I felt mislead when in Marni’s “Thank You”video stated “We are not money hungry crazy people. We have money. We're fine." Then I did the call, that was supposed to be with a wing girl, only to find out it was a guy in sales, then to close the call on asking $3,000 - $5,000 for the service. I felt pressured to do it with the sales pitches that were provided. I wanted to wait to make the money at first, however afterwards looking back on what was said before, it was a clear mislead.As well as some of the videos seemed very political versus giving actual advice. It kept saying that this plan works and not going into depth on how it works.
I explain to them I was no longer interested and “Jess” told me that I will be removed. I still got texts from them and I told them I’m no longer interested and told me the same thing. I still got texts and emails so I blocked them.
Response from WinggirlmethodFeb 4, 2026
Thank you for sharing your experience and being honest about how the process felt to you. I’m really sorry to hear that you walked away feeling misled or pressured — that’s never the intention of what we do.
Our strategy calls are designed to explore whether coaching is a good fit and to give men clarity about their situation, along with actionable guidance they can use right away, whether they decide to work with us or not. That said, I understand that the conversation and investment level didn’t sit right with you, and I respect your decision not to move forward.
I also apologize for the continued messages after you asked to be removed. That’s frustrating, and you shouldn’t have had to block us. I’ve personally made sure your information has now been fully removed from our communication lists so you won’t receive anything further.
I appreciate you taking the time to express your concerns, and I truly wish you the best moving forward.
Marni and team
JA
Jason
AI Wing Girls, Robocalls, Bait-and-Switch, & Other Shady Business Tactics
There's so much to unpack with the scam that is Marni & The Wing Girl Method.
A.) The use of AI Wing Girls. Marni's main Wing Girl "Jess" is clearly AI and not a person. Jess will text back and forth with you, and eventually it becomes apparent that is is an automated AI text-message account and not a real human being.
1.)"Jess" will summarize everything you just texted in a way that just reeks of AI.
2.)The annoying automated texts from "Jess". It's quite normal for "Jess" to text me asking if I'm coming to a Zoom Workshop when my literal previous text message to her stated I wouldn't be able to attend the workshop. And then subsequent reminder texts/emails after that. The automation really exposes that there's not a human being behind the "Jess" account.
3.) The other annoying automated text where Jess will text saying she has a gift for you, only for that gift to be a link to a survey scam (keep reading for more about this survey scam).
4.)The latest scam text from "Jess" was a text out of the blue saying she thought we had a session scheduled for today. Bear in mind I've never scheduled a session with her nor do I have an active membership. Jess then sends a follow-up text saying the previous text was a mistake, and to make up for it she sends a link to "book a session with her" that in fact is just a link to same survey-scam Marni uses ad nauseum (keep reading for more on that).
5.)"Jess" will message and respond to texts outside of normal North American business hours. I've gotten texts from her at 1am on weeknights as well as all hours of the day Saturday and Sunday.
B.) The Survey Scam. Marni uses questionable & deceptive business practices, promising a "Free Wing Girl Session if you complete a survey. (Spoiler alert: there is no free Wing Girl Session). The procedure goes like this:
1.)Marni or Jess sends you to a survey link, promising a "Free Wing Girl Session" for completing the survey.
2.)Most times at the end of the survey, you don't even get the option to schedule a free Wing Girl Session. Instead, you get Marni's Robocall scam (more on that below).
3.)Marni uses a sophisticated Robocall system that will ring your phone for an imperceptibly short amount of time (a fraction of a second) before somehow going right to voicemail. You'll see a missed call on your phone despite your phone not ringing, and then you'll get a voicemail shortly thereafter. The voicemail is meant to sound personalized for you as if Marni actually called you individually, but in reality the same voicemail gets sent to everyone who fills out the survey. It's a clever ruse to make it look like Marni is actually calling you, but after the same process repeated itself for me several times over the past year, it was easy to determine that Marni is using a Robocall system.
4.)Once Marni has your email, expect to get spammed with several emails per day. I got 3 emails today alone!
5.) Sometimes AI "Jess" will text to ask if I got Marni's voicemail, which is kind of ironic when I get the text minutes BEFORE receiving the Robocall voicemail.
C.) The "Free Wing Girl Session" bait and switch. One time when I was extraordinarily patient and lucky, I got to schedule a Wing Girl Session. But when I joined the Zoom meeting, instead of meeting with a Wing Girl, I met with a male sales associate. It wasn't a Wing Girl Session at all, heck it wasn't a Wing Girl!!! What I got after going through multiple surveys was a very expensive sales pitch from a male sales associate. I was quoted a price of $1000 for their "low end" package. If you want to work with Marni herself, that'll run you at least $10,000.
D.) Marni's 12 Days of Christmas "gifts". Marni did an e-mail blast around the holidays, promising a free gift in each email over the course of 12 days. 40% of those e-mails contained no free gifts, only links to purchase programs from Marni and coaches Marni partners with.
the TL;DR is: Marni uses AI Wing Girls, bait-and-switch tactics, shady Robocall systems, and questionable business practices in each and every aspect of her business.
Response from WinggirlmethodJan 27, 2026
Thank you for taking the time to share your experience. I’m genuinely sorry to hear that parts of your interaction with our company felt frustrating or misleading — that’s never the intention of what we do here.
I want to clarify a few things for transparency, since future clients may read this as well.
About “Jess” and messaging:
We use a combination of team support and automated systems to make sure men get reminders, resources, and follow-up. Some messages are automated (like workshop reminders or scheduling follow-ups), while others come directly from members of our team. The goal is to make sure no one falls through the cracks — but I understand how automation can sometimes feel impersonal or mistimed, and that feedback is helpful.
About surveys and calls:
The surveys we send are used to understand someone’s dating history and goals so we can determine what level of support may be the best fit. After surveys, some people are invited to strategy or clarity calls with a team member. These calls are not coaching sessions — they’re conversations to explore whether our programs are right for someone. I’m sorry if that expectation wasn’t clear in your experience.
About pricing and programs:
We offer a range of programs at different investment levels, and no one is ever required to move forward. The purpose of those calls is to provide clarity and options, not pressure.
About emails and promotions:
We send educational content, event invites, and promotional offers. That said, no one should feel overwhelmed, and unsubscribing is always one click away. If our communication volume felt excessive, I completely understand how that could be frustrating.
My team and I work with thousands of men, and we truly care about helping them grow in confidence and connection. We’re not perfect, and feedback like this helps us improve how we communicate and set expectations.
If you’d like to speak directly with someone on our team to resolve any lingering concerns, you can reach us at [support email].
Wishing you the best on your journey,
Marni and team
HE
Henry
A complete waste of time and money.
It was a complete waste of time and money.
I signed up for the highest price program, and immediately got links to listen to two things: one about talking like an idiot to women (which does attract idiots), and the other a meditation thing to listen to, which was broken into about fifteen "chapters" of one or two minutes each - I am supposed to click on the next "chapter" every minute or two.
Then I missed over half the calls because they didn't send me the links. When I complained they always said "but we sent you a whole schedule" to which I always complained "but you didn't send links" to which they never responded.
The "flirting practice" was 5 or 6 guys talking to one woman who asked how their dating had gone the past week - no mention of flirting. One guy said he starting drinking too much after his divorce, and stopped drinking for a couple of years now, she advised him to take a woman out for a drink.
One call with Marni was a bunch of guys on the line waiting for Marni to get on the call, which she never did (at least during the first half hour, after which I hung up).
Don't waste your time or money.
Response from WinggirlmethodJan 7, 2026
I’m genuinely sorry that your experience felt frustrating and disappointing. That’s never the outcome we want for any man who joins us—especially someone who invested in our highest-level program.
I do want to clarify a few things for context, both for you and for anyone reading this.
Our coaching program is structured and consistent by design. Calls happen at the same time every week, and all participants receive:
• a full onboarding walkthrough
• a written schedule
• reminder emails and texts with access links
• and ongoing support from our team for any tech or access issues
For some men, the format and technology click easily. For others, it can feel overwhelming despite repeated support—and while we do everything we can to help, that disconnect can unfortunately overshadow the coaching itself.
Regarding the content: our approach is not about “lines” or gimmicks. It’s about helping men develop real confidence, emotional presence, and authentic attraction skills that work with high-quality women—not scripted behavior that only attracts the wrong match. That philosophy resonates deeply with many men, but I understand it won’t land for everyone.
As for the group calls and practice sessions, they are intentionally designed to be interactive, supportive, and rooted in real-world dating experiences—not performative flirting. Many men find this format transformational; others are looking for something different.
Finally, I want to be clear: this experience is not reflective of the majority of our clients. We’ve worked with thousands of men over the years and currently have over 130 five-star reviews from men who found real success, clarity, and confidence through this exact program.
I’m truly sorry this wasn’t the right fit for you, and I wish you the best in finding an approach that aligns more closely with what you’re looking for.
— Marni
HB
Henry B.
Company scams
Company scams, does not refund, tries to lie and stall and refuses to give you a refund , do not buy any product from them, their response below is BS, all my digital products were refundable under their digital refund policy, but when i ask all they did was stall and try to upsell me for over a month, OVER A MONTH , NO refund, this is a scam company don't believe their lies in the resposne
Response from WinggirlmethodJan 6, 2026
hi henry! I am so sorry to hear about your experience. We have a policy to respond to customers within 24 hours within our support team. We also do give refunds to everyone that qualifies for them.
BUT we do have several items that are not refundable.
Please contact our support team. I fear you were writing back to our general inbox which is monitered much more slowly. Write to [email protected] to request your refund and if you are eligable you will be refunded ;)
So sorry for any stress!! That is not what we want to create for you :)
JK
Jonathan K.
Refused refund, scam company
Do not trust them, they're not refunding me and they keep stalling, i bought their stuff thinking i could try it out and they would honor their 60 day refund but they don't, they keep stalling and trying to get me to buy more things, its ridiculous to the point where i told them multiple times and they refuse toe refund me, update 1/7/2026, they're completely lying, i have full receipts that I bought just last month and requested a refund a week after, they're making it seem like i bought 3 years ago because it looks bad on them, do not believe their response, I requested a refund within a week of buying and they stalled for a month this is how they deny you of a refund, its literally a scam
Response from WinggirlmethodJan 6, 2026
Hi Jonathan!! I see that you bought our product back in april of 2023. It is now January 1st 2026. Sadly this is way past our refund time :(.
I highly suggest you dive into this program because it is awesome and you have access for life.
IF you didn't feel it was a fit, I will offer this one time trade in for you like. Write to [email protected] and I will trade for another program for free and you can keep the other one :)
TB
Thomas B.
It appears to me to be an enticement…
It appears to me to be an enticement for money. I don't have confidence that you will produce.
Response from WinggirlmethodDec 31, 2025
Thank you for sharing your thoughts. I completely understand why you might feel that way — investing in yourself can feel like a big step, especially when it comes to dating and personal growth.
Our goal is never to simply sell products; it’s to provide tools, guidance, and support that genuinely help men succeed with women. Many men who were skeptical at first have seen real results after applying what we teach, and our team is always available to give personalized guidance if something doesn’t make sense or isn’t working.
If you’d like, our support team is happy to answer any questions or help you see exactly how the program works and what kind of results you can expect.
— The Wing Girl Team
JS
Jeff S.
I paid quite a bit of money for nothing…
I paid quite a bit of money for nothing couldn't login and no assistance
Response from WinggirlmethodDec 31, 2025
I never love to hear this!! We have an amazing support team that is there to assist you and typical turn around time on support tickets are under 24 hours.
I'm so sorry you had this experience. PLEASE email our team with your purchase info and they will get you access ASAP: [email protected]
Thank you
BI
Bill
This is a complete con game
This is a complete con game. Aggressive sales tactics. Spam call after spam call. This business should be shut down. DO NOT ENGAGE THEM.
Response from WinggirlmethodDec 31, 2025
I totally get how receiving multiple messages can feel overwhelming, and I’m sorry if it came across as too much. Our team only reaches out to guys who have signed up because we want to be sure no one misses out on the help they asked for. Sometimes one day isn’t the right time, but the next day it could be.
That said, if you’d like us to stop contacting you, just reply with “STOP,” and we’ll remove you from our list immediately—no questions asked.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts, and I hope you find the support and guidance that works best for you.
— Marni
