Not only a scam, it is arm ways robbery, girls do not exist in a large majority, they lent their profiles, and an employee of the site, is the one who answers all contacts, they keep a file of each chat, video, telephone call, as soon as one is contacted the employee knows exactly where "she" left the last conversation.
This site goes to the extremes of overcharging, if the time spent in chat is 10' they will charge 20/25, if the time in the call was 8' they will charge 15.
When the complaint to customer service is made, they answer with a sweet letter, long, and caramelised, saying nothing.
This place should be sue, and close.
Is there anyone willing to do it...?
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La S.
Not a good way to meet someone online.
Not a good way to meet someone online.
I've been using charmdate for a while now. I have noticed you can't send them an email address or phone number to contact them off of the website. It gets censored. So I'm forced to conclude that if you are talking to someone real on there. You're always going to be wasting your money for nothing. How can you forge a relationship with one of the ladies if you cannot reach them off the website? The people that run the website are liars and sensor any contact information off of the website whatsoever. I think this is a Chinese dating website.
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Luke C.
Further information
Further information. I am constantly bombarded by teenagers and 20 somethings. Block is useless they just send email. A 51 y/o woman/child I told the first time she contacted me I wasn't interested yesterday booked 20 phone call appointments. It took me over an hour to decline them. I'm tired of questions about when my birthday is and other minutia that is part of my profile. I'm tired of being called gay because I am not interested in them. I think I posted the strap on/Lady boy already. 20 year olds asking me if I would take their virginity. I've had enough virgins they are not fun. I married one. Find someplace else. Support has the same answer cultural differences. I'm Half Ukrainian what cultural differences.
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Matt
To all the nay-sayers out there!
To all the nay-sayers out there! I have used CharmDate for over 2-1/2 years now and am now in a long-term relationship with one of the women I hafd the pleasure of meeting. Yes, that is right...MEETING! If you base your entire opinion on this site with the ones whoi have "catfished" you, then your expectations were much higher than your common sense. I will dispell a few falsehoods:
1. "I was in touch with several woman in this site. It is very clear that they were payed for chat as much possible. They "work" during all the night, without stop." - FALSE! I can say, without hesitation, that my fiancee, Anya, was never paid for the time I chatted with her. She has told me so, and I believe her. She is a devout Orthodox Christian woman, and has never lied to me. Most of these women are genuinely seeking love from men other than those in their own country, because most are alcoholics, disrespectful or downright abusive.
2. "Most of the women approach you in chat with a crude vulgar comment." - FALSE! Although there are a few out there who think that the only way to entice a man is to be sexually aggressive, this is FAR from the norm. Don't crucify all for the sins of a few!
3. "I wrote to Customer Care if it is possible to exchange information and how, their answer was that we need to communicate with each other for a longer time, no answer to how to exchange information." - ONLY PARTLY TRUE. There is a CLEARLY defined period of time that is required before requesting (from the woman) to exchange personal contact information. This is for their protection, because sexual predators are much more rampant in Eastern Europe than they are in the West, and there are few laws over there that protect the women. Yes, social media sites such as Facebook or VK are common, but not all women will subscribe to it, for the same reasons above.
CharmDate actually guarantees protection for their female members by limiting contact with potential suitors, but also limits access to them directly, until things like identity and intention are verified. There are answers to many such questions on the FAQ tab on their website. Read and inform yourself before posting your reviews, based solely on emotions or your own, personal experience.
Review (and rant) over!
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lee R.
cheat and scam website.
cheat and scam website.
the girl was good but then someone took over. Diana (c403267)
come speak to me I will not hesitate to tell what happen.
Diana, I'm sorry, if you are real and you want to be real and sincere, find me. you know how.
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Vincent H.
Clearly a scam on large scale
Mist if the women approach you in chat with a crude vulgar comment. Some unprintable but of course sexually motivated to encourage chat. Most of the women display underwear photos on profiles. They are clearly encouraged to adopt a sexual attitude. Its almost laughable the pains they go to. I live in uk and of course every other girl is gonna make a trip to the uk soon.
I devised a simple test of honesty with them. Most fail instantly. The site allows no exchange of personal details such as phone numbers. An honest girl would jump at the chance for personal unfettered contact but these girls will only communicate through charm date. The reason being is that they get paid. Its a living for them. Charm date is one of the most dishonest money grabbing site in existance. Any site that has so manysuper models on their books can only be fake. All these poor beauties cant find a guy in their own country?? Its a 100% scam steer clear
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Rudi
A COMPLETE FAKE
I was in touch with several woman in this site. It is very clear that they were payed for chat as much possible. They "work" during all the night, without stop.
Some of them appears in other websites, with different bio. Here some examples
1. In this website 1st-international a women called Tatyana is from Ukraine, but in charmdate she is surprisingly from Russia.
2. In 1st-international a woman called Olga is a Manager, but in charmdate she is a teacher and hold a Master degree.
Those are just two examples among many.
I would like to stress that due to difference of hours between my country and soviet countries, I was able to appreciate those ladies, and many others, "working" literally overnight, during 12 or more hours every night, non stop. Clearly more a job more than a chat with some person with him they have serious relation. A COMPLETE FAKE.
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Christina
For the moment I am still a little…
For the moment I am still a little scattered but it seems that a serious hope is emerging, a reasonable hope. There is so much variety her. It is easy also to choose the wrong road. I hope that on my return I'll be excused and if I was not, I guess I should not regret it too much.