TheBlowers.com is an online dating platform dedicated to gay and bisexual men, with a focus on encounters centered around oral pleasure. The site brings together a diverse community of men of all ages and backgrounds, offering a friendly and discreet space to build authentic connections. With a variety of interactive features, TheBlowers.com makes it easy for members to connect, encouraging fulfilling encounters that respect everyone’s preferences.
TheBlowers (theblowers.com) has 261 customer reviews on Five Star Index, with an average rating of 4.3 out of 5.
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theblowers.com
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Adult Entertainment
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2026
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J'ai été prélevé 1 mois d'abonnement alors que j'avais supprimé mon compte
Service incompétent. - J'ai été prélevé 1 mois d'abonnement après avoir resillé mon compte lors d'un essai à 1€. Impossible de me faire rembourser car il retrouve plus mon compte (!!!???).
Réfléchissez à 2 avoir avant de payer avec votre carte bancaire. Ma banque ne peut pas faire d'annulation.
Response from TheBlowersJun 15, 2026
Nous sommes désolés de lire votre avis, mais nous tenons à apporter une précision importante : un compte supprimé ou résilié ne peut pas continuer à générer un abonnement actif de notre côté.
Afin de vérifier précisément votre situation, nous vous avons envoyé une demande d’informations via Trustpilot. Cela nous permettra d’identifier le compte concerné, de contrôler l’historique associé et de vous apporter une réponse claire.
À très bientôt,
L’équipe TheBlowers 😉
AL
Al
It feels like this site is meant to make money and enable xxx work
It feels like this site is meant to just make money off gay people.
It's decently made, comfortable to use and works fast... But that's pretty much it.
The experience after the trial ends is constant inability to check profiles or communicate properly.
What I've "liked" the most is the problem with age verification. For whatever reason this site is available to all ages, but as soon as you try one of it's segments it's asking for a 3rd party age verification. And I fo have a problem with it already, but to add trauma to the injury - it does not work well, it just wouldn't let me verify myself.
Administration "surprised" me too, with ignoring pretty much everything illegal or wrong on that website. It is not safe to use.
Response from TheBlowersMar 22, 2026
Thank you for your feedback.
We are sorry to read about your experience.
TheBlowers operates on a freemium model: some features remain available for free, while others require a Premium subscription to improve your experience on the site. This also allows us to offer a website with no advertising, and without collecting or reselling your personal data.
Regarding age verification, it is in place to secure access to sensitive content and protect minors, as required by law. It is handled by a recognized third-party provider, although in some technical cases human assistance may be needed.
Finally, moderation and safety are top priorities for us. Contrary to what you mention, we operate 24/7 to deal with inappropriate content and behavior, and a simple report is enough to alert our team.
To better understand your situation, especially regarding the verification issue and the elements you reported, we invite you to send us your details (username, email address, and screenshots if possible). This will allow us to review your case properly and offer you a suitable solution.
We remain at your disposal to look into this seriously.
The TheBlowers Team 😉
WO
🍆worshipper
The WORST customer service team ever!!
The WORST customer service team ever!!! Creating safe environment?? Your own attitude is more like sarcastic, fully judgemntal idiots!!! stay away from these horrible people ever!!!
My accounts are inactived rudely unfairly and the WORST customer service team is even making it WORST!!! Check on how they write and respond to people's feedback here
Response from TheBlowersFeb 3, 2026
We’re sorry to hear that you feel this way about your experience.
Member safety and respectful interactions are our top priorities. Account deactivations are never carried out arbitrarily; they only occur when a breach of our rules or applicable laws is identified, following a review by our moderation team.
Our support team applies these rules consistently to ensure a safer environment for everyone, even if decisions may sometimes be perceived negatively.
If you believe an error has occurred, you are welcome to contact us calmly with detailed information so your case can be reviewed again.
Kind regards.
TheBlowers team 😉
RB
Ronny Bernd K.
Absolute Schrott-Webseite
Absolute Schrott-Webseite. Man guckt sich da etwas 25 Profile an und kann dann ohne Premium nichts mehr machen. Man kann sich dann nicht Mal mehr die Profile ansehen, die einem geschrieben haben. Wie affig ist das denn??? Man legt es dort also drauf an, den Nutzer in ein Blinddate zu schicken. Never! Mit derartigen Abofallen ködert man keinen. Habe mein Profil nach 12 Stunden wieder gelöscht. Scheinen zudem viele Fakes unterwegs zu sein. Verifikation? Fehlanzeige! Bin mir nach Sichtung einiger Profile auch sicher dass da Jugendliche unter 18 unterwegs sind. Alterschecks? Ebenso Fehlanzeige.
Response from TheBlowersJan 26, 2026
Hallo,
Es tut uns leid, dass Ihr Eindruck negativ ist, jedoch entsprechen mehrere der genannten Punkte nicht der tatsächlichen Funktionsweise unserer Plattform.
TheBlowers ist eine Website ohne Werbung und ohne Verkauf persönlicher Daten. Diese Entscheidung bedeutet, dass unser Geschäftsmodell auf Abonnements basiert und nicht auf der Ausbeutung von Nutzerdaten.
Entgegen Ihrer Aussage sind Profile weiterhin kostenlos einsehbar, ebenso wie die Nachrichtenfunktion. Die Premium-Mitgliedschaft schaltet zusätzliche Funktionen und mehr Komfort frei, blockiert jedoch nicht die grundlegende Kommunikation.
Zum Thema Fake-Profile: Das nehmen wir sehr ernst. Wir bieten mehrere Vertrauensmechanismen, darunter:
• Profil-Zertifizierung
• Bewertungen/Erfahrungsberichte anderer Mitglieder
• automatische Erkennungssysteme
• tägliche manuelle Moderation
Verdächtige Profile können gemeldet werden und werden schnell überprüft.
Minderjährige sind strikt verboten. Wir führen Alterskontrollen durch, insbesondere bei Mitgliedern, die die vollständige, uneingeschränkte Nutzung der Plattform wünschen. Bei Zweifeln wird ein Konto sofort gesperrt.
Wir verstehen, dass unser Modell nicht für jeden geeignet ist, aber Sicherheit, Privatsphäre und die Qualität der Community stehen bei uns an erster Stelle.
Das TheBlowers Team 😉
DA
Dan
Update my review NO REFUND NO RESPECT
I had to update my review: many fake male profiles are created directly by the company to push users into purchasing a premium subscription.
No refund was issued for my paid subscription, even though my account was suspended shortly before its expiration without any valid explanation.
The team was sarcastic and unwilling to resolve the issue. Absurd.
I initiated a bank dispute, and the team asked me to close it, making me feel like I was in the wrong if I didn’t.
Response from TheBlowersJan 2, 2026
Your behavior is unacceptable and constitutes harassment toward our teams.
Despite multiple clear and final responses, you have continued to send repeated messages and requests. This persistence only further confirms the behavior in question.
The decision regarding your account is final and will not be reconsidered. Your account will remain permanently banned.
This matter is now closed. We will not respond to any further messages or requests on this subject.
We fully stand by our decision and are proud to protect our members and our community from this type of profile and behavior.
TheBlowers Team 😉
FR
Francesco
The bank sent me what you wanted
The bank sent me what you wanted, namely the end of the complaint. I refused to delete the banking transaction as you requested. Can I now get a verification?
It's not my fault the bank clerk said she wouldn't send any confirmation. I even have a recording of what she said. If you don't believe me.
The refund promised?
Response from TheBlowersDec 30, 2025
Your behavior is unacceptable and constitutes harassment toward our teams.
Despite multiple clear responses, you continue to send repeated messages and requests, which only confirms this behavior.
The decision regarding your account is final: it will remain banned.
The matter is closed, and we will no longer respond to any further requests on this subject.
We fully stand by this decision and are proud to protect our members and our community from this type of profile and behavior.
TheBlowers Team 😉
YG
Yukine G.
Absolutely appalled about how customer service is handled
It's the second time I have been blocked for fraudolent reports. With no warning, no message, nothing. The app just stopped working.
That already rude as hell. Not replying to any contact form makes it worse.
I finally wrote to the x profile, who could help me the first time but apparently not now. There is also no indication to whom or where I can turn to to get the issue solved. Just why? I love the app and wanna use it bloody hell.
Edit: Except that's not even what happened? Not that I got a chance to explain.
Furthermore, after I was unbanned I got reported again, although I did nothing wrong, prompting a second ban wich is even more unjustified than the first, where at least there had been a misunderstanding. There has been no communication in app or out of it before or after the second ban. The situation hasn't even been examined nor moderated, just reacted to on preconception. Not cool. Also not being able to contact customer service at all is utterly ridiculous in any shape or form.
Response from TheBlowersDec 4, 2025
Thank you for your feedback.
After review, we have replied to all your messages through our website. Your account was permanently banned because you shared photos of a third party without their permission, which is a serious violation of our guidelines.
Our priority is to protect our community, and this decision was clearly explained to you during your exchanges with our moderator.
We are therefore unable to reactivate your account.
TheBlowers team 😉
RC
RC
A lot of guys will leave you on read…
A lot of guys will leave you on read after making it sound like they’re interested in playing. Gays always have to make a game and ruin another app
Response from TheBlowersDec 4, 2025
Thank you for your feedback.
We understand that some interactions can be frustrating, but every user remains free in how they communicate and who they choose to engage with. While TheBlowers cannot control individual behaviour, we do our best to provide a safe, smooth and respectful environment.
We encourage you to prioritize verified profiles, which offer greater reliability, as well as profile testimonials, which allow you to see whether a member has already met other users and help you better assess their credibility.
If you’d like to share more details so we can improve your experience, we’re here to listen.
TheBlowers team 😉
