matter who - it WORKS and we are MORE IN LOVE and EXCITED about what we're building together now! The bumps in the road were easier to shrink down QUICKLY and not escalate When we did default back to the old programs, we found that we became aware FASTER, took responsibility for our part, apologized, reconnected and came back to this wonderFULL new space we've created. THANK YOU, BLESS YOU, we absolutely LOVE you, this wisdom, and EFFECTIVE TOOLS 🕺💗💃

This has given me real insight into myself, my feelings, and why I react the way I do to intense conversations, long silences, and everything in between. This has been great for my partner and me, as well as how to be better parents to our children - learning to listen and discuss versus lecturing. My partner hasn't been all that interested in the videos and homework yet, but just the fact that I am working through my own attachment style, learning to discuss and 'fight' in a better way has already changed the game. The hailstorm and the turtle seem to be making it work after all!