VioletDatesReviews of violetdates.com

I dislike that I can't answer this pretty lady

Seems VERY similar to CharmDate which has sister Asian and Latin sites and operates on a PPL - pay per letter - basis, though the cost of credits does appear to be a bit more reasonable than the Qpid-owned/managed sites. Like CharmDate, the site appears to be populated exclusively by statuesque, beautiful individuals, with rarely one “minger” ever showing up - that fact alone sets alarm bells ringing. A scan through the reviews also suggests that most of them have been submitted by friends or employees of the business, written as they are in very uncomfortable English - who uses “interlocutors” on a regular basis!? This may or may not be a scam. I suspect that some of the women aren’t here for genuine reasons and some of the messages I’ve received seem to support that suspicion, so “left-field” and unrelatable are they…

This is one of dozens of international dating sites, it has good and bad features - you just have to decide if you want to use it. I agree with Nick, it appears like a scam with women who may not be genuine - it just needs a bit of judgement. I've tried others, J4L, GoldenBride etc etc. and they're all much the same. You can spend a lot of money buying their 'credits'. Simple chatting isn't expensive on these sites, but once you start downloading videos and sending emails with photos, your credits disappear fast and it can be a bit addictive!. I think there ARE some genuine women on the site, it isn't difficult to work it out.....but when they enter into stupid conversations and ask irrelevant questions, its time to delete the contact, the more you spend credits the more you are paying the site (and maybe the women!) On the plus side, the site is actually run by responsible people....I've requested refunds several times and always had my money returned. So - I think you just have to be cautious and work out what is going on....its a bit of a long shot, do you really want to travel to Ukraine or Russia on the off chance of meeting someone who doesn't speak much English and might be hesitant to come to the UK or USA. Its all a bit of a gamble, you just have to have your wits about you and be wary of wasting money.!