I was a member of Seeking (or Seeking Arrangements as it was previously called) for eight years and was recently given a permanent suspension. What was my crime? I offered young women money for video chatting with me. Sounds really serious, doesn't it? It seems that they don't like people using their website for "commercial activity." However, they don't have any problem with married men using it to cheat on their wives. In fact, they make it easy for them by displaying the company's name on their credit card not as Seeking or Seeking Arrangements but as W8 Tech.com so that the little missus doesn't suspect anything.
PO
Pissed O.
Site full of Escorts, Scammers and Fakes
It's nothing more than a site full of Escorts but, if you talk about 'business' you get banned. There is no way to appeal as they state that they won't talk to you about it and will not provide any proof on why you have been banned.
Their Ts & Cs state that you can be banned for anything they don't like, without warning and no right of appeal or refund.
I was banned, without warning, with a week of my membership still to go. I've contacted my credit card company for a refund.
AR
Arthur
GIGANTIC RIP-OFF and may be SCAM as…
GIGANTIC RIP-OFF and may be a FRONT FOR PROSTITUTION as well!
Billed as a "Dating Site," oh sure, if you can or want to PAY for it - Dating site my xxx. It appears there are quite a few women on the site, however MOST OF THEM ARE NOT ACTIVE, and SA does not remove their profile. I spent a little time removing the non-current listings and the total number of viable women was astonishingly LOW.
I also personally believe they utilize SHILLS of fake profiles. I found some where a woman was using a previous woman's profile who was no longer on the system. Also, some women that seemed to live on this system, and would never give you any real info, they are either emotionally sad wanna-be or fakes - neither of which you want to pay for.
Most of the women though they were god's gift, often referring to themselves as "Eye candy" or "Arm Candy" well unfortunately they had overblown ideas of how they looked. Most are average to slightly above average, many are outright losers and lowlifes. Many ARE NOT in great shape, though they post these ridiculous pictures of themselves in overweight, unprofessional poses, or looking like carnival tramps on a "Busman's Holiday."
Another facet, these women, when queried as to what they were seeking, said they wanted XXX$ for an allowance or whatever...they gotta be kidding, what planet are they from? That's why precisely most of them are beggars and sad mooches because they have about as much chance of getting this amount of coin as i do of getting picked to man a NASA space ship.
A good many of the women I encountered were truly ignorant, under-educated, and unpleasant, few social skills (because they were not taught any by their equally deficient parents), trailer trash; the type I would never have to my house- they appear to me like they would be better off standing on a street corner soliciting business!
And then when you ask them what they want they throw out $ figures that are absurd, these desperate women are living in a Fantasyland that no man would offer these very average (or worse, just comical)!
SAVE YOUR MONEY - THIS IS A TOTAL WASTE OF TIME AND MONEY - there are FREE (or much cheaper) sites where you can get a better far better selection, this is the dregs..
LY
Lyne
Sugar Baby VS Prost***ée
Franchement dégoutée. Des hommes cherchant à payer pour avoir des relations sexuelles, se permettant d'être insultant et humiliant lorsque on leurs expliquent la différence entre Pros****ée et Sugar Baby.
90% de pseudos dominants (n'ayant jamais mis les pieds dans le bdsm à l'exception de 50 nuances de grey), en quête de fierté masculine et de virilité
Moi qui espérais rencontrer des hommes matures pour avoir un mentorat c'est raté.
PB
Peter B.
Signed me up for their service without…
Signed me up for their service without my knowledge. Now I'm getting spammed with emails telling me to use the website. I have never even visited this website! All the hallmarks of a scam.
HO
Honey
The entire thing is a scam!
The entire thing is a scam ochestrated by the owner, IN MY OPINION.
This site charges men to use it and I cant speak for their experiences but the reviews on here clearly indicate the user experience is dreadful.
As a woman, I was bombarded with stupid messages from many clearly fake accounts. My theory is that this company, seeking arrangement; employs a bunch of people to create many fake profiles and connect with women on this website in order to keep you coming back to it simply to show you their Google ads. Many of the so called men who contacted me would have their accounts deactivated not long after, I'm guessing they do this to make it seem as if there are more men on the site than what there actually is and also to keep creating new accounts. Also a good indication that these are fake accounts is that almost all them make absolutely no effort to arrange a meeting, it's all just pointless back and forth messages. Also they are online at really weird times of the morning. I honestly cant imagine that a really successful man with a high powered job or business to manage has the time to be on seeking arrangement at 3 in the bloody morning.
They get money from the men and then keep the women hooked through phoney profiles in order for us to keep looking at Google ads. Its really obvious how these accounts are fake, the first message is always a long 6 paragraph message with a bunch of bad grammar and generic nonsense. Highly doubt the average man is writing out these silly over the top messages, it makes no sense. Also almost all of these men seem to have come to the general consensus that PPM is £250, exactly who came up with this nonsense? If you want to do PPM at £250 than you should much rather see a xxx worker. Clearly all the people employed to operate the fake accounts have been given a script and £250 is what they keep regurgitating in their mindless back and forth.
I'm sure there are real men on here looking for sugar babies but there seems to be more fakes than real men.
Im very disappointed with this website and the deceptive nature of the owners. I would not advise anyone to use this mess of a website, thankfully I didn't pay them any of my money. I was thinking of boosting my profile but soon realised it would be a waste.
BS
brandy S.
Horrible
Horrible !
Certains ne savent pas ce qu'est une SUGAR baby.
Tous clament haut et fort ne pas vouloir une pro*******mais abordent et agissent exactement comme telle( mais gratos si possible) mais en vérité si, ils recherchent tous une p******** à moindre coût !
Une belle escorte coûte une fortune ! Donc avoir une p*te personnelle pour pas Cher que demande le peuple ! Surtout que certains sont vraiment pleins aux as ,oui il y en a mais ce sont les plus radins (surtout les français) exigeants mais à moindre coût ! Je suis dégoûtée vraiment !
Il est écrit que le SUGAR daddy est un vrai gentlemen ,un mentor ,respectueux et protecteur bla bla bla ...,ce sont en réalité de gros dégueulasses,des menteurs,pervers sans classe aucune !
La première chose que l'on veut savoir se vous c'est si vous êtes " soumise ou dominatrice" " bien chaude" ....
Ils sont tous dans leur délire à la 50 nuances de Gray à la c**( depuis ce film ils sont tous devenus complément tarés) recherchant leur petite soumise qui doit obéir à la lettre ,assouvir leurs désirs pervers dégueulasse !je vous assure que c'est vrai ! Une SUGAR babies c'est pour eux une p*** soumise qui fera tout ce qu'on lui demande tellement elle galère ( ils en ont conscience)
Par contre ils n'engageront jamais la discussion sur l'aspect financier de l'arrangement en lui même ( oui oui c'est bien un arrangement)si toutefois vous sautez le pas, prenez l'initiative d'en parler ,n'ayez aucune honte ,eux ne se privent pas , mais alors pas du tout ! Profitant de la misère de jeunes filles ou femmes et ILS LE SAVENT TRÈS BIEN, car il ne faut pas se mentir si on aurait pas besoin d'argent,je pense que l'on serait très peu sur ce site.il y a beaucoup de faux profils,n'importe qui peut se payer un abonnement ne vous laissez pas avoir même par les " diamond" , pensez vous vraiment qu'un vrai SUGAR daddy va perdre son temps dans un site aux photos toutes retouchées ??? Il sait très bien où aller et trouver une panoplie de " SUGAR babies" si il le veut et ,non, ce n'est pas sur seeking qu'ils trouveront leur perle et ils le savent très bien ! Rare sont les filles très belles et honnêtes en même temps !
Toutes les vraies sugars babies dont moi qui en fait partie vous diront la même chose : la vraie vie,le terrain,le réel,SORTEZ DANS DES ENDROITS CHICS SUSCEPTIBLE D'EN TROUVER,METTEZ VOUS SUR VOTRE 99 ( LOL) AYEZ CONFIANCE EN VOUS ET RESTEZ VOUS MÊME ( OUI LES VRAIS SUGARS DADDIES ADORENT LES FILLES AUTHENTIQUES ,SOURIANTES, GENTILLES BELLES ET HONNÊTES CONTRAIREMENT À CE QUE L'ON PEUT CROIRE,CE SONT DE VRAIS HOMMES ET DÉTECTE TRÈS VITE UNE NANA TORDUE)
ALORS NON ILS NE VEULENT PAS VOUS AIDER ! ILS VEULENT VOUS B****R POINT !( SUR LE SITE)
Parlez toujours argent avant la rencontre , ça vous évitera de perdre votre temps (aussi votre argent si vous vous déplacez)
LE TEMPS C'EST DE L'ARGENT !
il y a des endroits où trouver des SUGAR daddy , à Paris plein de lieux où on en trouve ET DES VRAIS !
AUSSI FAITES ATTENTION BEAUCOUP DE DÉSÉQUILIBRÉS, DROGUÉS ,SADO ET COMPLÈTEMENT TARÉS !
PE
Peter
Not worth the money. Review from a diamond membership on SA
I purchased a diamond membership in order to stand out. The amount of scammers and timewasters on here is atrocious. I have had 4 real potentials in about 60 messages and 2 no-shows to meets. Photos are fake for a lot of them. There appears to be little in the way of screening, new profiles are created and then dissappear in a day or two.This has been a massive dissapointment.i will be cancelling my subscription. Take the hit of a few weeks of lost time.