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David P.
Jul 19, 2026
Why are they hiding basic details
Why are they hiding basic details? I need to know specific things like their city state height body type what exactly they are looking for in a partner BEFORE I spend credits. I signed up assuming this platform would focus on matching me with women within a driving distance but instead it’s throwing profiles at me from all over the US it is incredibly annoying. Faced the same problem on PlentyOfFish and OKCupid
Response from VioletDatesJul 20, 2026
Hi David, The search filters can help narrow things down by location, if you'd prefer to connect with people within driving distance, [email protected] can help you navigate the available options. Your feedback is useful, we're always working on improvements and input like yours helps us understand what matters most. Take care, Claire from VioletDates
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Nathalie O.
Apr 18, 2026
Site très cher
Site très, très cher, où tout est payant même ouvrir deux photos dans un courrier dont l'ouverture coûte 10 crédits, et l'ouverture de chaque photo à partir de la 2nde, 10 crédits par photos. De plus, impossible d'échanger un mail ou un numéro de téléphone quand après 2 semaines d'échanges, on a envie de fixer un RDV pour enfin se rencontrer. J'avais une super connexion avec un homme charmant, mais après plus de 800 euros d'achat de crédit en17 jourd, nous avons souhaité nous rencontrer. Mais impossible d'échanger nos coordonnées personnelles. Du coup, j'ai perdu la connexion avec cette personne quand je lui ai annoncé que je ne pourrais plus lui répondre par manque de crédits. Du coup, au bout de 3 jours sans réponse, il a fermé son profil. Très triste car l'histoire commençait bien.
Response from VioletDatesApr 19, 2026
Hi Nathalie, We appreciate you sharing your experience. Our platform is built for online communication, prioritizing safety and transparency for all users. Credits are only spent on the features you actively choose to engage with. If you have any questions about available options or need assistance, our team is happy to help at [email protected]. Take care, Claire from VioletDates
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Anu A.
Mar 20, 2026
I feel like the person on the otherside…
I feel like the person on the otherside is not real. Like I am chatting with AI
Response from VioletDatesMar 23, 2026
Hi Anu, Our platform has security measures in place to maintain a trustworthy environment, and many profiles are verified in line with our Terms of Services. If any specific conversation raised concerns, we encourage you to report it directly through the platform or reach out to us at [email protected], all reports are thoroughly reviewed. Take care, Claire from VioletDates
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Jane
Mar 4, 2026
The pop up sign with credits is just…
The pop up sign with credits is just awful..Need one day to fix the payment! Also do not have any guarantee that the person behind is not a fake. It is my first time here and I think I have already seen some fakes...I am just waiting for the moment when the person will ask for the money..Not trusting this site.
Response from VioletDatesMar 15, 2026
Hi Jane, Many user profiles are verified according to our Terms of Services to support a safe environment for communication. If you encounter behavior that raises concerns or appears unusual, you can report it so the situation can be reviewed. For assistance or questions about your experience on the platform, please contact our support team at [email protected]. Take care, Claire from VioletDates
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Sherri
Dec 27, 2025
Pay phone dating
I feel that although I have met nice guys on this site that maybe they work for this company. Like they get a kick back? I’m a lady. I’m not desperate. I thought this was a dating site to meet people. Instead I get bombarded with really young men every single day…even though I put my age requirements. Then when you get to chatting it’s like a pay phone. 📞 you have to keep putting coins to connect. Maybe this is a site for people who want fake. I do real. I fed the machine but now I’m done. You live and learn. I’m over this site and unless you want to pay to talk ….i think you will be over it too. Beware!!!
Response from VioletDatesJan 1, 2026
Hi Sherri, Our platform is built for online communication, and users join with different expectations and communication styles. Deceptive behavior or misuse is not tolerated, and many profiles are verified in line with our Terms of Service. Our community includes users of various ages, and while age filters are available to help narrow results, profile visibility can still vary based on activity and availability. Certain interactive features on the platform are credit-based, helping users control their activity and spending. If your filter settings didn’t work as expected or you’ve encountered interactions that raised concerns, this is something our support team should review directly. Please contact [email protected] so they can look into the details and assist further. Take care, Claire from VioletDates
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