Violetdates is an online dating platform designed for those who value deep connection and heartfelt conversations. Whether you're looking to add warmth to your day or enjoy light romantic communication, Violetdates creates the space to let those moments bloom naturally.Our platform focuses on helping people connect at their own pace, without pressure or expectations. Here, you can share thoughts, express yourself freely, and enjoy the experience of talking to like-minded individuals. It’s about enjoying meaningful exchanges and seeing where the moment leads — one message at a time.Every conversation is a chance to discover someone who brings positivity into your routine. With Violetdates, romance unfolds gently, bringing joy, comfort, and a touch of excitement into your life.Join Violetdates to enjoy thoughtful communication in a safe and welcoming environment. Whether you're here to connect with someone new or simply to explore romantic conversations, this is your place to feel inspired and enjoy every moment as it comes. Let romance bloom.
VioletDates (violetdates.com) has 154 customer reviews on Five Star Index, with an average rating of 3.4 out of 5.
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2026
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Dear Anthony,
We're pleased that you have chosen our platform and leave your positive feedback. Have fun communicating with your pen pals!
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VioletDates Customer Support
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VintageMXer
I have used this site and a sister…
I have used this site and a sister Latin site Funchatt. I have met a number of members on both sites and have been with 3 on Funchatt for a year. I DO have some skepticism at times but for the most part they have proven themselves to me. However, sometimes there are red flags - who doesn't have a cell phone that owns a business? I have even created another profile with a different name and "tested" my regulars. They were more than happy to chat with me so I'm feeling I am being used and something isn't right. How does a member chat with multiple guests? How can I be the only one? Are the members being paid when they receive messages, read letters, open photos and videos etc? Speaking of that, why in the world are videos so expensive to open?! They are only 20 seconds long! Various features are much too expensive for no reason. I am very frustrated with the price of many of the "features" on these sites especially videos. It's really unfortunate. I rarely open them. I have other complaints and suggestions including adding more emojis especially 'FACE' emojis. There isn't even a "hug" emoji! The site operator should communicate with me for advice on how to improve it. I have much experience here. But I have met some members that I am pleased with and am not suspicious of them as I have tested them carefully. Occasionally I see a member that is ALWAYS online - NEVER sleeps! Red flag! I DO wonder what their actual objectives are as this doesn't seem to be a real dating site but I do have fun anyway. I remain a cautious user.
Response from VioletDatesOct 12, 2022
Dear Member,
Thank you for taking the time to leave your feedback.
First and foremost, according to our Terms of Use, members shall not create duplicate profiles. The violation of this rule is a ground for blocking off your accounts, except for one. Please be reminded that you shall not attempt to create a new account with our service, otherwise, we will block all of your accounts permanently.
Also, note that members may be online whenever they want or can, sometimes they may leave their computer on with the open website, that’s why they are shown online, but they are away from the computer.
We do not pay the validated members for communication with other members, and prohibit our Regional Partners to do so. If we find out that the member is paid by the Partner for communication on his/her behalf, we fine the Partner and immediately delete the member’s profile.
Moreover, we try to make sure that all the validated members are interested in communication with other members of the website. For this purpose, we introduced the difficult procedure of verification steps for them. All of the members consciously made their decision to verify and register their accounts on the website to communicate with penfriends they find here and move forward beyond the platform if everything is going well.
We maintain a high level of customer support, which comes at a certain expense. There are different departments that care about our clients’ privacy and safety, investigate unusual cases to prevent different unexpected situations, and are aimed at providing only real and live communication. We are always at our customers’ service and ready to assist in any situations occurred.
However, we are always glad to offer some free credits to our customers, so please contact us via [email protected] in order to learn the details.
If you have any doubts regarding any member on the site, please provide us with their profile ID numbers, gathering as many details as you can regarding that issue along with the comments describing the issue you have faced, or any of your concerns regarding those members. Then please send that information with the proofs to [email protected] and we will check the case.
Should you have any questions, we are always here to help you.
Feel free to contact us back at any time.
Best regards,
Support Team VioletDates