It's the site you go to if you're looking to do drugs. Within 24 hours I received several messages asking if I wanted to party. And then asked about making clouds...... that's doing meth. So not my scene at all. Gross.
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Ta'ye B.
This app charge astronomical prices to…
This app charge astronomical prices to be a very, very, very unstable platform.you pay for service and it varely work. For years, same issues .
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Gary
The site format was changed and it's a…
The site format was changed and it's a disaster. Why did they mess with it? It was just fine.
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Jonny
I haven't experienced the multitude of fake profiles others have.
I haven't experienced the multitude of fake profiles people are describing. I'm in a smaller town, so over time, you kinda get to know who everyone is. Not personally and perhaps not to talk to, but they are "regulars". I typically take a long time talking before I'll meet someone, so that weeds out a lot of people. I workout a lot, and I'm just not giving up all my work to just anyone. They don't have to be pretty, but they must be decent, fit and true to their profiles, for the most part. Those who won't share photos, don't get talked to, and I say that in my profile.
I used Adam 10 years ago and it hasn't changed much. It's still super simplistic almost to a cartoonish nature. The colors are boring, the site unexciting to view and basically no creativity in the IT department. But aside from any negatives, the site is free if you don't want to pay for upgrades. The one negative that costs the 4th star is that they allow more than one profile. What? Yep, you can be more than one person on there and that is just crazy and blatantly deceptive. What would the reason for that be? Why would anyone need more than one profile? Oh I see, to pay money to deceive other members. Not only that, you can use two profiles online at the same time. I know all this because one of the dudes I screw has two profiles.
I've met a number of guys, had sex with most of them and while only a few became repeats, it did happen. One dude was a regular for a while, till I found he blabbed that we had been hooking up. When people say they are discreet, it's best not to believe that. As soon as they sleep with the next guy, they'll tell him or anyone that wants to listen about you. That however, is not the blame of the site. I also met my workout partner on there. We had sex once, but now we just go to the gym together; really cool!
What is curious is their nude and profile text policies. You can't use 4 letter words without them being censored on the phone app. That is not the case for the .com site. Same with your main profile photo on the app, it must be G rated, but not the one for the website. The reason is the App Store. Once they went to that, the censoring started. It doesn't matter that the site shows you XXX material, men screwing, blowing and ejaculating with each other, but don't you try to do that. They can show you all the shafts, balls and ass you can handle, but you can't. This is a sex site, mind you. You can have X photos as secondary photos to be fair, but not as hard core as those Adam shows you.
I'm giving it more than 1 star because people don't send me smileys and it is rare that someone has asked for gas money, but it has happened. It's not like I would transfer money to them. I might give them 5 bucks if they show up though; times are hard for some folks. Maybe I just don't go far enough with the type of people that are a scam to get scammed. But I have met guys in person, did get my rocks off many times and for that reason alone, the site deserves some credit. If you get laid only once using the site, you should give it more than 1 star, let's be fair. He might not have been entirely what his profile said, but that's not the site's fault.
So the site has flaws and customer service sucks. I didn't know why I couldn't see censored text or X photos on my laptop and wrote them many times. Each time I got a crazy stupid response like log out and log back in (like I hadn't tried that). Finally one guy gave me the secret; simply to uncheck NSFW way down on the edit profile page, which I had not checked to begin with and did not know was there (it wasn't 10 years ago). It was as though I was the first one who had ever asked that question; it took a month of asking to get the right answer.
Since I don't use this site on my phone, I don't get the ads that seems to annoy everyone who is complaining about them. They are on the website too, but they are to the side mostly and although annoying, they don't just pop up in front of what you are doing.
There is another site I do use on my phone that did those things, but I did pay for that service to remove those ads because the price was much, much less, my physical gratification was much more immediate and more frequent; sometimes nearly immediate. That is worth paying for. If Adam would update their site and app, make it cleaner and easier to navigate, lower their prices and offer decent customer service, I would pay for that service also. I doubt the current owners or management are capable of what is needed to bring this site into this era. It's going to end up like "MySpace" and dwindle away because other sites and apps are so far ahead and are just going to leave Adam in the dust. It has great potential, but just the last 3 years using it proves they either don't care, or simply don't know how to keep up. I should have noticed some change in that amount of time even if it's just color. They just aren't doing anything to improve it.
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JT L.
1 out 30 are real
First; I’m using it for free, so I can’t complain, & I don’t know if the experience is the same for paid members.
That being said, I joined many years ago, & then deleted the app after about 10 years. After a friend recently encouraged me to get back on dating apps to improve my chances of finding a mate, I’d forgotten why I deleted Adam4Adam & reinstalled it.
‘Didn’t take long for me to remember, most of the “guys” sending “winks” are not real people - maybe 1 out of 30 are real.
Why so many fake profiles (usually created within a day), I don’t really know. Some are in areas or situations pointing to a desperate need to get out of their situation, & others are simply robots phishing for information.
But, since there are so many of them, & each time you click on the messages, ads pop up, I’m inclined to believe it’s Adam4Adam doing this to increase chances of us clicking on the ads, or to up their activity count to impress invested advertisers & to make us users think it’s a happening app.
Either way, as others have mentioned, there are rare occasions a real person, who has actually read & understood our profile that we’ve taken time to craft & is actually looking for a match. There are still those who just wanna get off & don’t care who they do it with (which is fine for some). That’s still better then all the frickin’ fake ones taking up time & effort every day (yes, every frickin’ day).
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Mark S.
Be aware of Kansas Sedrick Cheney area…
Be aware of Kansas Sedrick Cheney area scammers they are out there! Sadly this used to be a very good site with very nice men around 4 years ago this app sucks now! Scammers galore asking for cards gas money why does this app even allow party and play which means methheads rude arrogant men too many married guys I blocked so many men on this app it isn’t funny most are flakes and fakes they keep asking the same boring questions over and over like how are u doing? What do u do for a living? Do u live alone? Just a waste of time app
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Mikey
All this site is now since the changes…
All this site is now since the changes is fake profiles, spam, trojan virus', BOTs, awful. 0/100. 100 messages, 100% fake profiles.
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Ezrah R.
Site is free but needs more users and less fake Profiles.
I like it that the Site is free , easy to sigh u and not strictly a App which is getting harder to find. The downside is there just are not enough men on this site. I live in a city of 355 thousand 2 million if you throw in neer by towns. Adam4Adam is a major dating/hookup site so you would think there would be more guys on this website if you live in a large to middle sized city or town. I feel the site should invest in a Marketing campaign to attract more users bc. right now there just does not seem to be enough selection of guys. I d notice already spamming does seem to be a issue as well. But as I said before the site is for the most part free to use and not 100% a app like you can use on your computer or phone which is Grate.