Steve
Sceptic Dad who rolled his eyes at Sleep School lost bet and owes his Wife a 'Covid Spa Day’—now a believer!
When I was first approached by my wife about entering our toddler and tiny 4 month old into a Sleep School, I was completely caught off guard and rolled my eyes at her. Who needs sleep school? Who even made up such a place? I told her for days she was crazy and I doubted this would be any different than all the other so-called sleep training programs on the market. But to be honest, we were desperate for sleep, and since I trust my wife explicitly, and ’Sleep School' was only a week long, what could we lose…other than a bit more sleep (which was already happening)…so…we took a bet. Since Batelle has a ‘Sleep Guarantee’ I told my wife that if she was right about Batelle and Miss Megan (who initially sounded too good to be true), I’d give her a ‘Covid Spa Day’... First off though, I didn’t even think we actually needed to put our children through this type of program. I know kids and babies don’t come with a manual, but I figured things with sleep would sort themselves out in time. Since my wife was spending most of her own time handling the middle of the night wake-ups however, I wasn’t aware of how bad things really were until we spoke to Miss Megan and she painted the bigger picture (on our first consultation), showing us how dependent our children really were on my wife for their sense of security. Even though we followed an attachment parenting style philosophy, Miss Megan taught us that there is so much more possible for creating balance in our life just by adjusting our approach and perspective and all while being respectful to our children’s needs and temperaments. I have been continuously impressed at how her coaching resonates with me as a dad while also supporting my wife and helping her feel so understood in the parenting struggles we jointly faced. We are talking simple and easy adjustments that have made a drastic improvement on our children’s sleep and our life as a whole. Miss Megan has a way with children that you wouldn’t believe until you see it first-hand. Our toddler was so drawn to her that all she wanted to do was please Miss Megan. This made Sleep School much easier for our toddler who has a vocabulary well beyond her years. Since Miss Megan was able to rationalize with her and like ‘her teacher’, our daughter ate it up. She respected Miss Megan’s guidance and boundaries, which made it easier to implement since she we were initially concerned with getting pushback. Since the expectations were realistic for everyone, we just didn’t think it possible before, Miss Megan was able to empower us and help us convince our daughter to 'choose to stay in bed' and ‘sleep or rest quietly’ until ‘daytime playtime’ (which is a flexible timeframe that we can adjust as we see fit). I realized that this process would be challenging and would cause us to go outside of the comfort zone and routine that we had created, but most of that change was to be done by us, the parents. The communication and availability through Batelle never left you guessing or wishing there was more resources that we could tap into. Miss Megan’s routine is extremely effective and I was shocked when I first saw my fussy sleepers find a calm restful space to sleep much more quickly than before. I thought that the first time was maybe just due to my children finding a bit of fun in a new routine, and that on nights following it would be more challenging. Not the case. The bedtimes became shorter and shorter simply by applying Miss Megan’s priceless skills and method. Last night was an all-time record for us, putting BOTH kids to sleep at their earliest ever bedtime in record time. No complaining, no negotiating, and a full nights sleep that our whole family couldn’t be more grateful for. I would recommend Batelle and Miss Megan to anyone, without hesitation. Now I have time to pamper my wife.




