Michael
A big waste of money, with false promises
I enrolled in Three Day Rule (TDR) in April 2025 with the expectation of receiving a highly personalized, curated matchmaking experience, as advertised. I paid nearly $5,000 based on their assurances that matches would be hand-selected, aligned with my stated preferences, and reflect a high level of vetting. In nearly two months, I was presented with five prospects. One date: The only date that occurred made it clear there was no interest in a second meeting. Two prospects: Were entirely outside of my stated preferences (one significantly older than my range, another significantly overweight). One prospect: Was unresponsive, slow to communicate, and ultimately stated she was "too busy to date." One prospect: While attractive and intelligent, was incompatible in a core area I was clear about from the outset (sex-positive mindset). After multiple dates, she turned away from even a simple kiss and admitted, "I don’t know what’s wrong with me," making it clear intimacy was not on the table. These outcomes do not reflect the personalized vetting or compatibility screening that TDR promised. Despite multiple emails to their team (including escalations to “Customer Experience”), the resolution offered was to continue “trying” with no accountability for past failures, and they refused to consider any refund, citing a “non-refundable contract.” While they did provide three matches, they did not meet the standards set forth in their own marketing. This service failed to deliver what was represented, and I am requesting that TDR either issue a partial refund or be formally investigated for misleading business practices. I have acted in good faith, been patient and responsive throughout the process, but the service was not as advertised and has been a waste of both time and money.
Response from Three Day Rule MatchmakingJan 28, 2026
Thank you for taking the time to share such detailed feedback. We’re sorry to hear that your experience did not meet the expectations set at the outset. What you’ve described isn’t the standard we aim to provide. Matchmaking is a nuanced, highly personal process, and while we carefully screen for alignment across stated criteria, outcomes and chemistry can’t be guaranteed. We also take communication and client feedback seriously throughout the process. We appreciate that you engaged in the process in good faith and communicated your concerns along the way. Feedback like yours is taken seriously and is used to continually refine how we set expectations, vet matches, and support our clients throughout their membership. We wish you the very best moving forward. Please reach out to our team directly to discuss further at [email protected]. — The Three Day Rule Team




